Trina Hickson

New cat bed..

So much to process from the last few weeks.. my psychologist is going to have her work cut out for her! But through it all we gave Mum the love, care and nurturing she deserves, especially now. I will forever carry this image in my heart. Love you, Mum 💖

Heading back home to the UK tomorrow, to see my Mum and other family members, to honour my Dad. There's a whole heap of family crap waiting for me and my sister. I've been dreading this time for years. What else could I watch in preparation? Nothing else will do.

My Dad passed away a few days ago. My brother, his "carer", didn't tell us; he disowned us 10 years ago. My sister & I stand side by side. Together, we are a force to be reckoned with. Whatever comes in the coming weeks and months, we will honour Dad’s memory with the grace and dignity he deserves.

7 weeks ago, we lost Willow's sister and littermate, Buffy. They had never been apart. Willow had never been very affectionate, keeping her distance and keeping to herself. We've become closer in our grief. Tonight, Willow is curled up against me, purring gently, as we heal together ❤️

I love being single. I love the peace of solitude, of being alone. But sometimes I long to find that someone with whom I can be alone