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πŸ’›Allison Crow

@theallisoncrow.bsky.social

πŸ’› IFS coach for life & biz: SELF-trust, SELF-recovery for overachievers/people pleasers in midlife πŸ’› #Author of π‘Όπ’π’‚π’“π’Žπ’π’“π’†π’… #writerlife πŸ’› #internalfamilysystems πŸ’› #AuDHD late dx πŸ’›The Wild Edges of Being Human πŸ€“She/her

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Stay self-connected. Stay community connected. Stay human.

27.01.2026 18:46 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Tried to get my real ID. I had my license, my SS card and my birth certificate.

I was not allowed to get my real ID because my birth name is different than my married name. Now I have to go dig up a marriage certificate. You know who wouldn’t have to do this? A man.

Never change your last name.

22.09.2025 17:36 β€” πŸ‘ 25824    πŸ” 6093    πŸ’¬ 2023    πŸ“Œ 488
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#109 Training in Compassion - Skillful Means Podcast Continuing our series on Awakening the Heart, this month we're exploring the Buddhist path of the bodhisattva through the cultivation of bodhicitta - the awakened heart-mind that forms the foundation of compassionate living. Drawing from Maha...

This month on the pod,, we're training up compassion.

Highlights:
~ cultivating an open-hearted attitude
~ character strengths of enlightened beings
~ Lojong, Tibetan Buddhist Mind Training for cultivating compassion

www.skillfulmeanspodcast.co...

08.07.2025 12:06 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

He was in Greece and stayed for a few extra days after he heard the news.

08.07.2025 12:23 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Shout out to those who are not β€œcontent creators” - not here to entertain or chase the algorithm- but are here to share our heart and show our work to educate and connect πŸ’›

08.07.2025 12:22 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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08.07.2025 12:21 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Grief Lives in the Body Grief isn’t just emotionalβ€”it’s physical. This post explores how loss impacts your body and includes simple tools for somatic care and nervous system support.

Tight jaw. Racing heart. Exhaustion that sleep can’t touch.

Grief shows up in the body long before we name it.

This post is about how to listen, support, and return to yourselfβ€”without needing to β€œfix” anything.
#grief #somaticgrief #griefsupport #healingjourney

05.07.2025 17:07 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It takes up so much energy and space to be in pain!

01.07.2025 02:33 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Your limited capacity is not a moral failure.

01.07.2025 02:33 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

This…. All of it is alarming.

12.06.2025 22:40 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you.

12.06.2025 22:37 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Some days require fiction by the pool. Thanks H for the new book and the reminder that I can put down my β€œlearning” books every now and then. Happy Saturday, y’all.

24.05.2025 18:25 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Agreed. πŸ‘πŸΌπŸ‘πŸΌπŸ‘πŸΌ

21.05.2025 15:39 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Take time to look and listen - when it all finally makes sense. Finally coming home to re-enchantment. Gawd knows the world needs more of it. allisoncrow.substack.com/p/take-time-...

21.05.2025 15:39 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Crow doodles!

20.05.2025 20:21 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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As I walked my dog this morning - just he and I and the road side wildflowers and weeds, I thought to myself…”I sure would like to be a poet but this having to make money sure is interfering.” β˜€οΈ

23.04.2025 19:13 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The stock portfolios of more than two dozen members of Congress outperformed the market in 2024.

This isn't due to luck or skill.

Lawmakers can use privileged information to trade stocks while they’re supposed to be working for you.

Make no mistake, it’s legalized corruption.

12.04.2025 16:00 β€” πŸ‘ 28574    πŸ” 9160    πŸ’¬ 801    πŸ“Œ 352
Texas bluebonnets

Texas bluebonnets

12.04.2025 13:06 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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No. You’ve been watching stock market fraud.

09.04.2025 23:11 β€” πŸ‘ 55597    πŸ” 12257    πŸ’¬ 2942    πŸ“Œ 799

Ya think.

09.04.2025 21:32 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It’s amazing how even just unbending and being with is often so effective. Not even having to go through the whole process.

08.04.2025 22:17 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Telling poor people to be more entrepreneurial is sick

01.04.2025 14:44 β€” πŸ‘ 839    πŸ” 248    πŸ’¬ 45    πŸ“Œ 25

this lens has been wholly transformative for me. And hooray London. I'm pretty sure all my past lives were there as it'
s the ONLY city my body relaxes in. And most of my DNA comes from there.

08.04.2025 13:50 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

What is something "no one talks about" in small business and solopreneurship that you wish people were talking about? πŸ’›

08.04.2025 13:43 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I love this. Slowing down has really served me.

08.04.2025 12:18 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

At some point, part of reclaiming yourself is learning about the tools you would never use β€” the ones that others may have used against you β€” so you can finally see them clearly for what they are. πŸ”š

04.04.2025 01:55 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

You were likely taught β€” directly or indirectly β€” to gaslight yourself. To doubt your own reality. To contort yourself into thinking they must be right and you must be wrong.
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04.04.2025 01:55 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Take gaslighting, for example. When someone with power over you (or someone trying to have power over you) gaslights you, you probably weren’t taught to recognize it as manipulation.⬇️

04.04.2025 01:55 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ”₯ Most of us were never trained to recognize the tactics that manipulative or deceitful people β€” or systems β€” use to gain power. Instead, we were trained to internalize their behavior, take it personally, and assume we were the problem.
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04.04.2025 01:55 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

Wouldn’t it be fun if it took off. I love short form video. And most of my engagement here comes from being on an IFS list. Good to see and hear you.

02.04.2025 22:30 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0