This conversation gives me new appreciation for how the damaging secrecies of adoption harm even our kept siblings.
children endured
@ssteingraber1.bsky.social
PhD biologist, author, climate activist, adoptee rights activist. Senior Scientist and Writer in Residence, Science and Environmental Health Network, Rachel Carson scholar with Library of America. Reminder: Nobodyβs coming.
This conversation gives me new appreciation for how the damaging secrecies of adoption harm even our kept siblings.
children endured
Author is @tracyclarkflory.bsky.social. Apologies for not tagging! Looking forward to learning more about this book and pre-ordering it.
03.03.2026 04:17 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Donβt know either! I feel OK about kept children telling their own stories. Sounds like the authorβs mom suffered a series of mental breakdowns after losing her first child. Living with that grief could not have been easy on the second child, who had no other siblings. Itβs a POV Iβm interested in.
03.03.2026 04:01 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Reminder that HPV vaccine in boys prevents penile, anal, and throat cancers as well as genital warts βand protects their sexual partners. So grateful that BOTH my kids, one girl and one boyβgot this vaccine series. Optimal timing is ages 11-12.
03.03.2026 03:55 β π 14 π 2 π¬ 0 π 0
The HPV vaccine is durably AMAZING.A massive Swedish registry study w 18 years of follow-up found no waning protection against invasive cervical cancer. If vaccinated before age 17, cancer risk is cut by ~80%. Even those vaccinated later still had substantial protection.
www.bmj.com/content/392/...
Let's not forget that this highly and durably effective vaccine which is on track to eliminate cervical cancer in countries that adopted it early and have had good up take is the next target on RFK.Jr's ACIP list.
www.cidrap.umn.edu/human-papill...
Reminder
03.03.2026 03:38 β π 6 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Without getting all metaphysical: would there even be war in Iran without oil?
03.03.2026 03:36 β π 13 π 1 π¬ 2 π 0Jacket cover of the book, My Motherβs daughter by Tracy Clark-Flury
Description of book by Tracy Clark-Flory
π₯ New adoption memoir/social critique coming out in May from Simon & Schuster. The author, Tracy Clark-Floryβan essayist by professionβis the kept daughter of a mother who lost her first child for adoption in 1965. She found her sister through a DNA test after their mom died.
Can pre-order now.
"I will continue the fight for environmental justice in Black communities." The Bullard Center for Environmental and Climate Justice at Southern University stands with and supports frontline communities. Nature www.nature.com/articles/d41... #HBCU #HBCUalum #Justiceforshiloh
01.03.2026 00:29 β π 82 π 23 π¬ 1 π 0Fetterman comes to mind.
28.02.2026 20:13 β π 9 π 1 π¬ 1 π 0Among many others.
28.02.2026 20:56 β π 8 π 2 π¬ 1 π 0I condemn this latest war.
28.02.2026 18:12 β π 7 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Iβm so glad! Adoptees shouldnβt have to fight an entire legal system and turn over the cells of our bodies to commercial DNA labs to find out the identities of our siblings. Clearly, this knowledge has meaning. Why else would non-adoptees be so freaked out that their cousin is really their brother?
28.02.2026 18:01 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Itβs completely unfair the adoptees canβt get their original birth certificate. My husband was fortunate to get his. He found 3 full siblings! They are all very close now. It has been one of the greatest gifts of his life.
28.02.2026 16:53 β π 4 π 1 π¬ 1 π 0
We know enough to unequivocally condemn this latest war.
inthesetimes.com/article/iran...
βLife likes to abideβ is the basic lesson of biology. I think about that a lot.
28.02.2026 16:49 β π 9 π 2 π¬ 0 π 0
It would be nice if statements by members of Congress on the U.S. attack on Iran started with something like:
βThis attack is an unconstitutional usurpation of Congressβs war powers.β
But while kept people are getting all fucked up bc grandpa got someone pregnant that wasnβt grandma, we adoptees are told to feel grateful for the lies and the secrets that obscure our own ancestry cuz love makes a family and none of this matters. Got it.
28.02.2026 16:19 β π 8 π 2 π¬ 1 π 0
Just me, an adoptee with sealed birth records, noting that kept people sure get shook when their family tree has surprises. π₯
11 of 17 are about unknown siblings or deception about parentage:
β17 People Are Anonymously Sharing Their Darkest Family Secrets That They Learned YEARS Later, And Wowwwwβ
Damnation to all those reasons. Sending love to you and an application to serve as your confidant an commiserator. β€οΈ
28.02.2026 15:33 β π 5 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Gentle reminder that livable futures almost never seem possible in February. [Goes back to looking at findings on air and water pollution from hyperscale data centers because fuck me.]
28.02.2026 15:27 β π 12 π 1 π¬ 1 π 0sitting here grading student homework, struggling as a teacher and as a parent to believe that a livable future remains possible
28.02.2026 15:04 β π 62 π 3 π¬ 3 π 1See also βcelebration of life, U.S. funeral practicesβ
28.02.2026 15:13 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0celebrating the 250th birthday of a nation committed to a constitutional order it has dropped every last pretense of obeying
28.02.2026 11:53 β π 62 π 15 π¬ 1 π 1*stares in adoptee*
27.02.2026 22:31 β π 13 π 8 π¬ 1 π 1Weβre like six months away from βlet them eat bugs.β
27.02.2026 17:51 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0It really is incredible how they're just Marie Antoinetteing themselves and don't seem to understand where that leads
27.02.2026 17:03 β π 385 π 86 π¬ 24 π 6Love you guys! Too bad I write so slowly that I have to serve the world as creative non-fiction writer instead of a reporterβ¦
27.02.2026 17:45 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0
Getting a PhD ruined me as a bumblebee.
Learned way more than was necessary. Still struggles with decisions.