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#Self #help for all submissives in #BDSM and #DsRelationships. #Tips, #articles and #advice at your fingertips. Learning is Sexy! https://explore.subgui.de https://submissiveguide.com http://patreon.com/subguide

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The Toybag Guide To Foot And Shoe Worship is a handy manual to the delights of feet and footwear from the varieties of feet, boots and shoes, and those who love them to how to enjoy being the recipient of foot and shoe worship. https://amzn.to/2jJoFwH #affiliate #subguide

12.02.2026 22:33 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

#KinkTip - Saying β€œno” can deepen your submission. A Dominant who values your boundaries values you.
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More on healthy dynamics: https://submissiveguide.com

12.02.2026 21:08 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

#SubGuideTeaches - Submission is a choice you make again and again. When it stops feeling like a choice, that’s a sign it’s time to pause and reflect.

12.02.2026 21:06 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Why are we on Patreon?

Because creating the BDSM education you love takes more than passionβ€”it takes time, tools, and support.

If our work matters to you, help keep it going. πŸ’—
Join the community: https://patreon.com/subguide

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12.02.2026 20:58 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

New post! New to D/s Relationships? Here’s Your Foolproof Guide to Starting Out – Part 2 https://submissiveguide.com/articles/relationships/negotiate-ds-relationship-expectations/

12.02.2026 20:54 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

#SubAffirmation – I deserve care, love, and fulfillment - just as I am.
If this one speaks to you, type β€œI claim this” below.
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Explore more at https://submissiveguide.com

11.02.2026 16:36 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The essential guide to the creative, erotic art of sexual role-play. Fantasy Made Flesh helps readers use imagination in a sensual context and gives permission to become the creatures of their dreams. https://amzn.to/2lfiBwr #affiliate #subguide

10.02.2026 22:33 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It’s time for our monthly watch party on our Discord server! Each month, we’ll watch YouTube videos by BDSM educators and discuss the topics together. February 13, 2026 at 7PM CST Let's explore Subtle Protocol in D/s https://subgui.de/chat

10.02.2026 20:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

#KinkTip - Submissive doesn’t mean boundary-less. Limits protect your heart and your dynamic.
Boundaries are care.
#subguide

10.02.2026 19:35 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

#SubAffirmation – I grow through service, reflection, and mindful effort.
Claim it in a reply if you’re taking this into your dynamic.
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Explore more at https://submissiveguide.com

10.02.2026 16:36 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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10.02.2026 03:51 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

β€œPain is only weakness leaving your body, so dont give up because it hurts … keep going cause it makes you stonger.” – Brandon Moore

09.02.2026 16:36 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Support what you loveβ€”and get something back. πŸ’—
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πŸ“š Free BDSM book each month (select tiers)
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09.02.2026 03:51 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

πŸŽ‰ Shoutout to our amazing listeners! Your support keeps us going. The newest episode of Submissive Guide Podcast is out now - let us know your favorite part! 🎧 http://subgui.de/podcast #PodcastFans #CommunityLove #NewEpisode

08.02.2026 20:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

#SubAffirmation – I embrace the journey of becoming a better submissive.
Claim it in a reply if you’re taking this into your dynamic.
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08.02.2026 16:36 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

#KinkTip - A healthy dynamic embraces imperfection on both sides. You can be devoted and human.
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07.02.2026 19:35 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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If you’ve ever felt unsure about what β€œhealthy” power exchange looks like, this class was built for you. New class begins Feb 10. https://patreon.com/subguide #subguide

07.02.2026 17:00 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

When we treat submission as care, it stops being something we β€œowe” and becomes something we β€œgrow.” -- Luna Carruthers, from Finding Sanctuary in Submission When the World Feels Heavy on Submissive Guide

07.02.2026 16:36 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

#SubGuideTeaches - Submission can be deeply structured or beautifully fluid. What matters most is that it’s chosen, consensual, and supported.

06.02.2026 16:36 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Ready to take your submissive journey to the next level?

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06.02.2026 03:51 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Submissive Self-Help & Training Books (Amazon List)

A curated, growing list of books focused on communication, skills, mindset, and healthy submission.
Know a title that belongs here? I’m always open to recommendations.

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05.02.2026 22:33 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

#KinkTip - Fantasy D/s is beautiful. Real D/s is human. Your Dominant has fears, off days, limits, and needs too.
That humanity makes the bond stronger.
#subguide

05.02.2026 19:35 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

#SubAffirmation – I find peace in structure and connection in surrender.
Claim it in a reply if you’re taking this into your dynamic.
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Become a Student: https://patreon.com/subguide

05.02.2026 16:36 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Be a Cow! My Journey into Hucow Play | Submissive Guide Love this podcast? Don't forget to add it to your list! https://podcast.submissiveguide.com

05.02.2026 16:12 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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🌟 Exciting news! Our new episode, "Be a Cow! My Journey into Hucow Play," just hit the airwaves. πŸŽ™οΈ Listen on the go and share your thoughts using #SubguidePodcast. Available on http://subgui.de/podcast. #NewEpisode #PodcastCommunity #TwitterListen

04.02.2026 20:02 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

#SubAffirmation – I release perfection and welcome growth, curiosity, and practice.
Claim it in a reply if you’re taking this into your dynamic.
#subguide
Explore more at https://submissiveguide.com

04.02.2026 16:37 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Toybag Guide to Dungeon Emergencies covers the 30 most common BDSM emergencies, how to build and maintain a dungeon first aid kit, and other essential safety information.
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03.02.2026 22:33 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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πŸŽ‰ Join us this Friday for our Discord Community Munch! πŸŽ‰
πŸ•’ Feb 6, 2026, 7PM CST
πŸ“ Discord: https://subgui.de/chat
New to munches? Come as you are! πŸ–€
#CommunityMunch #VirtualHangout #BDSMCommunity #subguide

03.02.2026 20:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

#KinkTip - What makes kink meaningful isn’t the toy. It’s the intention behind it.
Impact without connection is just noise.
#subguide

03.02.2026 19:35 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Healthy D/s isn’t about control. It’s about trust, communication, and care. Our new Patreon class starts Feb 10 and is included with the Student Tier. https://patreon.com/subguide #subguide

03.02.2026 17:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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