Joe Cool

Probably a wealth of cis dude? Also if it’s Chrype, that one just sucks.

It is better to appear strange to others than to be a stranger to yourself. Says Skeletor totally nailing it on this one.

Ah yes. While I don’t get drop really anymore, I’m in that emotionally raw space after an event that was good and connective.

These thoughts brought to you by a con where none of my pre planned scenes happened, but I had a good event anyway 😁

Good morning!

Damn. Oreos is thirsty

If I didn’t already know, today proved that leather and sex are wired together in my brain.

Played with someone who had just gotten their leather shined. Smelled of Huberds for our scene.

I was a little surprised how strong a physiological reaction I had to just the scent.

Is it that all masc leather bottoms are the same, or that I attract guys who are into the same things I am as a bottom, and so I can top things I think would be hot to bottom for, and they eat it up?

A white man from the neck down for anonymity. He is wearing a black leather uniform shirt with blue piping, black leather pants with double blue stripes, and black Wescos. Stereotypical leatherman apparel.

Or someone who can do all three?

Good morning!

Never liked D. H and I aren’t far behind.

A selfie of a white man wearing a brown neoprene pup mask, black neck hanky, blue and black bulldog harness, and a blue tee shirt that says ‘service animal’

The back of a man in a black leather biker jacket and chaps. He is flagging grey and orange hankies in his left pocket.

Get you someone who can do both 😉

1) Hmm. Storm.

2) Aragorn, if it’s Viggo Mortenson

3) Wonder Woman.

4) dammit this one is hard. Riker? Picard? Janeway? Or Uhura maybe. I can’t pick just one!

Thank you friend. 🙂

Yup

Is there a way to check yourself when you perceive you are doing all the pursuing and no one is pursuing you to tell if that’s really whats happening or just the story you are telling yourself?

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Happy Valentines Day!

Good morning!

Even if it could, I don't WANT a robot to make realistic fetish porn

I WANT to give my money to real life perverts doing weird shit

If you have never seen a professional Dominatrix before and want to explore your kinky desires, what is holding you back?

Nope. I think it turns out most people just like an autistic’s level of clarity and explicit statements in an otherwise ambiguous setting.

I’ve gotten multiple compliments over the years on meetings being well run and useful. Because I have anxiety and some deep rooted self doubt I was always worried I must have looked like I needed reassurance or something.

On further reflection, some of the things I’m professionally complimented on the most are cause of the tism.

I’ve run meetings where the presentation starts with: objective, definitions, agenda, and introductions. Then we actually start the meeting.

A while ago I expressed anger at my late in life autism diagnosis. Like, a whole lot of things could have been easier in my life with the knowledge that my brain works differently then expected.

For example, I was out of town earlier this week, flew home Thursday, unpacked, repacked, and left again Thursday night for a weekend event 😁