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Bonnie

@thatbonnie.bsky.social

transsexual with four degrees and good political opinions (She/Her)

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Notice how thats not at all what I said though.

02.03.2026 06:21 — 👍 9    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Genuinely amazing how you brought yourself here tbh.

Btw this is just transphobia that you are doing right now.

02.03.2026 06:20 — 👍 15    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

Genuinely amazing how you brought yourself here tbh.

Btw this is just transphobia that you are doing right now.

02.03.2026 06:20 — 👍 15    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

Not really

What do you think 'split the baby' meant?

What about the 'could you imagine someone saying this to a cis kid'

What do you think that was saying?

If the obvious alternative isnt "of course just hrt right away so they can go through puberty with their peers" then that says more abt u

02.03.2026 06:09 — 👍 13    🔁 0    💬 3    📌 0

I didn't paint with a broad brush. You misunderstood what I wrote.

Being a parent of a trans kid doesnt even necessarily make you an ally, plenty of parents of trans people are their first bully in life.

Maybe take a beat to listen to what trans people are saying before getting defensive

02.03.2026 06:03 — 👍 13    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

You cant convince me that Love is Blind isnt very overt right wing propaganda meant to push specific social narratives through a seemingly apolitical show.

02.03.2026 04:55 — 👍 31    🔁 1    💬 1    📌 0

Trans kids should be able to go through the right puberty at the same age as their peers.

The reason puberty blockers are being pushed as the default (instead of as an option for when there is genuine uncertainty) is a compromise made largely to appease cis people who are uncomfortable w trans ppl

02.03.2026 04:46 — 👍 41    🔁 3    💬 1    📌 0

Just give them hormones!! Why do we have to make trans kids wait half of their teenage years to grow up the way they want!!

02.03.2026 04:38 — 👍 181    🔁 36    💬 5    📌 0

"Trans kids need puberty blockers so they can go through the right puberty when theyre old enough"

Is easily one of the most annoying ally 'split the baby' talking points.

Imagine if someone said that about a cis kid.

02.03.2026 04:33 — 👍 101    🔁 5    💬 4    📌 2

Back in my day people would argue online the old fashioned way, by making up stuff all on their own.

These days people just have chat gpt write an essay and put it in the comments somewhere. Unreal.

01.03.2026 03:27 — 👍 34    🔁 4    💬 0    📌 0

Truly!!! I have been thinking about this a lot lately tbh

17.02.2026 13:27 — 👍 2    🔁 3    💬 0    📌 0

I wish more people payed attention to the fact that while efforts have definitely been made to pass bills, the biggest changes TERFs have made to laws has been through changing the meaning of words in popular understanding.

This is why its so important to not adopt their language

17.02.2026 13:16 — 👍 106    🔁 26    💬 2    📌 0

Informal community knowledge is not the same as "anecdotal evidence"

16.02.2026 22:07 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

A) there have been other studies that showed this
B) trans women's experience *is* evidence
C) this has been known in the context of basic biology for a bit

Also, is there *any* evidence to support an assumption that estrogen should work differently than any other med re:uptake?

16.02.2026 01:24 — 👍 11    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Like every 2 months there's a new study presented in the press like its brand new that HRT improves trans people's mental health

16.02.2026 00:38 — 👍 175    🔁 8    💬 3    📌 0
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Can we stop acting like every bit of research about trans people is entirely new?

The study they are referencing suggests that injections are more effective and that Spiro sucks... which like... thats been known for a long time

16.02.2026 00:37 — 👍 436    🔁 46    💬 16    📌 18

State AGs need to worry less about jurisdictional minutiea and more about finding any excuse to prosecute people in the epstien files

12.02.2026 03:46 — 👍 53    🔁 11    💬 0    📌 0

Everyonce in a while, I'm confronted with the fact that I often talk like an 18th century professor on stimulants and think "wow, I must be really annoying somtimes"

"hey why did you use that really technical word"

well you see, its actually because I don't know any other ones tbh

06.02.2026 23:52 — 👍 30    🔁 4    💬 0    📌 0

To be clear, there is a lot of blame to be put here on "allies" who refuse to listen to trans people and keep harping on the same harmful nonsense of centering puberty blockers "wait and see" approaches and shouting "surgeries dont happen under 18"

05.02.2026 20:12 — 👍 29    🔁 3    💬 1    📌 0
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Wildly infuriating that the AMA decided to hedge on trans youth care like this.

Trans people deserve the right to bodily autonomy and to go through puberty at the same age as their peers.

05.02.2026 20:09 — 👍 68    🔁 12    💬 3    📌 1

Like I knew I was right, we didn't really need to get confirmation in this way

04.02.2026 01:55 — 👍 27    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I know I've always said that conservatives' transphobia is mostly performative because they want to maintain a hyper-exploitable population of women, but its super fucked seeing it spelled out so explicitly in the epstien files along side him putting life support into 4chan.

04.02.2026 01:52 — 👍 89    🔁 13    💬 1    📌 0

My socialist pipe dream program is a govt agency that all you need is a letter from a doctor saying you have a disability and they just send cleaners to your house once a week

03.02.2026 13:13 — 👍 68    🔁 1    💬 2    📌 0

Democratic electeds going "there just nothing we can do 😔" while Mamdani is doing very many things in real time, sure is something to see

03.02.2026 11:39 — 👍 144    🔁 16    💬 1    📌 0

*return of the measels*
*secret police that target elementary schools*
*billionaire sex trafficking ring*

Republicans: this is fine, ideal actually

Trans person: *exists*

Republicans: won't somebody think of the children 😡😭

03.02.2026 11:12 — 👍 183    🔁 42    💬 2    📌 0

Very tired of democrats responding to everything trump does with "what Trump is doing is illegal, so we are passing a bill to make it double illegal"

31.01.2026 23:51 — 👍 104    🔁 20    💬 7    📌 1
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I'm gonna miss this little guy so much ❤️

RIP Mr Crowley

31.01.2026 21:46 — 👍 109    🔁 1    💬 8    📌 0

Truly

29.01.2026 05:11 — 👍 5    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

"Oh but Bob overstayed his visa"

Like I couldn't possibly care less

29.01.2026 05:09 — 👍 99    🔁 6    💬 2    📌 0

I simply will never care about "illegal immigration" when most rape kits go unanalyzed and the president won't release the documents he is legally required to regarding the most high profile sex trafficking scheme in US history

29.01.2026 05:08 — 👍 283    🔁 61    💬 4    📌 0