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queer welsh autistic gal trying to navigate adult life & read books✨ all views are my own

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Please for the love of god can creators stop partnering with better help

24.04.2025 19:42 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
Research opportunity flyer for gender diverse participants exploring the relationships between gender identity, neurodivergence, and eating disorders. The poster has a blue background and logos for the LEADING Study, Health and Care Research Wales and the Cardiff University Wales Autism Research Centre.
The text says: We are looking for participants who are: aged 18+ years, fluent in English and based in the UK, trans, gender diverse and/or nonbinary, and have lived experience of an eating disorder, which can be current or historical.
If you choose to participate, you will be asked to complete an online survey about your experiences. The survey will be a mix of multiple choice, scale response, and open text response. 
To find out more about the study and/or take part, please follow this link: tinyurl.com/LEADINGStudy1.
For any questions, please email on LEADING_study@cardiff.ac.uk or find us on social media. On instagram we are @LEADING_study and on bluesky we are @LEADING-study

Research opportunity flyer for gender diverse participants exploring the relationships between gender identity, neurodivergence, and eating disorders. The poster has a blue background and logos for the LEADING Study, Health and Care Research Wales and the Cardiff University Wales Autism Research Centre. The text says: We are looking for participants who are: aged 18+ years, fluent in English and based in the UK, trans, gender diverse and/or nonbinary, and have lived experience of an eating disorder, which can be current or historical. If you choose to participate, you will be asked to complete an online survey about your experiences. The survey will be a mix of multiple choice, scale response, and open text response. To find out more about the study and/or take part, please follow this link: tinyurl.com/LEADINGStudy1. For any questions, please email on LEADING_study@cardiff.ac.uk or find us on social media. On instagram we are @LEADING_study and on bluesky we are @LEADING-study

Research request:

A trans-led study from researchers at Cardiff University is recruiting trans+ people (age 18+) in the UK on the relations between eating disorders, gender diversity and neurodivergence. More info at tinyurl.com/LEADINGStudy1 or email Leading_study@cardiff.ac.uk

#Trans #LGBTQIA

11.04.2025 17:03 — 👍 11    🔁 13    💬 0    📌 0

I think people forget that not every traumatic experience results in trauma. And not every trauma results in ptsd. It is completely normal to go through traumatic experiences and not be traumatised by it, just like it’s completely normal to be traumatised.

02.04.2025 04:41 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Research Participation Opportunity
We are recruiting gender diverse participants for a research study about the relationships between gender identity, neurodivergence, and eating disorders. Scan the QR code or click the link in our bio to find out more.

14.03.2025 17:06 — 👍 2    🔁 3    💬 0    📌 2

I feel like being autistic and living with cptsd means I’ll never achieve the life I so desperately want. I just want to be able to thrive and have my shit together but I think my expectations for myself are maybe a little high because I am constantly pushing myself into burnout

24.03.2025 18:58 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I have an itchy nose, a sore throat and I have just sneezed at least 10 times in a row… hayfever season is here folks

22.03.2025 07:49 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I’m thinking around a week 🥰

16.03.2025 16:55 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0
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Anyone interested with £5 portrait illustrations to help me raise money to pay some bills?? £5 per person ❤️

16.03.2025 15:51 — 👍 6    🔁 4    💬 0    📌 0

I just paid my final payment on my IVA and it feels like such a momentous occasion. It’s been 5 years of paying my debt off monthly and I can’t believe it’s come to an end. I’m not completely out of debt, but it’s significantly reduced and I’m so proud of myself!!!

16.03.2025 10:40 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I spoke with Molly at length & have decided to not pursue the clinical doctorate this year regardless of if I get any interviews or not. Working 1-1 with patients I feel I’m just not clinically there yet and need more experience before I feel confident enough to do the doctorate

11.03.2025 15:12 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I’m sorry but you will never be able to convince me that pandas aren’t just people in suits.. this is the only conspiracy I subscribe to and I will die on this hill because I’m sorry but what? They’re just not real. How is that a real animal?? We’ve been duped

11.03.2025 07:18 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Something that I didn’t realise was autism is never knowing when is my turn to speak in conversations, especially ground conversations. I’ll still be trying to figure out when it’s my time to speak 20 minutes and 4 topic changes later

09.03.2025 20:03 — 👍 6    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Honestly don’t understand how or when my obsession with Xaden Riorson started but here I am.. a lesbian obsessed with a fictional male dragon rider who has my whole heart and I would quite literally burn the world down for him and I’m not even sorry about it

06.03.2025 17:47 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I wish it was sunny so I could read in the garden, maybe with a fruity cider, and some classical music playing.. but alas I live in wales and it is currently raining

06.03.2025 17:04 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Definitely!!!

06.03.2025 16:57 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

It’s a bit disheartening because they don’t provide feedback at this stage so I have no idea what the weaknesses of my application were, but nevertheless I still have 3 unis to hear back from!!

06.03.2025 16:54 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Thank you lovely x

06.03.2025 16:53 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

You’re so sweet. They don’t give feedback at this stage no. You only get feedback if you have an interview but are unsucccessful after the interview

06.03.2025 16:34 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Thank you!!! I don’t have much hope tbh 😭

06.03.2025 16:30 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

So I didn’t get an interview for Southampton for the doctorate. Just waiting to hear back from Bath, Plymouth and Exeter. Really really nervous.

06.03.2025 16:27 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 3    📌 0

Unfortunately my wife does not understand the elite combo that is beans and cheese on top of something (like a jacket potato or toast) and therefore sadly it seems I will never understand her

04.03.2025 21:27 — 👍 7    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

100% yes!!

03.03.2025 20:20 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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There was a time that getting a frapp would cause too much panic. Too many calories and too much time exercising to burn it off. It was easier to avoid.

Fast forward to 2025, it’s now one of my favourite drinks and I love every sip, not a hint of panic in sight❤️

03.03.2025 19:47 — 👍 18    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I have reached chapter 3 of edits for the 4th draft of my novel, and I’ve already added 4000 words. I’m aiming for 80,000 and I’m currently at 60,000 which will be completely possible. I’m really enjoying this round of edits!!

03.03.2025 19:31 — 👍 6    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

My mum has just informed me that I need to go to church for the healing powers of holy water and when I said catholics are too fond of the gays I’ll get burnt she said ‘god has to get with the times, and anyway if he hadn’t you’d have been burnt a long time ago’

02.03.2025 22:53 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I do yes so I know where to add more detail and things like that, I think the biggest feedback was it felt too much triggering content for young adult but at the same time is very accurate of what psychiatric wards are like

26.02.2025 07:40 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I really don’t know what I’m doing with the novel I’ve written. I’m now writing up my 4th draft. I have had so many rejections from literary agents. I’m thinking of changing it to a contemporary fiction rather than young adult. Maybe a little less gritty and more imagery

25.02.2025 22:50 — 👍 6    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Mine healed really well, I had no issues!!

25.02.2025 22:46 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

See a tattoo, post a tattoo

My new froggo addition

25.02.2025 22:45 — 👍 10    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 1

Today I am back to being a whole week without purging. I felt so guilty after I was sick last week for the first time in 4 months because it felt like a massive step backwards, but I’ve managed to not let it turn into a relapse and I’m so so proud of myself for that

25.02.2025 22:41 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

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