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Ruth Zakarin

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CEO of the MA Coalition to Prevent Gun Violence. Knitter, cat lady, grey hair evangelist. Oh, and I box. Five feet of strong opinions that are all my own. Check out my essays at: https://ruthzakarin.substack.com/

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Anyone with a shred of humanity would express remorse over the deaths of children at school.

But since he doesn’t care about kids dying at school in the U.S., why would he care about it anywhere else?

01.03.2026 04:36 β€” πŸ‘ 35    πŸ” 7    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Anyone with a shred of humanity would express remorse over the deaths of children at school.

But since he doesn’t care about kids dying at school in the U.S., why would he care about it anywhere else?

01.03.2026 04:36 β€” πŸ‘ 35    πŸ” 7    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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28.02.2026 15:42 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Can I scream this from the rooftops with you? Please?? I will bring hot tea to soothe our throats from the constant screaming.

28.02.2026 14:45 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

And still back him. I so agree.

28.02.2026 14:39 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

To understand Donald Trump you have to understand the dynamics of domestic violence.

Abuse with abandon and take no responsibility for anything. Lie and gaslight and never admit you’re wrong. Demand loyalty and lash out when your power is questioned.

Punish and blame. Power and control.

Trump.

28.02.2026 02:02 β€” πŸ‘ 156    πŸ” 54    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 2

That’s not been my experience as an advocate. And when they do, most see it is a private issue rather than a larger pattern in a patriarchal society

28.02.2026 13:29 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Spoken by a man wearing merch made to promote an insane renaming of an entire body of water. Merch made to soothe his infantile soul. He says the most far fetched shit and then expects people to cater to whatever he says.

He means this. His building a ballroom for his forever home.

28.02.2026 03:39 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I think it’s both.

28.02.2026 03:35 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

β€˜81 Mustang for me. Leaky t-tops, an 8-track player, a broken gas gauge, and a general disinterest in acceleration. It was an art form to drive that thing.

28.02.2026 02:45 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

And if I recall correctly the on ramps are as short as the Northern State’s. And that’s saying something.

28.02.2026 02:40 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

To understand Donald Trump you have to understand the dynamics of domestic violence.

Abuse with abandon and take no responsibility for anything. Lie and gaslight and never admit you’re wrong. Demand loyalty and lash out when your power is questioned.

Punish and blame. Power and control.

Trump.

28.02.2026 02:02 β€” πŸ‘ 156    πŸ” 54    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 2

I learned to drive highways on the LIE. And now I drive in Boston. Not really sure which is worse.

28.02.2026 01:57 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Abusers retaliate against those who dare question their power. Set limits. Say no.

It is peak abusive behavior to demand something and then lash out when the demand is not met.

28.02.2026 01:53 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

"But we never get to really be done with his misogyny. We can’t escape it. He’s the Abuser-in-Chief. It never ends. We women have never been able to stop his misogyny. We never will be able to. We need men to do it β€” even at the moments when it feels the hardest. Maybe especially at those moments."

27.02.2026 11:45 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Misogyny on Ice Locker room talk, 2026 version

The men’s hockey team failed their female teammates & really all women. And they failed them again with their participation in the SOTU. I wrote about why the locker room moment was so damn upsetting, how we are done with Trump’s misogyny and the men who enable it.
open.substack.com/pub/ruthzaka...

25.02.2026 11:43 β€” πŸ‘ 165    πŸ” 52    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 1

I will have way more to say about this, but let me first shout this from my rooftop again…

I am a gun violence prevention advocate. We cannot solve gun violence in the United States when the perpetrator of gun violence is the government of the United States.

26.02.2026 13:05 β€” πŸ‘ 171    πŸ” 52    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I just attended an event that focused on dreaming about the world we want to build, and it was a balm for my soul.

The work is hard, the harm is overwhelming, and there are still a lot of people who want to build something different. And do it together. I am grateful for that.

27.02.2026 02:24 β€” πŸ‘ 20    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Essentially every "illegal" gun in USA started life as legal.

So, this production and distribution will make that even worse.

Thank you.

26.02.2026 14:51 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Exactly this. Exactly.

26.02.2026 15:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I will have way more to say about this, but let me first shout this from my rooftop again…

I am a gun violence prevention advocate. We cannot solve gun violence in the United States when the perpetrator of gun violence is the government of the United States.

26.02.2026 13:05 β€” πŸ‘ 171    πŸ” 52    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

β€œTo wit: A handful of private companies that manufacture weaponry and ammunition have already inked very lucrative contracts with the Department of Homeland Security that will provide it with enormous stockpiles of military-style equipment, some to the tune of tens of millions of dollars …”

25.02.2026 14:44 β€” πŸ‘ 97    πŸ” 46    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 3
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Introductions to women. Free flights. Business deals. Jeffrey Epstein’s ties to Harvard run deeper than previously known. - The Boston Globe Some of Epstein’s ties to the school were hiding in plain sight, yet Harvard officials missed or looked past them during their 2019 probe.

This is an excellent and infuriating read from the Globe’s Spotlight team on Harvard’s deep ties to Epstein. And they interviewed Dr. Claudine Gay to get her thoughts on Larry Summers. It felt redemptive and I loved these reporters for making the choice to do so.οΏΌ
www.bostonglobe.com/2026/02/25/m...

26.02.2026 12:04 β€” πŸ‘ 52    πŸ” 26    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

The *woman* in question was 13 when the assault happened.

I am a former rape crisis counselor. I’ve worked with way too many kids who were sexually assaulted, almost always by much older men. I still struggle to find the words to describe that experience, and what rape does to a child. 1/2

26.02.2026 00:25 β€” πŸ‘ 34    πŸ” 15    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Because it is the US, and because gun violence is a part of our daily narrative, I suspect many have already moved on from this shooting in RI. But another victim has just died from their injuries. And I want to acknowledge that β€” and him.

Gerald Dorgan.

Gun violence takes and takes and takes.

26.02.2026 02:40 β€” πŸ‘ 21    πŸ” 13    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I often write about the violence of the Trump administration, and I have plenty of things to say about it.

But last night’s speech was so filled with violence I don’t even know where to start with it.

There can be no peace in a country led by someone who embodies violence the way Trump does.

26.02.2026 00:39 β€” πŸ‘ 28    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

The least the media could do is find the right words to describe the survivors.

A 13 year old is a child. A very vulnerable child. Who was failed by a lot of people, and continues to be failed by NBC News. 2/2

26.02.2026 00:25 β€” πŸ‘ 42    πŸ” 12    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

The *woman* in question was 13 when the assault happened.

I am a former rape crisis counselor. I’ve worked with way too many kids who were sexually assaulted, almost always by much older men. I still struggle to find the words to describe that experience, and what rape does to a child. 1/2

26.02.2026 00:25 β€” πŸ‘ 34    πŸ” 15    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Trump lies. And his lies about immigrants being violent are inspiring violence against immigrants. It’s shameful and it’s an act of violence unto itself.

25.02.2026 22:46 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you for reading it πŸ™

25.02.2026 18:37 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0