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An ermine climbs through a narrow cliff crevice in Yellowstone National Park to catch a woodrat. ©taylor. nature. photography
#photography #nature #NaturePhotography

YouTube video by EthelCainVEVO Ethel Cain - American Teenager (Official Video)

Getting psyched up for Ethel Cain's new music by listening to her other albums. A moody distorted shoegaze lover's dream imo. Though I have a soft spot for this anthem ❤️"A long cold war with your kids at the front" - nobody understands conservative fears like rural Queers

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God I love blocklists. If only real life came with the option to just never interact with brainrotted bigots ✨

Oh and do yourselves a favor, go ahead and block that "kiwi farms" account POS that for some reason liked this post about how ridiculous the transphobia is when it's exactly what these shitstains perpetuate 🤣 conservatives really lack like...comprehension skills don't they 🤡

Just a really great example of how making a legal system that is actively hostile towards trans and intersex people, makes things unnecessarily more complicated for everyone 🤷‍♂️ I'll be interested to see how this progresses...

Screenshot from an article on the Guardian online. Headline picture is a young cis straight couple holding their newborn. Headline title reads: "we were horrified": parents heartbroken as baby girl registered as male. Subtitle reads; Parents told Nottinghamshire registrar's error on birth certificate cannot be changed. Article author listed as Amelia Hill, publication date as Tues 19 Nov 2024 09:00 EST

Funny how transphobes bleat about how important it is to have a sex marker that "accurately reflects your biology" and yet, due to human error, this child is now legally registered as male. With no way to change that without GRC which you can only get 18+ with a medical diagnosis +3years evidence 🤷‍♂️

Wouldst Thou Like To Live Deliciously?

David Tennant is a fantastic actor and a beautiful human and all round good egg. This picture of him makes me smile. Not the first time this man has shown his support for Queer and Trans communities www.thepinknews.com/2023/07/11/d... and, based on the way he supports his nonbinary kid, not the last

Incredible 💖

A meme. Top left is written the words "to be loved" in flowing cursive script, next to be a picture of a brand new Garfield plush toy. Bottom text reads "is to be changed" in a regular Font, next to a picture of the same Garfield plush, all squished and grubby and the epitome of a much loved children's toy.

"to be loved is to be changed" 🥺💖

(why yes I do have a folder full of memes that make me feel the Big Emotions for special occasions when my brain is doing a wonky)

TLDR; I think now I recognise how much happier I am at places where I feel innately welcomed not like Im some exception with special permission to be there, now I need to seek out and make efforts to attend explicitly Queer events and not just feel like I have to settle for "good enough"

The difference I felt between attending a gay male event and a queer one was night and day. In one, I was a tourist, in the other I was at home. Absolutely free from the pressure of passing, I could just be myself and not worry. Queer has so much space to it for me in a way gay never has.

Because even though I pass well enough as a man,; I'm not one. I'm a non-binary genderqueer mess 😅 I'm not gay, I'm not only attracted to men I am hopelessly bisexual and honestly the reason i attend most of these events is more to do with the venues holding licences to host smutty stuff 🤷‍♂️

A picture of my big Queer face, alongside a truth I now recognise;

I don't actually feel comfortable in any spaces segregated by gender and/or sexuality.

The times I've actually gone to "gay male only" events, even ones where theyve made an effort to be inclusive to trans men, still feel... off

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Benjen wearing their big Pokémon snorlax onesie, hood pulled up and obscuring their face so the Snorlax pattern shows. They're smiling and look excited to be so snug.

Allo - just a Queer in their snorlax onesie. Gonna start transferring some older pictures to here, ones that make me smile 😊

*crumbles into dust* 🤣