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Roy Graff

@openrelating.bsky.social

Openrelating.love Don't let fear or ignorance limit your capacity to love in your unique way.

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Join us to experience the interplay of two complementary aspects of embodiment practices, with a live cello accompaniment.
Early bird rate only Β£49.

28.01.2026 09:10 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Cuddle and Play: a collaboration of slow and flow with Bela and Roy in Brighton (25 April)

Roy & Bela are hosting this workshop for exploration of connective embodiment, relational physical contact, and active ongoing consent practice.
Link: https://openrelating.love/cuddle-play-brighton-25-apr

28.01.2026 09:10 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

This extended play fight invites those experienced with the format or with other embodied practices that involve intimacy, with clear knowledge of consent and boundaries.

https://openrelating.love/product/play-fighting-extended-london/

09.12.2025 09:08 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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13 Dec. Hackney Wick, London from 4:30pm.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.

09.12.2025 09:08 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

https://openrelating.love/product/conscious-play-fighting-brighton/

01.12.2025 07:40 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Get ready for the final play fighting evening of 2025 in Brighton.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it.

01.12.2025 07:40 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

This extended play fight invites those experienced with the format or with other embodied practices that involve intimacy, with clear knowledge of consent and boundaries.

https://openrelating.love/product/play-fighting-extended-london/

29.11.2025 09:06 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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13 Dec. Hackney Wick, London from 4:30pm.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.

29.11.2025 09:06 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

This extended play fight invites those experienced with the format or with other embodied practices that involve intimacy, with clear knowledge of consent and boundaries.

https://openrelating.love/product/play-fighting-extended-london/

19.11.2025 09:06 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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13 Dec. Hackney Wick, London from 4:30pm.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.

19.11.2025 09:06 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

https://openrelating.love/product/conscious-play-fighting-brighton/

10.11.2025 09:47 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Get ready for the final play fighting evening of 2025 in Brighton.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it.

10.11.2025 09:47 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

This extended play fight invites those experienced with the format or with other embodied practices that involve intimacy, with clear knowledge of consent and boundaries.

https://openrelating.love/product/play-fighting-extended-london/

09.11.2025 09:09 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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13 Dec. Hackney Wick, London from 4:30pm.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.

09.11.2025 09:09 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

https://openrelating.love/modern-anarchy-251105/

06.11.2025 09:27 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Episode 236 of the Modern Anarchy podcast with Dr. Nicole Thompson.
Roy Graff (he/him) joins us for a conversation all about finding pleasure in expansive relating. Together we talk about the generations of lost orgasms, our unconscious cultural conditioning, and stepping into more touch support.

06.11.2025 09:27 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

We hope that it can address stigma and judgement around this sensitive subject.
It is totally anonymous.
https://forms.gle/VkY2S7a637bSEsw19

05.11.2025 06:14 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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I would love to invite you to take part in this study of sexual health practices in non-monogamous spaces.
It takes 5 minutes or so, and would help with understanding gaps in knowledge as well as see where our collective STI risk profile is currently.

05.11.2025 06:14 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

This extended play fight invites those experienced with the format or with other embodied practices that involve intimacy, with clear knowledge of consent and boundaries.

https://openrelating.love/product/play-fighting-extended-london/

30.10.2025 09:35 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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13 Dec. Hackney Wick, London from 4:30pm.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.

30.10.2025 09:35 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

#PlayFighting

23.10.2025 08:14 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Our next monthly play fighting workshop with Roy will be on 6th November.
Nearest tube is Edgware Road.

https://openrelating.love/events

23.10.2025 08:14 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

This extended play fight invites those experienced with the format or with other embodied practices that involve intimacy, with clear knowledge of consent and boundaries.

https://openrelating.love/product/play-fighting-extended-london/

20.10.2025 09:06 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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13 Dec. Hackney Wick, London from 4:30pm.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.

20.10.2025 09:06 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Join Mel and I for a stimulating and important conversation about the importance of community building in service of secure attachment, and how that is especially important in various forms of non-monogamy.

01.10.2025 10:06 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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17th September
7pm UK (11am PCT/2pm EST)

Instagram Live with @radicalrelating and @openrelating

#Community and #Attachment in Non-Monogamy

01.10.2025 10:06 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

#PlayFighting

30.09.2025 10:02 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Our monthly play fighting workshop with Roy takes place on the first Thursday of each month, in Hackney Wick, East London.

https://openrelating.love/events

30.09.2025 10:02 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Embodied Play: Play fighting meets Consent Work
19-21 September, Amsterdam
Over the course of 3 days we will journey together into a rich mix of play, connection, experimentation, and empowerment – learning to see ourselves and each other in new, surprising ways.

27.09.2025 10:03 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Join Mel and I for a stimulating and important conversation about the importance of community building in service of secure attachment, and how that is especially important in various forms of non-monogamy.

26.09.2025 10:07 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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