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Bex, if you can keep it

@bextraordinary.bsky.social

πŸ‡¦πŸ‡Ί in πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ (MA). Sr Research Associate, (B)exited academia. Work: Criminal justice, public health, CBPAR, women & girls, IPV/IPH, substance use & harm reduction. Play: Fantasy crochet, pottery, TTRPGs. bextraordinarycreatures.com

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Probably wouldn't be yelling on BlueSky about this if I wasn't deep in it in a million different ways myself πŸ˜…

03.03.2026 16:03 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Actually listening to a diverse team, creating that psychologically safe environment, and incorporating their influence into your decision making IS the hard work. The rest is just... stuff. All else flows from that point. And not enough organizations are doing it well.

03.03.2026 15:39 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Importantly, the diversity alone isn't enough. People on your team also need psychological safety so they *can* raise their concerns. You can't put together a Benetton team but then disregard all of their viewpoints - you might as well not have them, then. They are tokens.

03.03.2026 15:38 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It's meant to add friction to the otherwise easy slide into bad ideas. Diversity of background, experience, social identity and impact of those exact decisions is what allows teams to pump the brakes, consider all the options, and proceed with caution.

03.03.2026 15:37 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

To expand on this bc I'm in a mood, today I was thinking about how diverse and inclusive teams have a ton of documented benefits but that doesn't mean they're easy. It's HARD to coordinate diverse groups - but that's the point. It's meant to be hard. It's meant to complicate decision-making.

03.03.2026 15:37 β€” πŸ‘ 20    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Interesting that two of the three were advised by women (a mother and a wife).

03.03.2026 15:31 β€” πŸ‘ 18    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

β€œNYU Langone’s change in policy is self-imposed,” the letter states. β€œThere has been no change in federal law to require the cessation of medically necessary transgender health care.”

03.03.2026 11:59 β€” πŸ‘ 189    πŸ” 30    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 2
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N.Y. Attorney General Orders Hospital to Resume Youth Transgender Care

Tish James to NYU Langone on cessation of gender affirming care: Stop obeying in advance. www.nytimes.com/2026/03/02/n...

03.03.2026 11:58 β€” πŸ‘ 577    πŸ” 148    πŸ’¬ 8    πŸ“Œ 13

Big W from Tish James here.

03.03.2026 12:14 β€” πŸ‘ 957    πŸ” 201    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 8

The model of unpaid academic labor required good jobs with ample unstructured time.

03.03.2026 12:19 β€” πŸ‘ 311    πŸ” 74    πŸ’¬ 7    πŸ“Œ 2

5yo: "This book is written by Dave Pilkey. He's real! He's a real person."
"He is! The people who write your books are real."
"Even Mo Willems?!"

03.03.2026 01:11 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

(Strongly encouraged from a place of caring for me, not in a threatening way! And I did really need it. I was crashing, hard.)

03.03.2026 01:08 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Whoa!

03.03.2026 01:07 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

THE ACTUAL MAYOR OF BLUESKY?!?

03.03.2026 01:04 β€” πŸ‘ 26    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
A 4ft garage workbench with a black pegboard. It holds a variety of pottery tools.

A 4ft garage workbench with a black pegboard. It holds a variety of pottery tools.

An upside-down clay bowl with a garden pattern.

An upside-down clay bowl with a garden pattern.

An unfired oval-shaped clay platter with a cactus/succulent pattern.

An unfired oval-shaped clay platter with a cactus/succulent pattern.

A long, narrow, oval platter with a raised texture of a jellyfish swarm.

A long, narrow, oval platter with a raised texture of a jellyfish swarm.

Second of my "strongly encouraged" days off work πŸ˜… On the first day, I built new tables for the Bextraordinarium (pottery edition; fiber arts edition is currently packed up for the home remodel 😭), so on the second day, I tried them out.

03.03.2026 01:04 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

as always "how would the court rule on this case to maximally advance Republican interests" is a better barometer for SCOTUS' actions than "how should the law be reasonably applied based on past precedent"

03.03.2026 00:42 β€” πŸ‘ 548    πŸ” 125    πŸ’¬ 8    πŸ“Œ 0

CURSE YOU SIZE SIXES.

02.03.2026 23:37 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Calling AI "slop" has been one of the most effective instances of the public rebranding a product and it pisses them off.

02.03.2026 20:44 β€” πŸ‘ 15606    πŸ” 4825    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 61

WHAT

02.03.2026 19:00 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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ProPublica Sues Education Department for Withholding Records About Discrimination in Schools Under Secretary Linda McMahon, the work of the Office for Civil Rights, which aims to protect students from discrimination, is cloaked in secrecy.

NEW: ProPublica has sued the Department of Education in federal court, accusing it of withholding public records about how it’s enforcing civil rights protections for millions of U.S. students.

02.03.2026 16:51 β€” πŸ‘ 1643    πŸ” 444    πŸ’¬ 22    πŸ“Œ 16

I definitely feel like our risk was significantly reduced when I switched to wfh. Still got one spouse on campus and two kids in school, though, ugh.

02.03.2026 20:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

for those of you who werent adults during iraq, its hard to overstate how much the media loves war porn. they salivate over pentagon spin briefings. they love stories about all the bombs and how supposedly infallible they are. they love the notion of the commander in chief, in the situation room etc

02.03.2026 15:52 β€” πŸ‘ 9825    πŸ” 2077    πŸ’¬ 440    πŸ“Œ 152

Honestly did not realize "USian" is at all controversial or derogatory. I use it for the same reason, after picking it up from people pointing out the centering/presumed default of USA as the only acknowledged America. πŸ€·πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ

02.03.2026 13:29 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

It’s a really good standard: bsky.app/profile/oluf...

02.03.2026 13:24 β€” πŸ‘ 279    πŸ” 17    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

About 15 years ago I was talking to a bunch of politics people who all casually started sharing coke stories and I was like β€œCocaine? From movies?”

02.03.2026 06:22 β€” πŸ‘ 162    πŸ” 22    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 1

$300 million mistake

That's the same cost as 25,000 Head Start slots

02.03.2026 12:57 β€” πŸ‘ 641    πŸ” 214    πŸ’¬ 8    πŸ“Œ 8

The substance of the most serious underlying problem here is spoken to in this piece. Einstein etc poison the well for education access online, and if not seen and treated as fraud will affect the credibility of academic degrees for *normal students* not well off enough to be a Brown dropout.

02.03.2026 01:09 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Also I’m not gonna sit here actually living just miles from the Maine border as a Black Jewish woman and be kind about people demanding that I repeatedly perform a song and dance about his tattoos and Reddit posts to indicate my awareness of them for strangers who don’t live in this social location

02.03.2026 00:54 β€” πŸ‘ 150    πŸ” 8    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

of all the things I have taught my 16 year old, the one where they create separate folders for separate years and separate classes and put homework in each, rather than just putting everything in their google drive, might be the most useful.

08.02.2026 15:39 β€” πŸ‘ 74    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 5

Social media created this nonsense idea that not exposing yourself to hatred is isolationist. Choosing to not spend your free time with bigots isn’t living in a bubble. I don’t need to know what’s going on at X. I won’t be smarter or more knowledgeable or empathic by being there. Neither will you.

01.03.2026 03:58 β€” πŸ‘ 18089    πŸ” 3418    πŸ’¬ 376    πŸ“Œ 171