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Joseph the Gray

@josephthegray.bsky.social

πŸ§šπŸ»β€β™‚οΈ Prioritize local businesses & support uz mountains Writer & Researcher | He/They Queer β€’ Pan β€’ Poly β€’ Fluid Soft Dom & Druid 🀼 Rated M: NSFW 21+ erotic, mythic, adult content 999 ⟑ This is my book β€” write urz πŸ’œ ⟑ 1111 https://linktr.ee/josephthegray

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I wish I could say I don’t understand people who suffer in silence.

….Who shrink. Who people-please.

But I do.
I lived that way for almost 30 years.

So people, please…say the thing. Even if it’s messy. &Especially if your voice shakes.

Silence keeps broken systems alive.
Truth interrupts them.

05.03.2026 09:03 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Submit πŸ§Žβ€β™‚οΈfor riding lessons 🀼

04.03.2026 23:53 β€” πŸ‘ 113    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 8    πŸ“Œ 0
Dude with dick out

Dude with dick out

I was trying to share the video and damn camera popped up πŸ€ͺ

04.03.2026 23:46 β€” πŸ‘ 95    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 0

Hell yeah dude 🀘🩡

04.03.2026 20:31 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Yeh, I manchild… add me : Josephthegray11

DMV - 280 🀼 6’3… 6’4 in boots heheπŸ§šπŸ»β€β™‚οΈ
Fluid Masc presentation
Queer as fuck tho and believe we all got pussys

&yeah I wanna see your cocks #unfiltered so you can see what you’d πŸ’¦ on…think I might go through a phase.

Ethically sourced ofcourse #slut

04.03.2026 18:45 β€” πŸ‘ 48    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

Hot

04.03.2026 16:14 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Yes you are

04.03.2026 13:53 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Husband and I had to have hard conversations…so many times. And in the end our goal was always to come to a place where we chose each other while still choosing ourselves. Been a dance to get to 15 years- a lot of mistakes, lots more love tho πŸ‘‰πŸ‘ˆ

04.03.2026 13:38 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Love to hear that. Every one should experience that, I know healthy love exists, and not just a fantasy…cause I’ve felt love, and created/have relationships where love stays….is honest. Committed. True.

04.03.2026 13:38 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

as always take what resonates - discard what doesnt

I just pulled the fool so we know things are about to get good πŸ€˜πŸ’¦ but remember look before stepping and

πŸ§šπŸΌβ€β™‚οΈ* hope you let your light dance when get the chance πŸͺ©πŸ«‚

04.03.2026 11:46 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

sorry if you read that and the YOU yelled at you, but you are worthy and deserve comfort, and care. you dont have to choose one of the other to find love. And you can offer these gifts to yourself…slowly, in love, every day, over time. thats how we heal attatchment. in the self.

04.03.2026 11:46 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

ive been all the attachment styles, really had to finding my preferences and learn they are all tactics -not set personality or trauma-based traits. we can change. with compassion & kindness

we are what we feed our brains, so YOU best be giving youz secure and kind thoughts all the damn time

04.03.2026 11:46 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

And no - I hardly ever wanna talk about the weather, and if I do… usually that means I’ve lost all care for the conversation. And looking for my exit hatch.

04.03.2026 10:41 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

If communication is so important why are there so many bozos?

I’m 34 talking to grown adults like…bruh, take β€œgreat communicator” off your resume.

Like professionally or personally

get a hobby.
go outside.
find something that makes you smile.
Talk about that.

rough out here in the pond 🀼

04.03.2026 10:41 β€” πŸ‘ 14    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

You can have the talks.
You can try.
But love should never require you
to shrink or abandon yourself

Respect. Empathy. Mutual care. Honesty.
Non-negotiable.

Protect your light.
Most won’t know how.
But the ones who actively listen with care will remember how to hold you so you can grow.

πŸ§šπŸΌβ€β™‚οΈ* πŸ„

04.03.2026 10:09 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Recently left a relationship that didn’t feel safe, mutual, or cared for.

Avoidant love will have you
abandoning yourself
in the name of their comfort and silence.

And while I stayed too longβ€”
you might too.

Healing is holding your boundary
anyway and learning to love and forgive past you

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Howdy οΏΌ

03.03.2026 09:22 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

So hot bub

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Batman punching out an ice agent.

Batman punching out an ice agent.

05.02.2026 11:17 β€” πŸ‘ 717    πŸ” 112    πŸ’¬ 13    πŸ“Œ 1

Something poetic about taking down a bigger man.

They talk about winning but their eyes say surrender. Like they’ve always wanted to be bent that way.

Yeah πŸ‘‰πŸ‘ˆ
I love fucking tops. 🀼

02.03.2026 21:12 β€” πŸ‘ 21    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Handsome dude

01.03.2026 14:34 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Dude nude selfcare night

Dude nude selfcare night

πŸ‘… rwar

πŸ§šπŸ»β€β™‚οΈ *practice selfcare - it is the lordz day… bout to make me a bath cause I’ve been such a good boy

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Yo… replaying Age of Mythology on PS5 got my inner 12-year-old summoning myth units and making me feel things 😭⚑️

Nostalgia crit hit.
Used to wrestle my brothers over who got to play first.

Miss those days πŸ₯Ή

28.02.2026 20:38 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Making hotdogs w/ Mac n cheese πŸ€ͺ and have a lil joint while I catch up on worldly things and idiot politics. (&Yeah I fucked going fully sober… Sometimes I fucking hate it here. Hence the hot dog consumption)

Pokemon day was fun tho 🀘🩡

27.02.2026 21:45 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Here we are again #fcf and I’m too lazy for new content…but idk maybe I can be inspired 😏

27.02.2026 14:42 β€” πŸ‘ 93    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0
Dude shows under his shirt

Dude shows under his shirt

This. just for research πŸ€ΌπŸ§šπŸΌβ€β™‚οΈπŸ«‚

And NOT to make people horny and encourage them to play with themselves

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a man in a superman costume is standing on a concrete surface with his fist in the air . Alt: a man in a superman costume is standing on a concrete surface with his fist in the air .

Every time Trump lied during the the State of the Union… true rage. So much propaganda and lies.

fuck Nazis USA!!!

And while we are here, an extra fuck you to billionaires and the bigots that be licking their boots.

25.02.2026 11:52 β€” πŸ‘ 17    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Truly tho

24.02.2026 22:54 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Will definitely keep ya posted, thanks for this. New sidequest unlocked πŸ§šπŸΌβ€β™‚οΈπŸ€˜πŸ©΅ thanks dude

24.02.2026 21:54 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Noted!! What kind of snacks? Do they like peanut butter? Can they eat peanut butter…

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