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@therapistla.bsky.social
she/they. CΓ΄ trα» liα»u tΓ’m lΓ½. LCSW Therapist in LA (on Tongva & Chumash land) w/a decolonial lens. Viet. Queer AF. Anti-racist. ACAB. Gen-x. Don't piss me off. π₯°
NΔm mα»i vui vαΊ»! π§§π
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Happy Mardi Gras!
Black sweatshirt with a slice of watermelon the shape of Palestine.
Got a compliment on my sweatshirt while I was waiting for my oil change at Toyota. We not forgetting even though it's not showinf as much on social media
15.02.2026 01:42 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0No character is likeable ffs.
04.02.2026 07:29 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Started watching Industry. Why is the acting so bad?
04.02.2026 06:05 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Yall, I finished ALL my notes! ππΌππΌππΌππΌπππππI had like 45 at the beginning of the weekend. Please clap & cheer for me bc im exhausted & burned out. πππππ
03.02.2026 06:00 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Steak salad with mixed greens, tomato, & cucumber in a white bowl with a red place mat underneath.
Steak salad w/ sesame dressing for dinner
02.02.2026 02:01 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0I get if Target or Walmart is the only options in your area for affordability but otherwise, nah we not cool.
01.02.2026 01:24 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Yall still drinking Stbx & going to trgt? π
31.01.2026 21:01 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Fkn 80Β°F in LA today. I wish I could send the rest of yall some of this heat & get a bit of yall's coldπ
31.01.2026 20:00 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0I hate knowing my annual salary could last me 15-20yrs in Vietnam if I'm somewhat frugal, but that being frugal here in LA, I can only live a year. And here, we are losing our rights day by day while our govt kills people in the streets.
31.01.2026 08:15 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0White bowl of beef noodle soup with green onions, cilantro, & chives.
Tried to feed my craving of a beef noodle soup I had in Vietnam in Dec... somethings missing though, not as good.
30.01.2026 06:10 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0I hate when people misuse/ misunderstand what gentle parenting is.
30.01.2026 03:40 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Looking for a new frig (side-by-side or French doors). Why are the smaller sized ones more expensive that the big ones?π
29.01.2026 21:20 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0πππ
29.01.2026 18:29 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Could still beπ€·π»ββοΈπ
29.01.2026 18:28 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Reminder that your therapist isn't there to give advice &/or tell you what to do.
28.01.2026 21:37 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0High key starting to get annoyed with clients (esp vvhite ones) whose issues are currently "boy trouble" bc *gestures at the world*π & it's not relationship grief, it's "I like this boy" or "I want a boy." Like please have some dignity, why is your misery bc a boy doesn't like you rn?
27.01.2026 23:15 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Trying to set goals for myself & be accountable (the real hard part). Ultimately I want to be healthier, mind, body, & spirit. Im hoping I will see & experience great progress before my 50th bday next year.
05.01.2026 09:21 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0I'm going to manifest a 37yo + non-white sapphic friends to expand my community of support & care while also be on my vibes w/ music & dance, enjoy our lives, travel, cook/eat& provide the love, trust, kindness, care, emotionally safety & stability.
01.01.2026 11:39 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0
Happy New Year everyone! 2026 gonna be so good for us. From the fkshit of the past 5-10 years, we deserve & gonna do/get/receive/provide/ demand better for ourselves & our people.
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Sapphics calling women "bitches" gives me the ick so bad, i.e., "my bitch" or "these bitches." Like why? Tf. Btwn friends like "hey bitch" is fine if that's the vibe yall got but just calling women bitches is as bad as calling them females. π€·π»ββοΈ
21.12.2025 02:58 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Latte with heart foam in a white paper cup beside a black laptop computer atop a yellow table, a brown leather stool can be seen in the background
Really love my little neighborhood cafesπ₯°
14.12.2025 20:04 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0I hate when TV/movies use psychiatrists as therapists, no LCSW, LMFT, PsyDs, etc. It's too inaccurate for me. Rarely have any psychiatrists Ive worked with in 10yrs did therapy at all, it's mostly med management. Reality is most therapists are not psychiatrists though some do some therapy but rarely
12.12.2025 04:07 β π 4 π 2 π¬ 0 π 0
Sometimes it's so hard to work with non-yt students who've internalized yt-supremacy, patriarchy, & capitalism then are also self-hating. π
I'm a university therapist, we don't have enough time to unpack all that. π
Love this lil old puppyπ₯°π₯°π₯°
26.11.2025 07:58 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0
White mascs w/a lineup is sooooπ¬
Why bruh?π€£π€£π€£
Dogsitting this fur nuggetπ₯°
25.11.2025 16:50 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Bill Cassidy: βWeβre all trying to find the guy who did thisβ π
21.11.2025 05:23 β π 984 π 264 π¬ 50 π 15Can he go by way of ck too?
20.11.2025 03:27 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0
I challenged a client today to reflect & feel her feels as well as exploring & honoring her values & boundaries. They didnt wanna do it at first & I explained the exercise & how it can break a pattern that has impacted relationships/kept them superficial.
She told me I was good at what I do.π₯°