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Doctor in Women's Studies | Writer, researcher, reporter | Co-founder of The Flytrap | she/her | hire me: nicolefroio@gmail.com | tip me on Signal: nicolefroio.57 | anarcho-feminist | Free Palestine

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Not to be THAT feminist, but I knew this was the case before opening the article. Men see fatherhood as an abstract milestone that's a proof of their virility, women see the associated costs.

Not to mention that women not being locked into domesticity is the core of the antifeminist backlash today.

05.03.2026 13:01 β€” πŸ‘ 980    πŸ” 240    πŸ’¬ 32    πŸ“Œ 18

I ran a project with over 2,000 new mums. I can tell you, the core experience of heterosexual motherhood is being being absolutely knackered all the time, and incandescently pissed off at your husband/boyfriend about the unequal distribution of parental labour.

05.03.2026 14:26 β€” πŸ‘ 54    πŸ” 12    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

"Anti-porn activists want you to think this is a battle to protect women from exploitation and the soul of America, but sex workers know that the real battle is their fight for autonomy, respect, and safe working conditions." @sesmith.lol

04.03.2026 16:38 β€” πŸ‘ 59    πŸ” 23    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Feels like the natural endpoint of our society tbh. Was always going to go this way

04.03.2026 22:41 β€” πŸ‘ 221    πŸ” 33    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

they are killing human beings in ways that no human being should die

04.03.2026 18:50 β€” πŸ‘ 147    πŸ” 33    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Too bad there aren't any rich people who could run ads with this information on every social media and regular media channel.

04.03.2026 22:43 β€” πŸ‘ 532    πŸ” 164    πŸ’¬ 6    πŸ“Œ 0

the issue with how PR people send me pitches is that "celebrity is promoting X cause" is not actually news or interesting, and I wish y'all would understand that.

04.03.2026 22:44 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Inquiry for New York Times

Good afternoon,
My name is [REDACTED]
and l am a reporter for the
New York Times. I am researching how much money the Palestinian diaspora community has sent to support Gazan families since the war in Gaza began. Does your team track this figure? I really appreciate it.
With gratitude,
[REDACTED]

1 Inquiry for New York Times Good afternoon, My name is [REDACTED] and l am a reporter for the New York Times. I am researching how much money the Palestinian diaspora community has sent to support Gazan families since the war in Gaza began. Does your team track this figure? I really appreciate it. With gratitude, [REDACTED]


Palestine Diaspora Movement 

Hello [REDACTED]
We do not collaborate with The New York Times.
Your email asks about money sent to Gazan families "since the war in Gaza began." Let us first correct the premise. This is not a war. It is a genocide. Calling it a war is part of the problem. It obscures the reality of a colonized people being massacred by a military machine backed by the United States and defended, sanitized, and rhetorically softened by institutions like yours.
The New York Times has spent far too long parroting Zionist propaganda and laundering Israeli state narratives while Palestinians bury their dead. That kind of coverage does not merely misinform. It helps create the political climate in which Palestinian slaughter becomes explainable, defensible, and forgettable.
So no, we will not be sharing any figures, internal data, or community information with a paper that has so thoroughly damaged its credibility on Palestine. Quite frankly, we would rather chew jeans than help The New York Times extract from our community while continuing to fail it.
Do not contact us again for this purpose, The Palestine Diaspora Movement Team

Palestine Diaspora Movement Hello [REDACTED] We do not collaborate with The New York Times. Your email asks about money sent to Gazan families "since the war in Gaza began." Let us first correct the premise. This is not a war. It is a genocide. Calling it a war is part of the problem. It obscures the reality of a colonized people being massacred by a military machine backed by the United States and defended, sanitized, and rhetorically softened by institutions like yours. The New York Times has spent far too long parroting Zionist propaganda and laundering Israeli state narratives while Palestinians bury their dead. That kind of coverage does not merely misinform. It helps create the political climate in which Palestinian slaughter becomes explainable, defensible, and forgettable. So no, we will not be sharing any figures, internal data, or community information with a paper that has so thoroughly damaged its credibility on Palestine. Quite frankly, we would rather chew jeans than help The New York Times extract from our community while continuing to fail it. Do not contact us again for this purpose, The Palestine Diaspora Movement Team

β€œQuite frankly, we would rather chew jeans than help The New York Times extract from our community while continuing to fail it”

lmaooo GET EM

04.03.2026 15:46 β€” πŸ‘ 2529    πŸ” 730    πŸ’¬ 24    πŸ“Œ 23

im really sorry to my body and brain for working without breakfast and making myself anxious.

04.03.2026 15:23 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I don't give up on myself. Proving haters wrong is the best fuel.

04.03.2026 14:51 β€” πŸ‘ 54    πŸ” 7    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0
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Amid Fierce Patriarchal Backlash and Surging Fascism, Does Freeing the Nipple Still Matter? A transgender woman with β€œindecent” breasts makes the case that topless equality is still worth fighting for.

We are now sharing a version of the image that we had ready on Instagram and Threads, with covered nipples, just in case this happened.

You can read the whole piece here:

03.03.2026 22:07 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

What do you think? Does #FreeTheNipple still matter when our bodies and speech are being censored by Tech Bros?

03.03.2026 22:07 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
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Amid Fierce Patriarchal Backlash and Surging Fascism, Does Freeing the Nipple Still Matter? A transgender woman with β€œindecent” breasts makes the case that topless equality is still worth fighting for.

In November,Β @thebugbeardispatch.bsky.socialΒ wrote: "One can never be sure what will trigger Meta’s automatic censorship, or whether one will be able to restore one’s Facebook or Instagram account if it’s unfairly banned."Β 

Read more:

03.03.2026 22:07 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
A screenshot of a blurred and censored photo posted on The Flytrap's Instagram account, with the word VIOLATION on top.

A screenshot of a blurred and censored photo posted on The Flytrap's Instagram account, with the word VIOLATION on top.

A screenshot of a notification from Instagram/Meta that says "we  removed your photo" on February 25th, 2025. The notification shows that despite appealing, Meta did not reinstate the image, alleging that the post "may contain nudity or sexual content."

A screenshot of a notification from Instagram/Meta that says "we removed your photo" on February 25th, 2025. The notification shows that despite appealing, Meta did not reinstate the image, alleging that the post "may contain nudity or sexual content."

In an illustration, three people of color are shown without shirts on. Their nipples are covered by yellow band aids.

In an illustration, three people of color are shown without shirts on. Their nipples are covered by yellow band aids.

A screenshot of a snippet of Chrissy Stroop's article that reads: "Bodily autonomy and opposition to gender discrimination are feminist values that are present in many of our ongoing struggles, not least for reproductive justice. They are also at the root of arguments for topless equality, making it a worthy cause, even if its pursuit seems Quixoticβ€”for now."

A screenshot of a snippet of Chrissy Stroop's article that reads: "Bodily autonomy and opposition to gender discrimination are feminist values that are present in many of our ongoing struggles, not least for reproductive justice. They are also at the root of arguments for topless equality, making it a worthy cause, even if its pursuit seems Quixoticβ€”for now."

Right on cue, Meta proves worker-ownerΒ @thebugbeardispatch.bsky.socialΒ 's point about the puritanical misogyny of tech bros by censoring the innocuous illustration that goes with her essay on why topless equality still matters.

03.03.2026 22:07 β€” πŸ‘ 68    πŸ” 14    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 1

Free the nipple!!

03.03.2026 22:26 β€” πŸ‘ 78    πŸ” 19    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 1
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Sex Workers Versus the Algorithm No seriously, fuck the algorithm.

HAPPY FLYTRAP TUESDAY!! This week, @sesmith.lol writes about the "algorithmic violence" navigated by sex workers across platforms, how it robs SW of their time, creativity, and (most importantly) their money.

READ BELOW:

www.theflytrapmedia.com/sex-wor/

03.03.2026 21:32 β€” πŸ‘ 45    πŸ” 20    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 2

wild how commissions just... dried up in the last two weeks...

03.03.2026 18:09 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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US Supreme Court declines to hear dispute over copyrights for AI-generated material The U.S. Supreme Court declined on Monday to take up the ​issue of whether art generated by artificial intelligence can be copyrighted under U.S. law, turning β€Œaway a case involving a computer scienti...

AI-created art isn't eligible for copyright protection, after the Supreme Court chose not to review a lower court ruling.

In 2022 the Copyright Office said images without β€œhuman authorship,” don't qualify for copyright protection β€” this was affirmed in 2023 by a district court.

03.03.2026 17:16 β€” πŸ‘ 1205    πŸ” 368    πŸ’¬ 17    πŸ“Œ 54

P.S. if you like the art this week from our Art Fellow @meowwwls.bsky.social you can grab a poster here!

03.03.2026 14:36 β€” πŸ‘ 30    πŸ” 8    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

πŸ‘€ anybody?

02.03.2026 21:10 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Today, US & Israeli forces bombed the Gandhi Children’s Hospital in Iran’s capital of Tehran.

Nurses supposedly risked their lives carrying newborns to safety from the rubble.

I’m having trouble finding more reporting about this, but here is at least a blurb from Reuters:

01.03.2026 22:25 β€” πŸ‘ 782    πŸ” 442    πŸ’¬ 22    πŸ“Œ 50

Reminder that @nora.zone and I are building a bot that will respond with Gavin Newsom Facts when people @ it BUT we need your help to populate it before we can launch. Fill out this form to add your favorite moment(s) in Newsom history.

02.03.2026 16:42 β€” πŸ‘ 205    πŸ” 133    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 6

Hello! I am a trans journalist looking to speak with trans kids and parents of trans kids across the US who have been impacted by the clinic closures---please get in touch or share!

02.03.2026 18:12 β€” πŸ‘ 780    πŸ” 548    πŸ’¬ 7    πŸ“Œ 9

girls be like "i needed this" and it's the communist revolution

02.03.2026 19:56 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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The Ensh*ttification of the Institute of Museum and Library Services Trucks On: What's Happening and What You Can Do Nearly a year after the Institute of Museum and Library Services was dismantled, what's happening at the agency? What can we do to help out?

The Enshittification of the Institute of Museum and Library Services Trucks On: Here's What's Happening and What You Can Do.

If you missed it, the IMLS home page got an AI overhaul, among other things.

bookriot.com/the-enshitti...

02.03.2026 14:30 β€” πŸ‘ 35    πŸ” 21    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 3

The people supporting this bombing are the same people who spout canned justifications for lynching, school shootings, police brutality, and ICE building concentration camps. They do not have compassion, empathy or human decency to appeal to in way. They enjoy the suffering of others like a meal.

02.03.2026 13:12 β€” πŸ‘ 289    πŸ” 94    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 1
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elmo is surrounded by flames with the word fuego written above him ALT: elmo is surrounded by flames with the word fuego written above him

new people in the Benito fandom, I WAS THERE WHEN THE SACRED TEXTS WERE WRITTEN, STAY OUT OF MY WAY

26.02.2026 21:05 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

imagine this braindump from a wannabe millionaire yielding 12 hours worth of discussion, y'all are ridiculous

27.02.2026 14:13 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

they refuse to do anything useful even when bored!

27.02.2026 14:12 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

men are so fucking boring

27.02.2026 14:06 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0