O-T Fagbenle is so fine to me. 😍
#AllsFair

Don’t hate. lol

Benito looks good af in this shirt. 🥵🤤😮‍💨 #snl

I’m not one to envy the social media gays but I, too, want a Cartier bracelet. 🫣

I usually say:
“I’m ravenous.”
“I’m overtaken by lust,”
or “I’m feeling rather Lecherous.” 🤭

I want my future partner to be kind, intelligent, intellectually curious, have some sort of spiritual practice, be in therapy and/or actively healing childhood trauma, have a desire to love and be loved in return. And be a big nasty — fuck on the balcony during our vacation — ol’ freak.

I get being stupid horny and laser focused on finding something very specific but that doesn’t mean you should get frustrated because someone is being kind to you
— and not treating you like a piece of meat.

Every time you’re kind to someone on Grindr they block you. LMFAO

Gays really have to heal man.

No hate but Fire Island feels less like a vacation & more like a performative thirst trap… just steroidy chaos & social clout cosplay.

P-Town, Mykonos, even the Hamptons have charm. This? Not so much. For what it costs, you could be luxuriating somewhere with actual peace & taste. #justsaying

Men with bubble butts need to wear panties, lingerie, thongs, and jockstraps. Those are the rules.

At the very least those Brazilian cut briefs.

Saw Superman tonight but the real hero was the silver daddy 3 seats over.

Salt-n-pepper beard, thighs like vengeance, and hoochie shorts clinging to that fat ass like trauma.

We made eye contact like sinners at church but I was with a friend, so no sins were committed. Tragic.

Fascinating how silence became the preferred method of rejection when basic decency costs nothing.

Always remember there’s a person on the other end of your screen.

#Grindr #Sniffies #Jackd #hookups #hookupapps #appetiquette #gaydating #bisky

Attraction isn’t universal. That’s fair.

But there’s something borderline sociopathic about ghosting the moment someone unlock photos on a hookup app.

Is it really that emotionally taxing to type “Not interested?”

#Grindr #Sniffies #Jackd #hookups #hookupapps #appetiquette #gaydating #gaysky

I take pride in being independent. But after working two jobs, tackling yard work, working out, cleaning my apt, and doing laundry — today — it’d be nice to come home to a home-cooked meal. Not trying to reinforce outdated gender or role-based stereotypes, but where’s my wife (woman or bottom)? 😅

😍😍😍

Friend: ‘Your iPhone and Apple Watch both got privacy screens. Is it that deep?’

Me: ‘Sure is. Mind ya business!’

My man, my man, my man (in my head). 😍

🔥

Is she the narrator? 👀

It is me. lol

… and?

The truth is we become friends, siblings & parents without having fully “worked on ourselves,” so why is it only romantic love that demands we be perfectly prepared to receive it? We aren’t meant to live in isolation. Growth & healing can happen alongside building & nurturing romantic relationships.

— especially since romantic love is often treated as an optional extra rather than a core human need.

One common misconception is the idea that we must be completely “fixed” before we can experience romantic love. In reality, we are all ongoing works in progress, and the advice to “work on yourself” is often (though not always) a dismissive way for others to avoid offering real empathy —

😍

Feliz cumpleaños 🥳

Me af. ☺️

#BeyondTheGates gets better and better.

Everyone is so attractive.