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Support what you loveβ€”and get something back. πŸ’—
Join our Patreon and get:

πŸ“š Free BDSM book each month (select tiers)
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12.12.2025 03:51 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

New post! Creating Personal Rituals to Deepen Your Submission https://submissiveguide.com/articles/skills/personal-submissive-rituals/

11.12.2025 02:48 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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πŸ“£ This month's featured read is here! Join Submissive Guide on Patreon as a Library Card Patron and receive "Guide to Your First Munch" as your reward. Expand your BDSM education today: https://subgui.de/patreon #bookofthemonth #patreon #subguide

10.12.2025 12:20 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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It’s time for our monthly watch party on our Discord server! Each month, we’ll watch YouTube videos by BDSM educators and discuss the topics together. December 12, 2025 at 7PM CST Let's explore Building Your Own Home Dungeon! https://subgui.de/chat #subguide #BDSMEducation

09.12.2025 23:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Rate your current kink life on a scale of 1-10 and describe why you've rated it that way.

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08.12.2025 18:33 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

New post! How can a willing sub help a willing but nervous new Dom feel comfortable in the scene? https://submissiveguide.com/articles/relationships/how-can-a-willing-sub-help-a-willing-but-nervous-new-dom-feel-comfortable-in-the-scene/

07.12.2025 02:48 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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πŸŽ‰ Join us this Friday for our Discord Community Munch! πŸŽ‰
πŸ•’ Friday, Dec 5th

πŸ“ Discord: https://subgui.de/chat

This month’s topic: Your Favorite BDSM Toys πŸ’‘

New to munches? Come as you are! πŸ–€

05.12.2025 23:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ“š Unlock exclusive rewards this month by joining Submissive Guide on Patreon as a Library Card Patron! Dive into "Guide to Your First Munch.” Sign up now: http://subgui.de/patreon #bookofthemonth #patreon #subguide

05.12.2025 11:20 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Final hours for 50% off the Summit Replay Pass.
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Ends tonight.
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02.12.2025 00:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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What is something you regret doing in your BDSM exploration? How would you have changed it if you could?

You asked for submissive journal prompts, and we delivered! Get the book, or sign up to receive daily prompts directly to your inbox. http://subgui.de/365days

01.12.2025 18:33 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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If you wanted to grab the Summit replays, this is the last call.
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01.12.2025 15:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

You’re not behind.
You’re not too late.
Your submission deserves support and clarity.
If you need a gentle place to begin, the Summit Replay Pass is 50% off through Monday.
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01.12.2025 00:00 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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A quiet Sunday note:
The Summit Replay Pass is still 50% off.
If you've been wanting deeper guidance in your submission, the full library is self-paced and beginner-friendly.
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30.11.2025 19:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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If you want to strengthen your submissive fundamentals, my class The Submissive’s Toolbox is included in the Summit Replay Pass.
50% off all weekend.
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30.11.2025 05:00 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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If you’re rebuilding your submission, starting fresh, or wanting more confidence in your role… this replay bundle is such a supportive resource.
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30.11.2025 02:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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If you’re looking for structured D/s guidance going into 2026, the Summit Instant Access Pass is discounted to $49 this weekend.
20+ classes, lifetime access, and a private podcast feed.
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28.11.2025 22:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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The Dom/sub Dynamics Summit Replay Pass is 50% off through Monday.
My full class, The Submissive’s Toolbox, is included along with 20+ expert trainings.
Replay library + podcast feed + workbook.
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28.11.2025 15:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Ready to take your submissive journey to the next level?

Join Submissive Guide on Patreon for $10/month and get:
✨ Self-paced mini-classes
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22.11.2025 20:10 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

New post! I’m an introvert with social anxiety. Any tips for going to munches or scene events? https://submissiveguide.com/articles/fundamentals/im-an-introvert-with-social-anxiety-any-tips-for-going-to-munches-or-scene-events/

22.11.2025 02:48 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

New post! What to Wear to a BDSM Play Party https://submissiveguide.com/articles/skills/what-to-wear-to-a-play-party/

21.11.2025 02:48 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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19.11.2025 17:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Do you struggle with sub drop? How are you cared for during this time?
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17.11.2025 18:33 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Join 30 Days of Submissive Self-Care β€” a month of gentle reflection for submissives who need rest.
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17.11.2025 14:29 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Want a chance for your BDSM or submissive question to be answered in an Ask SubGuide column? Ask in the comments, send me a message, or leave it anonymously here - https://forms.gle/woycNkR3YvNX3wBH8 #subguide #ama

15.11.2025 20:10 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

New post! My long distance partner cuts communication with me and it hurts, what can I do? https://submissiveguide.com/articles/relationships/my-long-distance-partner-cuts-communication-with-me-and-it-hurts-what-can-i-do/

15.11.2025 02:48 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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This holiday season, give yourself the gift of peace.
✨ 30 Days of Submissive Self-Care ✨
A gentle, self-paced class with daily reflections & soft rituals to reconnect with your submission.
Starts Nov 17 for $10+ Patrons.
πŸ‘‰ https://subgui.de/patreon #subguide

13.11.2025 17:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

New post! Finding Sanctuary in Submission When the World Feels Heavy https://submissiveguide.com/articles/personal-growth/finding-sanctuary-in-submission-when-the-world-feels-heavy/

13.11.2025 02:48 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Submission thrives in stillness. 🌿
Join me for 30 Days of Submissive Self-Care β€” a gentle month of rest & reflection for the heart that serves.
Starts November 17 | $10+ Patrons
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10.11.2025 22:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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β€œThis was a book written with obvious first-hand knowledge, and it provided an intimate view of the different ways a sub could process pain. [...]”

--TXGirl6

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10.11.2025 20:22 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Am I holding myself to a standard of 'perfection' in my submission? How can I remind myself that submission is a journey, not a destination?

You asked for submissive journal prompts, and we delivered! Get the book, or sign up to receive daily prompts directly to your inbox. http://subgui.de/365days

10.11.2025 18:33 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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