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Fer

@slettebak.bsky.social

Fer, your autistic hottie πŸŒŸβ™‹ @fervanhier on IG/TT | 32 | Frisian poly & pan, never catch me make a choice πŸ‰πŸ”ž buymeacoffee.com/fervanhier

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I can feel the slutty weather is upon us

05.03.2026 09:47 β€” πŸ‘ 46    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

they really just hate my autism. and theyre refusing to accommodate it, or even acknowledge it; in every way they punish me for my symptoms. no matter how much I explain the things im struggling with.

04.03.2026 13:26 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆ thank you bb

04.03.2026 13:25 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It's like, now that it happened outside of the shadows... it's finally officially real? I can acknowledge it wasn't all in my head and I'm not overreacting? It's kinda healing?

04.03.2026 13:24 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

my family just did a prime example of the mental abuse theyve done my whole life and for the first time it's in writing instead of behind closed doors, and my partner of ten years saw it. He was shocked. And I'm shocked by how shocked he was. And by how little I was shocked.

04.03.2026 13:23 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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these groceries are bout to be BOUGHT

03.03.2026 15:37 β€” πŸ‘ 62    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

well I always said boomer men would end us but not even I imagined it this way

03.03.2026 13:22 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

my hole is literally SO TIGHT I can't even wear the new earrings I got, because they're a little too thick? 😭 such a waste of money

03.03.2026 07:52 β€” πŸ‘ 15    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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My partner was so happy I started BG3 he accidentally took a Kali Uchis pic???

03.03.2026 07:24 β€” πŸ‘ 45    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ™ˆπŸ«Ά ty bb

01.03.2026 21:43 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

🫢🫢🫢

01.03.2026 21:43 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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face card? Unlimited autistic joy card never declines

01.03.2026 17:12 β€” πŸ‘ 114    πŸ” 5    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm shocked how I wasn't always loyal to my grassy babes

01.03.2026 17:11 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 3

😍😍😍

01.03.2026 17:07 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

wooof 😍

01.03.2026 17:06 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Tell me five classes you took in college:

- Old Norse
- The History of English
- Frisian Linguistics
- Minority Languages and Multilingualism
- Phonetics and Phonology

28.02.2026 11:27 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

get to the club nowwww

28.02.2026 10:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

then I guess the people whos type I am is just not at the clerb

28.02.2026 10:45 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ₯ΊπŸ«ΆπŸ«Ά

28.02.2026 10:44 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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cleaned up the cost rack and I completely forgot about this mirror

28.02.2026 10:44 β€” πŸ‘ 50    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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just went clubbing and it's crazy how every time I end up being low in my self-esteem and feel undesirable and ugly

28.02.2026 03:17 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 0
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except I'm forcing you two watch me be in a heterosexual relationship with ever-nude Shadowheart

27.02.2026 20:13 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

gracias guapitoooo

26.02.2026 17:58 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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found back an old necklace

26.02.2026 12:58 β€” πŸ‘ 73    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

sksks 😚

26.02.2026 13:16 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

no you!

26.02.2026 13:16 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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found back an old necklace

26.02.2026 12:58 β€” πŸ‘ 73    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0
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me having war flashbacks to high school thanks to the Crazy Frog lipsync

25.02.2026 10:01 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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just a small pit stop for ya

24.02.2026 12:26 β€” πŸ‘ 68    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I sure as hell have the smuttiest main with how often people say "this ain't your alt?"

24.02.2026 08:04 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0