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@notyourdestiny.bsky.social

Educational leadership and child development psychology for work. Urban farmer, writer, crocheter, nature enthusiast, stylist, and world traveler for fun.

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lol seriously just pissing me off

03.08.2025 11:22 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Omg same! Never finished it lol.

03.08.2025 11:21 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I don’t enjoy watching anything where the characters are making bad choices without comedic relief l. For example, Always Sunny is just plain old stupid and hilarious. Scary movies with dumbass teenagers who can’t leave shit alone puts me on edge lol.

I had to turn Talk to Me off.

02.08.2025 15:47 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

It’s rare because I don’t make or take anything personal. If something doesn’t go the way I expect, I check in to make sure all is well. There’s a chance that there’s not and I would hate to make things about myself in those circumstances. It’s truly that simple imo.

18.07.2025 17:58 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

My abilities in pattern recognition allow me to move with compassionate empathy. If I feel there is a gap in reciprocity and I feel strongly enough, which is rare, I will speak on it in the moment, prioritizing resolution rather than harboring resent.

18.07.2025 17:55 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

A practice I’ll always carry with me: β€œassume all are well intended”.

I believe in my capabilities to practice discernment and trust that the relationships I build are rooted in genuine love and compassion. I do not center myself or my own personal feelings; I choose grace and ultimately peace.

18.07.2025 17:51 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Highly recommended reading, in this order

18.06.2025 10:06 β€” πŸ‘ 218    πŸ” 35    πŸ’¬ 17    πŸ“Œ 4

Eid Mubarak to the homies.

07.06.2025 00:59 β€” πŸ‘ 37    πŸ” 21    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

It is not β€œpetty” to stop serving relationships that do not serve you. It’s sustainability. Life is hard for everyone. Everything isn’t about you.

Literally nothing is about you.

02.06.2025 10:05 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

β€œWe the only race that…”

Please shut the fuck up.

17.05.2025 15:06 β€” πŸ‘ 155    πŸ” 43    πŸ’¬ 6    πŸ“Œ 7

We were never supposed to have this much access to stupid people’s thoughts

16.05.2025 04:13 β€” πŸ‘ 2667    πŸ” 540    πŸ’¬ 75    πŸ“Œ 57

I love how my brain decides β€œyeah that’s enough sleep for you” two hours early every morning. I’m not absolutely exhausted or anything.

16.05.2025 09:02 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Photo white woman leans over to scream at child in a strolling. Black woman nearby is stunned and reaches to hold her back

Photo white woman leans over to scream at child in a strolling. Black woman nearby is stunned and reaches to hold her back

From the 2024 election season:
Y’all remember that Black woman that stopped the white woman from screaming in the kid’s face… in the stroller…
Telling her β€œThat’s a kid.”

25.04.2025 17:48 β€” πŸ‘ 75    πŸ” 13    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 8
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Dr. Toni Morrison on white women - a whole damn read:

25.04.2025 04:12 β€” πŸ‘ 1031    πŸ” 399    πŸ’¬ 37    πŸ“Œ 73

Yall letting yall husband bite you? (Sinners) as soon as Bo came to the door I looked at my man and said β€œyou wouldn’t even have to say anything” lol tf don’t leave me here

03.05.2025 23:05 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you!!

30.04.2025 19:05 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you so much!

30.04.2025 13:56 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you lovely!

30.04.2025 13:56 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I’m pretty sure anyway. I did the math.

30.04.2025 13:55 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

32 years around the sun today πŸ’β™‰οΈπŸ’š

30.04.2025 13:55 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 0

I do not be fixing silly typos lol. Use context clues seriously don’t piss me off.

24.04.2025 13:44 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Once something that should be simple is made to be difficult I am no longer interested. Thanks anyway.

16.04.2025 12:34 β€” πŸ‘ 15    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

I’m eating kix playing the sims. Anita baker is blasting. My house plants are back out in the sun. I don’t have random you’re a 30+ women belly ache. Never mind I felt a cramp as I was typing this. Life is still really good.

13.04.2025 16:11 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Two piece shorty got me over here all giddy. We should all punch someone in the face at least once a quarter.

09.04.2025 11:41 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Pittsburgh had hail, thunderstorms, and 70Β° weather today

16.03.2025 21:07 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Such a productive morning and afternoon. I love being responsible so I can be irresponsible. Balance.

16.03.2025 19:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I don't want my appliances to be connected to the internet. I don't want them to have blinky lights or touch screen controls or be accessible by phone. All I want is for them to do the one thing they are supposed to do, and to beep less.

Hear that, manufacturers? Less beeping.

27.01.2025 16:26 β€” πŸ‘ 20978    πŸ” 2210    πŸ’¬ 948    πŸ“Œ 246

Bobby Womack really said if you think you’re lonely now get a load of this bitch

05.03.2025 11:49 β€” πŸ‘ 22    πŸ” 7    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 1

White people will try to police you minding your business. You just gotta pretend you can’t hear or see them. Literally pretend they are not there.

09.02.2025 15:36 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0