Elly Chapple Founder #FlipTheNarrative©💜

This week, our book launched into the world.
Thank you to everyone who walked alongside us and believed.
To my family, my ground.
And to Ella, for showing me that being human is something we remember.
Not an ending. An invitation.

#FlipTheNarrative 💜 #DiagnosisHuman

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We talk about inclusion.
We talk about diversity.

But what we really need to talk about is how to be human.

Our human story belongs to all of us. Not just some of us.

Difference is not a problem to solve. It is the heartbeat of our humanity.

Our book is out 17th January.....💜

When 1.6 million pupils are persistently absent, that's not a compliance problem - it's a design failure. Dr Natasha Holden

This. 🔥

It's not an isolated case as it is based on official guidance about 'Fabricated or Induced Illness' #FII: bilson.org.uk/home/fii_ope...
#FII

Thank you so much, for walking with and standing with us 🙏💜💜

Truly terrifying to hear the experience of members of our UK community. Elly, mum to Ella who has WAGR, was separated from her daughter for months and had to fight to clear her name of allegations.
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Our hearts go out to Elly, James, Ella and everyone else involved.

Really grateful to @goodmorningbritain.bsky.social for shining a light and bringing this issue to the fore.

I hope @rcpch.bsky.social
will now discuss with Professor Andy Bilson, Professor Luke Clements, Dr Fiona Gullon-Scott, Cathie Long amongst many others.

Time for change 🙏💜

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We demanded help for our sick children. We were accused of abuse Some of society’s most vulnerable are being torn from their families by officials who claim their parents are fabricating illness

My remarkable friend @ellychapple.bsky.social in The Times speaking about her family’s horrific experience of wrongful care proceedings

“This could happen to anyone & it can happen at speed…with such velocity & force. It’s like a tsunami, you don’t stand a chance”

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Book cover for *Understanding Parent Blame* by Luke Clements and Ana Laura Aiello. The title is displayed in bold uppercase text, centered on a stark background. The design features a silhouette of a parent holding a child, surrounded by accusatory pointing fingers from all directions, symbolizing societal blame. The tone is serious and thought-provoking, reflecting the book’s critical themes.

Sept 2025 🔥

Understanding Parent Blame by Dr Ana Aiello & Prof Luke Clements.

Revealing how parents are wrongly blamed by the systems meant to help them. 👀

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#ParentBlame #SocialJustice #DisabilityRights #Safeguarding #Inclusion #Neurodiversity

If someone doesn't use words to communicate, maybe you need to learn their language. #FlipTheNarrative

This is a hill I will die on.

It’s on *all* of us to learn & validate all human languages.

Not everyone uses words, but everyone is communicating.

Inclusion means expanding how we listen, lead, and connect.
Make space for every voice.

#Neurodiversity #AAC #DEI #Inclusion #BSL

Resharing my starter pack of neuro-affirming Autistic advocates, orgs and charities if you are looking for a good list of people to follow
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RRN Trustees Aji Lewis and @ellychapple.bsky.social attended Tuesday’s King’s Garden Party, joined by representatives from our partner charities. We were delighted to have RRN represented at the event, which recognises people and organisations doing good work in their communities.

Me in a posh hat and spotty dress

Me and my amazing co-trainer Jackie Butler

Prince of Wales

Princess of Wales

It was an amazing day!

Wonderful to be there with my amazing #Trauma co-trainer Jackie (at RESPOND). I can't believe we've worked together for five years!!! Grateful 🙏

Amazing to see the Prince and Princess of Wales (@walesroyals.bsky.social) too 💝

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Maybe there's nothing wrong with you - maybe it's just really difficult to exist within a system that was not designed to support a spirit like yours.

Maybe it’s not you. Maybe it’s the system - outdated, out of step, and blaming those within it.

There’s nothing wrong with being different. Every human is.

Diversity isn’t a flaw. It’s our strength.

It’s time the system caught up with the truth.

#FlipTheNarrative 💜
#human

📢#EYP2CtW25 begins tomorrow.
FREE online CPD w/ local, national & int'l contributors, across summer term.
Have you or colleagues signed up?
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@tomrees.bsky.social @rachtomlinson.bsky.social @sebchapleau.bsky.social @ellychapple.bsky.social @unleashingme.bsky.social

Photo of me with my Yorkshire Tea!

#HappyTuesday lovely people. Grateful to be sharing space with some awesome educators today.

Here's to a powerfully human day.

#FlipTheNarrative 💜

Ovo smo učili i na psihologiji u SŠ ako ste išli u gimnaziju i na učiteljskom faksu.

Zašto se onda disreguliranom djetetu prilazi disregulacijom, beats me.

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Why does it matter? When your nervous system is dysregulated, you lose access to: Reflection Logic Connection Choice You shift into survival mode, reacting from instinct, not intention. It makes you feel out of control amd act in ways that don't reflect why you are.

Why does regulation matter?

💥 Have you ever lost your temper or cool?

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Regulation isn't important just for *some* humans, it's critical to understand for every human.

Then we can share the space far better.

#FlipTheNarrative 💜

Image credit: Nadia Addesi

My book, Who Wants Normal?, stands upright on a table with a chutney jar, a chocolate bar, and a pair of socks. In the background are dried flowers and a radio.

When I thought about launching my new book, Who Wants Normal?, I knew I wanted to put disabled people at the forefront. That’s why any merch or digital graphics you’ll see in the coming weeks will have been made by disabled-led businesses or disabled creatives. (1/3)

Kindness is Free. Pass it on. #FlipTheNarrative

You might be the one person that changes someone's entire day, week, year or life - because you extended kindness.

Let's be human kind first and create a world where every human feels at home.

#FlipTheNarrative 💜

#kindness #humanity #beinghuman #empathy #safety #belonging

Be an observer. Be humble. Be open. Learn about the why and how. Stay curious about being human. #FlipTheNarrative

Being an observer. Being humble. Being open. Staying curious.

It all sounds easy - but it's the human work we can really struggle to consistently maintain.

If you do, lives are changed, humans thrive, and we all walk together in a powerful humanised way.

#FlipTheNarrative 💜

YouTube video by Studio 3 Free Webinar: Whose Behaviour is Challenging Who? With Elly Chapple

Whose behaviour is challenging whose?

#FlipTheNarrative 💜

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We're not waiting for a seat.... We're building the table.

To those who I walk with, those I've walked with and those I've yet to meet. I see you, you're phenomenal, you're brave and you stand out like a light in the dark.

Keep being you, despite anyone or anything. 💜 #iwd #iwd2025

Image credit: @femaleentrepreneurassociation

I asked a wise man, "tell me sir, in which field could I make a great career?" He said with a smile, "Be a good human being. There is a lot of opportunity in this area and very little competition".

Love this.

Be human kind, first.

#FlipTheNarrative 💜

#humanity #humanfirst #empathy #compassion #wisdom

Rare photo of me and James!

Time with the Hubs #raretreat 💜 #love #timeout #weekendvibes

The #NATPmentalhealth training programme from AT-Autism and Anna Freud for NHSE changes and saves lives. When you truly walk with people in their experiences, you reinvigorate your humanity.

You start to see that we are not so different, we're all human.

#FlipTheNarrative 💜

Photo of me, managing a smile at the camera!

Looking forward to seeing all my fellow #NATPmentalhealth amazing colleagues today at the final conference in London. What a brilliant and authentic training programme created by some of the best of humans 😍

#FlipTheNarrative 💜

Your nervous system will naturally feel calm around people with pure intentions and authentic energy - trust it.

This 🔥

When you know, you know.

#FlipTheNarrative 💜