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Jess DeVries

@belovedcoaching.bsky.social

Somatic Sex Coach and Grief Worker. www.belovedcoaching.net linktr.ee/belovedcoaching #StillMasking

125 Followers  |  71 Following  |  26 Posts  |  Joined: 17.10.2023
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I'm launching a Trans Woman & Trans Fem somatics project with my friends Emmy and Zoe! Please support our fundraiser if you can - the money will go towards launching a trans fem somatics retreat this summer, as well as future healing and practitioner training dreams! chuffed.org/project/1684...

17.02.2026 16:55 β€” πŸ‘ 33    πŸ” 19    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Queer Non-Monogamous Kinky Widows Grief Circle If you are queer, non-monogamous, and kinky, grieving the death of a partner, this space is for you.

Tonight!

www.eventbrite.com/e/queer-non-...

09.02.2026 18:40 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Announcement of new website & self guided course. Black & white eye ball and mouth over shredded paper, a web and glowing star shape. 
Words say: hey! I made a new website 
And a brand new self guided course 
I'd love for you to see it. 
Softtouchbodies.com

Announcement of new website & self guided course. Black & white eye ball and mouth over shredded paper, a web and glowing star shape. Words say: hey! I made a new website And a brand new self guided course I'd love for you to see it. Softtouchbodies.com

It's ready enough to share! Check out the brand new softtouchbodies.com
#somaticsex #pleasure #embodiment #queer #trans #erotic #sexy

20.12.2025 06:09 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It’s beautiful!

12.11.2025 03:30 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Flogger!

17.10.2025 19:06 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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This Sunday! We’re talking about what got us HOT and BOTHERED about Dying for Sex.

Join us!

www.belovedcoaching.net/hotandbother...

16.07.2025 06:20 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Mindful Erotic Grief β€” Beloved Coaching You’re invited to a communal practice where we set our intentions on turning toward our individual mourning, welcoming erotic knowing, and holding space for one another's grief.

Does your grief need attention today? This is a soft space for you to grieve and not have to be alone with it.

I’d love to have you there.

www.belovedcoaching.net/mindful-erot...

28.05.2025 16:45 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Falling asleep to the cool smells of a spring night is such a pleasure.

28.05.2025 07:33 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Come & Cry: Pleasure, Grief & Queer Resistance Ritual for Pride β€” Beloved Coaching Come and Cry is a four week virtual workshop series for queers that is one part grief literacy, one part pleasure practice, one part collective erotic ritual, and one part transformative grief circle.

Queer babes. I’ve got a special offering for pride to hold our grief and honor our pleasure this Pride. There will also be a collective erotic ritual for queer resistance during our time together.

Come & Cry starts Sunday! I’d love to have you there.

www.belovedcoaching.net/come-and-cry

27.05.2025 02:11 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Trans and enby loves. We have a grief circle just for you this Thursday.

11.05.2025 07:15 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Mindful Erotic Grief β€” Beloved Coaching You’re invited to a communal practice where we set our intentions on turning toward our individual mourning, welcoming erotic knowing, and holding space for one another's grief.

Are you grieving? Join tonight’s grief space to be supported in your grief.

www.belovedcoaching.net/mindful-erot...

30.04.2025 19:08 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Who wants to celebrate Easter a little differently this year?

Virtual workshop for folks who want to shift the way their bodies relate to religious trauma and write affirming poetry from their lived experience.

Details here: www.belovedcoaching.net/the-flesh-is...

14.04.2025 03:26 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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I’ve got a few spots available for grief support this coming week. DM to schedule. ❀️

15.03.2025 19:58 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I love you so much babe. ❀️

18.02.2025 05:01 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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At A Loss: Grief 101 for Times of Crisis β€” Beloved Coaching We are all here in a time of immense grief and most of us are missing the knowledge and skills to show up to and with our grief… and the grief of one another. In this 2 hour workshop you will learn ...

Overwhelmed with what to do with all your grief right now?

Tomorrow’s workshop can help ease that overwhelm. ❀️

I’d love to have you there.

www.belovedcoaching.net/simple-pleas...

12.02.2025 04:40 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
[id : two slides with the same background of a weed altar. slide 1 : big white letters read β€œgrieve & chill” β€œa monthly virtual reflection space for stoners” β€œlink in bio to register” β€œsunday | march 19 | 1-230 pm pst google meet”]

[id : two slides with the same background of a weed altar. slide 1 : big white letters read β€œgrieve & chill” β€œa monthly virtual reflection space for stoners” β€œlink in bio to register” β€œsunday | march 19 | 1-230 pm pst google meet”]

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grieve & chill ✨

join us and our grief buddies for a unique afternoon of healing and connection at our virtual guided grief hang - elevated by 🌱 - we offer a non carceral space for exploring the intersections of grief, weed and community.

sunday | march 9 | 1-230 pm pst

link in bio to register!

10.02.2025 01:26 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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At A Loss: Grief 101 for Times of Crisis β€” Beloved Coaching We are all here in a time of immense grief and most of us are missing the knowledge and skills to show up to and with our grief… and the grief of one another. In this 2 hour workshop you will learn ...

Are you at at loss with what to do with all the grief of this moment?

Join me next week to increase your knowledge about grief and gain resources to support yourself and your communities.

www.belovedcoaching.net/simple-pleas...

07.02.2025 21:00 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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πŸ’œ join us πŸ’œ

2/12 @ 6–7 PM PST

link in bio to register

this monthly virtual support group has been reimagined as a place for BIPOC/PGM who experience SI to exist without the white gaze, without the need to explain, and without the threat of judgment or forced intervention.

07.02.2025 19:01 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Fantasies inside your own head are morally neutral. Sex between consenting parties is morally neutral. Even and especially the gross, weird, freaky stuff. There is not a moral hierarchy to sexual fantasies.

07.02.2025 12:13 β€” πŸ‘ 2658    πŸ” 869    πŸ’¬ 12    πŸ“Œ 17

❀️❀️❀️

04.02.2025 05:44 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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PDXOH A landing page for mutual aid and other helpful organizations in Portland, Oregon that are doing the work.

Just updated. 128 active PDX orgs and counting.
#pdxresourceshare #pdxvolunteering

23.01.2025 20:57 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1
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At A Loss: Grief 101 for Times of Crisis β€” Beloved Coaching We are all here in a time of immense grief and most of us are missing the knowledge and skills to show up to and with our grief… and the grief of one another. In this 2 hour workshop you will learn ...

I know a lot of folks are coming face to face with their grief after pushing it down for a long time.

If this is you and you don’t know what to do with all your grief, I’d love to share some information and skills with you.

#grief #toolsfortherevolution

www.belovedcoaching.net/simple-pleas...

29.01.2025 07:41 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Omg. πŸ˜‚

29.01.2025 07:30 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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This is My Body β€” Beloved Coaching This workshop series comes from a desire to share what we know about embodiment and pleasure while holding space for the deep inquiry it takes to define sexual values that are in alignment with the tr...

Hey all you dear #exvangelicals and #deconstructing folks! We have a sweet workshop series coming up just for you. Embodiment, pleasure, boundaries, choice… and how being more present in our bodies is a form of resistance.

www.belovedcoaching.net/this-is-my-b...

29.01.2025 07:29 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ˜‚

28.01.2025 22:08 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Very excited to read this! ❀️

27.01.2025 17:58 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Y'all, I am simply begging you to start masking up again. We will have no information on the pandemic currently underway AND no information when/if H5N1 makes the jump.

Don't wait for someone from the government to tell you to start protecting yourself because it will be way too late if they do.

23.01.2025 20:07 β€” πŸ‘ 327    πŸ” 146    πŸ’¬ 6    πŸ“Œ 5
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Does your grief need a place to be tomorrow (Wed)?

There’s space for you at Mindful Erotic Grief. Catch all the details and register in my linktree.

22.01.2025 03:56 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Crisp!

14.01.2025 07:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

To our dear erotic laborers… we have a grief training for you. If you want to be able to show up better to -and with-the grief of your clients, please consider joining us!

14.01.2025 07:44 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0