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Bex, if you can keep it

@bextraordinary.bsky.social

πŸ‡¦πŸ‡Ί in πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ (MA). Sr Research Associate, (B)exited academia. Work: Criminal justice, public health, CBPAR, women & girls, IPV/IPH, substance use & harm reduction. Play: Fantasy crochet, pottery, TTRPGs. bextraordinarycreatures.com

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Six years ago a client came to me. His landlord was trying to evict him over the last payment of a rent to own contract. The client had remodeled the entire house himself with his own hands, a room at a time.

Today, client won the house.

Some days are good days.

04.03.2026 01:58 β€” πŸ‘ 1538    πŸ” 156    πŸ’¬ 26    πŸ“Œ 7

Our local utility (AES Indiana) was scheduled to have a community open house this evening, but they are rescheduling it β€œdue to threats.”

04.03.2026 01:00 β€” πŸ‘ 62    πŸ” 21    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 0

I'll see if she mentioned.

04.03.2026 01:08 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Weird. I thought your vote was supposed to be private. Like the conversations about women who might want to vote differently than their controlling husbands.

04.03.2026 00:59 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 0
I’m in line at the polls to vote, and they just announced there is a democrat side and republican side for the primary. The said republicans can come to the front of the line because they have no wait, and not a single person moved forward. Over 120 democrats in the democrat line (that I could count) πŸ’™βœŠπŸΌπŸŒŠ

I’m in line at the polls to vote, and they just announced there is a democrat side and republican side for the primary. The said republicans can come to the front of the line because they have no wait, and not a single person moved forward. Over 120 democrats in the democrat line (that I could count) πŸ’™βœŠπŸΌπŸŒŠ

Wait, is this legal? (Shared in a pottery group I'm in, the poster is voting in Texas. She also mentioned the issue with people going to the wrong polling location.)

04.03.2026 00:54 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 0

Is this just what it will always be like? Is this being an adult? Just.. recessions and crises and pandemics and wars? Making progress and then watching the most contemptible losers smash it with a hammer because they have everything but it's not enough?

03.03.2026 23:28 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I haven't even been online that much today (had a day off, so it was pottery, gym, & Outer Wilds time) and am still experiencing this surging panic and anxiety about everything. This shit has gotta be taking years off our lives.

03.03.2026 23:15 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Lots of stuff in this thread is available with links to the shop. Thanks as always for peeking, and thanks for sharing your favorites!

03.03.2026 20:22 β€” πŸ‘ 28    πŸ” 14    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

If they had DEI they’d know it was TargΓ©t not Tarzhay

03.03.2026 13:27 β€” πŸ‘ 3701    πŸ” 597    πŸ’¬ 56    πŸ“Œ 15

Micah is right.

But also, the executives did it because they wanted to

03.03.2026 19:06 β€” πŸ‘ 167    πŸ” 24    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 0
Paperback edition of There Is No Place for Us: Working and Homeless in America by Brian Goldstone

Paperback edition of There Is No Place for Us: Working and Homeless in America by Brian Goldstone

Today the paperback of THERE IS NO PLACE FOR US is out.

It's arriving in a country once again waging warβ€”a country that can spend tens of billions on bombs without blinking, while millions of Americans are one missed paycheck, one rent hike away from homelessness.

Let's take stock of where we are.

03.03.2026 14:17 β€” πŸ‘ 948    πŸ” 334    πŸ’¬ 16    πŸ“Œ 33

Probably wouldn't be yelling on BlueSky about this if I wasn't deep in it in a million different ways myself πŸ˜…

03.03.2026 16:03 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Actually listening to a diverse team, creating that psychologically safe environment, and incorporating their influence into your decision making IS the hard work. The rest is just... stuff. All else flows from that point. And not enough organizations are doing it well.

03.03.2026 15:39 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Importantly, the diversity alone isn't enough. People on your team also need psychological safety so they *can* raise their concerns. You can't put together a Benetton team but then disregard all of their viewpoints - you might as well not have them, then. They are tokens.

03.03.2026 15:38 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It's meant to add friction to the otherwise easy slide into bad ideas. Diversity of background, experience, social identity and impact of those exact decisions is what allows teams to pump the brakes, consider all the options, and proceed with caution.

03.03.2026 15:37 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

To expand on this bc I'm in a mood, today I was thinking about how diverse and inclusive teams have a ton of documented benefits but that doesn't mean they're easy. It's HARD to coordinate diverse groups - but that's the point. It's meant to be hard. It's meant to complicate decision-making.

03.03.2026 15:37 β€” πŸ‘ 20    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

Interesting that two of the three were advised by women (a mother and a wife).

03.03.2026 15:31 β€” πŸ‘ 21    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

β€œNYU Langone’s change in policy is self-imposed,” the letter states. β€œThere has been no change in federal law to require the cessation of medically necessary transgender health care.”

03.03.2026 11:59 β€” πŸ‘ 215    πŸ” 35    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 2
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N.Y. Attorney General Orders Hospital to Resume Youth Transgender Care

Tish James to NYU Langone on cessation of gender affirming care: Stop obeying in advance. www.nytimes.com/2026/03/02/n...

03.03.2026 11:58 β€” πŸ‘ 676    πŸ” 170    πŸ’¬ 8    πŸ“Œ 18

Big W from Tish James here.

03.03.2026 12:14 β€” πŸ‘ 1072    πŸ” 226    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 11

The model of unpaid academic labor required good jobs with ample unstructured time.

03.03.2026 12:19 β€” πŸ‘ 356    πŸ” 82    πŸ’¬ 7    πŸ“Œ 2

5yo: "This book is written by Dave Pilkey. He's real! He's a real person."
"He is! The people who write your books are real."
"Even Mo Willems?!"

03.03.2026 01:11 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

(Strongly encouraged from a place of caring for me, not in a threatening way! And I did really need it. I was crashing, hard.)

03.03.2026 01:08 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Whoa!

03.03.2026 01:07 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

THE ACTUAL MAYOR OF BLUESKY?!?

03.03.2026 01:04 β€” πŸ‘ 27    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
A 4ft garage workbench with a black pegboard. It holds a variety of pottery tools.

A 4ft garage workbench with a black pegboard. It holds a variety of pottery tools.

An upside-down clay bowl with a garden pattern.

An upside-down clay bowl with a garden pattern.

An unfired oval-shaped clay platter with a cactus/succulent pattern.

An unfired oval-shaped clay platter with a cactus/succulent pattern.

A long, narrow, oval platter with a raised texture of a jellyfish swarm.

A long, narrow, oval platter with a raised texture of a jellyfish swarm.

Second of my "strongly encouraged" days off work πŸ˜… On the first day, I built new tables for the Bextraordinarium (pottery edition; fiber arts edition is currently packed up for the home remodel 😭), so on the second day, I tried them out.

03.03.2026 01:04 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

as always "how would the court rule on this case to maximally advance Republican interests" is a better barometer for SCOTUS' actions than "how should the law be reasonably applied based on past precedent"

03.03.2026 00:42 β€” πŸ‘ 554    πŸ” 126    πŸ’¬ 8    πŸ“Œ 0

CURSE YOU SIZE SIXES.

02.03.2026 23:37 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Calling AI "slop" has been one of the most effective instances of the public rebranding a product and it pisses them off.

02.03.2026 20:44 β€” πŸ‘ 16236    πŸ” 5027    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 63

WHAT

02.03.2026 19:00 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0