Tangential but important: if someone makes you feel guilty for using a safeword, run.
10.07.2025 13:19 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0@nightshadefae.bsky.social
ProDomme | Femdom I revel in psychological domination; rewiring, dismantling, remolding. Cruelty, softness, play... tools to dig into the psyche and feed on it. Before approaching check: https://beacons.ai/nightshadefae
Tangential but important: if someone makes you feel guilty for using a safeword, run.
10.07.2025 13:19 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0I'd personally advice against that. Try to reflect on why you feel that way afterwards.
Remember, you will be always have a chance to make it happen inthe future but you can't undo things and that there's no shame in using your safeword. The Dom(me) would appreciate your honesty.
It can as simple as: "I'm not sure if I want to/ I don't want push it past the talk phase, I just want to enjoy that part for now"
If you feel unsure in your unhorny state, it might be tempting to push through with it when the juices start flowing.
It is ok to just be into the kink talk, no matter the reason(s) behind it (you might be unsure about the kink, just into talking about it....)
As long as you communicate it clearly beforehand.
Morning checklist:
Coffee โ
Sunshine ๐
A little financial fun ๐ธ
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I don't know how you ended up on a findom feed.
But what's the current #1? You got me curious
What should I make you do today: beg, serve, or stay silent?
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PSA: do not put grapes inside other holes besides you mouths!
Do not accept unsafe ads or customs!!!
And if you don't master that particular kink and are able to participate in it safely
27.10.2024 22:47 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Findom: findom findomme goddess finsub humanatm rt game financial_domination
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Made few feeds to finally have for our communities to interact
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I'll put in the attached comment the terms that would get you on each of them
How do you spend you lazy Sunday mornings?
27.10.2024 10:28 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0A new account is easy to make though.
I'm not saying this to scare you and I really appreciate the warning, I just don't want you to have a false sense of security
The block function doesn't actually work. Your profile is public. It can be seen in any browser without the need to login
26.10.2024 23:40 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0A negotiation talk is a must including soft and hard budget limits.
Do not take any subs who "doesn't have limits" that's a huge ๐ฉ
Come play with us ๐
https://discord.gg/essep6r4
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Oh, do teach me. What's a faildomme?
26.10.2024 11:43 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Yess. Every Domme should know how valuable she really is!
26.10.2024 11:42 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Tiny, worthless, and desperateโฆ the only time youโll feel big is with your wallet in my hands
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The art of humiliation is not about breaking you; itโs about sculpting you into something more.
What does that make you?
A work in progress, waiting for My finishing touch. ๐จ
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A good sub always knows their limits.
Consent is sexy, donโt forget that.
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It was just an exchange of opinions
24.10.2024 22:56 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0...that will still be mine to accept or decline. But, they're not entitled to anything.
I wear all hats, in a non mainstream way and honestly don't find an issue communicating
I think it's on us too to pick the labels if that's so important to us.
I identify with all of the above and yes people want some stuff but I'm very clear that I'm faceless and not physically explicit. That if they want a session they can book one. If they want content they can ask for a custom..
Ready to worship?
A true devotee knows where they belong
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I honestly don't think confusion is a real problem. Communication is key.
And I suppose we both know that kinks rarely come in singular form
I think it's bit more nuanced than that.
Financial domination done by a fem presenting person is by definition femdom.
However every dynamic is unique and this is one of the reasons negociation and setting expectations are important.
You wish be the perfect little foot sub for me, dontโt you?
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Oh I don't like him either. I was just curious to see because some were moving to escape the stupid blocking decision. But they're not aware that this will not really solve that
24.10.2024 17:38 โ ๐ 18 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Thank you
24.10.2024 17:36 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0