Methodologically Promiscuous

Fuck, I want to feel that in me again.

One of my favorite rides to take. 😈

🥵🥵🥵 Sit on my face, please and thank you. 🤤

Deleted the last picture because Bluesky distorted the image quality to where I looked like a holy ghost. Snapped this in Hell’s Kitchen on Monday night.

It was Monday! Thank you handsome 😍😘

My FAVORITE Disney film of all time. It has been since I was a little boy. Criminally underrated.

Three of my friends treated me to a lovely birthday dinner. Still don’t know what I got right to deserve these guys. ❤️

Today is my birthday. Made it over the hump and into the latter half of my thirties. It’s good to be here. Now off to NYC for the week.

Me next. 🤤

Obligatory outdoor shower selfie.

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- Off work until Tuesday.
- Leaving for a weekend of scenic driving and gay campground shenanigans with several favorite friends and chosen family.
- Will be in NYC visiting friends and working remote all next week.
- My birthday is Monday.

Happy Friday to me! Eagerly awaited after a shit month. 😎

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When people think I’m a top

Having any kind of influence or leverage over someone else’s finances in this manner, or allowing someone else to have it over yours, is a critical and very risky dynamic that can go very wrong.

I frown upon most kink shaming and have great respect for most kink communities, even though I’m not that kinky myself. FinDom/FinSub is an exception. Even if there’s mutual consent, no abuse or predatory intent…

Random daddy type on Scruff: “Hey handsome, are you a finsub or into findoms?”

Me: “Child. As my fiercely independent momma taught me: never rely on a man’s money. 💅🏻 Spend yours on therapy instead because those are wildly unhealthy power, control, attachment, and codependence dynamics. Not a kink.”

To be continued, again.

18. A song from the year that you were born

It was on the top charts in the months leading to when I was born. One of my favorite romantic songs of all time.

17. A song that would sing a duet with on karaoke

“Quote with a pic that makes you say, ‘Damn, my dick is big’”.

It’s just what the good lawd gave me. 🤷🏻‍♂️ It’s also kind of pointless because I am *not* a top. But at least there’s a big joystick to grab while playing with me or in me. 🕹️🍆 #hungbottom

To be continued!

16. One of your favorite classical songs

What? Patti is as classical as it gets for me.

15. A song that is a cover by another artist

Annie <3

14. A song that you would love played at your wedding

“As long as we’re together, the rest can go to Hell!”

13. One of your favorite 80's songs

This one was HARD. I live on 70s-80s music.

12. A song from your preteen years

Loved this song since I was in elementary school. Still love and listen to it often.

11. A song that you never get tired of

It’s my all time favorite song for this reason.

10. A song that makes you sad

Old school Sia strikes hard.