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Nicole Hate

@iamnicolehate.bsky.social

Gen X rebel & straight-shooting truth-teller! I help recovering good girls claim their sacred sovereignty & ignite their rebel spirit. Done playing small? Let's chat! Come on bad girl, get on my mailing list. https://tinyurl.com/forthegoodgirls

148 Followers  |  165 Following  |  51 Posts  |  Joined: 12.11.2024  |  2.0513

Latest posts by iamnicolehate.bsky.social on Bluesky

I took a break from the place. I still am not sure what is going on here.

04.04.2025 00:50 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Took a break from here because this place feels more political. Not something I need in my life.

Has the vibe shifted since I was last here?

I feel like this is probably going to just be an echo into the void but prove me wrong.

04.04.2025 00:49 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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This is the life, attending my first The Real Twin Peaks event.

22.02.2025 19:01 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Truth bomb: You were born worthy. Period.
That voice saying "after I achieve X" or "once I prove myself"? It's lying.
You're not working toward worthiness.
You're working FROM it.
Stop auditioning for your life.
Your worth isn't earnedβ€”it's INHERENT.
Move like that's fact.

31.01.2025 01:06 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Can I request pay per view too?

15.01.2025 23:40 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

So we've got a Secretary of Defense nominee with assault allegations, work-hour drinking issues, failed orgs, & policy flip-flops... and the defense is "but what about drunk senators?" πŸ€”

The "others do bad things too" excuse died in kindergarten. We can do better.

15.01.2025 18:17 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Ladies, your middle years aren't about filling voids - they're about recognizing the wisdom you've gathered. Every role, every transition has added to your story. You're not just growing older - you're growing more authentically you. Your next sacred act awaits.

09.01.2025 19:27 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Dear men in power: While you're busy explaining birth canals and plotting fantasy coups, remember there are 11.64M women ready to flip your table.

The bar for men is so low it's a tripping hazard, yet here you are, limboing under it. Maybe rethink that domestic violence hire.

08.01.2025 16:31 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Hey new friends! Watching the other apps slowly lose it while building my crew here. Don't worry - I'm staying to watch their chaos unfold, but making this spot my new home base.

I've got thoughts. And zero interest in keeping them polite anymore The louder we get, the harder we are to ignore.

08.01.2025 01:03 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Client just pulled a vanishing act on our meeting. Could be plotting revenge... OR I could channel this energy into some quality time with my book. Look at me choosing personal growth over professional grudges.

07.01.2025 19:35 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Imagine trying to overthrow democracy but you just end up being a footnote on my birth certificate

Today, January 6th, I celebrate 50 years of serving birthday cake, zero years of serving time.

Just saying.

Every year I'll note my calendar...

Oh look, it's still MY day. Keep seething MAGA.

06.01.2025 16:05 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The Headbanger's Ball was always my favorite.

21.12.2024 17:54 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

An exec murdered in Manhattan, and social media's first response? "They denied my kid's chemo meds."

When your business model is "profit from suffering," don't be shocked when people snap.

Corporate greed wrapped in insurance-speak is still just greed.

21.12.2024 17:53 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Dear Mommies of Problematic Menℒ️:

Your grown son doesn't need you doing PR cleanup on talk shows or retracting emails about his bad behavior.

The 1950s called - they want their "boys will be boys" excuses back. Let your precious baby face the consequences he earned.

20.12.2024 22:36 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

History's best plot twist? Every 'unstoppable' empire has an expiration date.

The bigger the ego, the harder they crash. The more rings they demand you kiss, the closer they are to collapse.

Empires built on ego are houses of cards.

And baby, it's getting windy out there.

19.12.2024 13:05 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Mean girl games on social media? The patriarchy thanks you for your free labor.

Remember when they made you feel small? Now you're doing their work.

We survived the 80s and 90s for this?

Put down the petty. Pick up your power. πŸ”₯

19.12.2024 01:21 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Let me give a brief introduction to the world of me. I'm that 'talks too much' girl from every report card who now gets paid to speak truth to power. I help Gen X women turn their inner critic into their biggest cheerleader. Born to break rules, born to lead revolutions. Worth following? Watch me.

18.12.2024 18:51 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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09.12.2024 19:16 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

If you're a Gen X woman who:

Values science over conspiracy theories
Thinks fascism can f*ck right off
Misses real, meaningful friendships
Uses curse words as punctuation

Life's too short for small talk and toxic positivity. Let's build something real.

09.12.2024 19:15 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Think Golden Girls energy, but with more swearing and zero tolerance for bullsh*t. We're here for:

Wine nights & witty commentary
Supporting reproductive rights & each other
Creating the chosen family you deserve
Planning adventures & raising hell
Being unapologetically ourselves

09.12.2024 19:14 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ”₯ Listen up, Gen X Babes! πŸ”₯
Tired of trying to find your tribe in a sea of MAGA hats? The Silver Sirens is your f*cking sanctuary. We're building a progressive sisterhood of badass women who know that life (and resistance) is better with friends.

09.12.2024 19:14 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

It's this shit that made me leave nursing. Being complict in their profit game was not my idea of healthcare.

05.12.2024 22:26 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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HOT TAKE: Y'all spending more time defending "Merry Christmas" than actually living like Christ. Last I checked, Jesus wasn't organizing protests outside Starbucksβ€”He was feeding the poor and flipping tables in corrupt temples. But sure, Karen, tell me more about that war on Christmas.

03.12.2024 13:44 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

My dad came home a proud vet in his Navy uniform which made him a target, as well as others. Many of his classmates did not make it home. I honestly think thar is what got him through.

22.11.2024 16:20 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

My parents never had a party. My dad served during Vietnam. His welcome home coming off the train was being spit on and sworn at. From that moment on, he loathed goverment.

22.11.2024 14:23 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

One I don't buy bug turkeys. I got a small boneless one that will cook in the Instapot. I have no real tips other than planning, writing down, and then buying.

22.11.2024 14:21 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

A little early start to your Christmas season. This is your first of many reminders to come.

It's a Wonderful Life is on USA at 8pm EST tonight.

You're welcome and hee haw!

21.11.2024 15:01 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Me though it's small this year. Food has been planned and mostly bought. Need pie and a few small sides.

21.11.2024 13:38 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

This will probably mess wirh my algorithm but who cares!

My daughter and her boyfriend are having a 1st birthday party for their dog. I'm looking for handmade gifts or treats.

What do you have for me?

17.11.2024 14:32 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Timely.

16.11.2024 22:27 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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