Carl 🐈‍⬛(Catalina Reaper)🌶️

But fuck it. I’ll make it without. I’ve made it this far. I’m gonna keep going. I have a great support team and I don’t need anything else from him.
That’s all I’ll say about that.

Don’t get me wrong, I did choose this. I chose to leave someone who couldn’t grow up, but so say I took everything when I gave him so many opportunities to get his things and even his cat, almost two years, then say “I won’t pay you cuz you kept it all?” That’s fucking wild.

There’s so much of me that is mad and sad about this all.
That he won’t take responsibility or accountability. That he won’t pay me back and think he doesn’t need to because “I chose this”
Now i get to struggle with Christmas and the next month of bills because of this.

Did the big first step today and filed for divorce after over a year and a half.
My anxiety is through the fucking roof right now and I want to throw up, but I’m doing it goddammit.

Happy Polyamory Day!
Sending love 💕

Getting a bunch of responses on a thread thinking one of them is a yes and they’re all no’s and “sorry I would but I’m out of town” “sorry I’m working” “sorry I’m busy” thinking you’re gonna get one yes and it’s all no is so fucking infuriating and disheartening.
So yeah anywho sorry for that take.

I’ve seen this and have had this happen too much. Like we understand you have a job, are elsewhere, are doing something else. Cool. Love that for you, don’t care tho.
We’re asking for someone to say yes, not a hundred no’s and why.
We need the yes.
We’d rather you say nothing.

Hot take:I appreciate the acknowledgment, but fucking STOP saying “I wish I could but…(random reason/unavailable)” on a status where someone is asking for someone for help or to be there for something.
If you can’t cool, but we don’t need to know from 10 people why yall can’t.
Just don’t respond.

Get you an enby that can do both 🤷❤️🖤🤘🏻

a man is sitting on a bus with other men . ALT: a man is sitting on a bus with other men .

Every Veterans Day and Fathers Day I watch Forrest Gump

He ran for this damn country and I’m gonna celebrate him at least twice a year…

And probably a couple more times, cuz I love Forrest Gump

When a new person starts at your job and they’re non-binary and everyone respects it right away but won’t respect your pronouns 🙃
Am I not non-binary enough for the non-binary club?
I’ve only been there for almost 3 years but okay I’m just happy you respect their pronouns I guess.

There are some days that are just….like really really hard and tiring.
Today is one of those days.

There's so much more to burlesque and drag than just feminine presentation, and some communities really need to learn that.

Ostracizing other members of your community based on their body type, assigned sex or gender presentation is shameful.

Your performance spaces should welcome ALL PEOPLE.

So you’re into Enbies with tummy problems?

-the title to my next book 💀

Anime NebrasKon is bringing back the Shinjuku Strays Cabaret!

The Strays take the Main Stage at 7 PM on Friday night. Anyone who is 18+ with a badge and ID can gain entry for free!

@shinjukustrays.bsky.social

Hot take:
You want people in seats?
Hire poly performers! 👀

We’re bound to bring the polycule and friends to the show, and if we can’t all make it to support our partner, we promote!
I’m just sayin.
💅🏻❤️

There are a lot of people in my mind that this refers to, not just one person, but if you think it’s about you, it can be. We all need to learn something from it. I’m not 100% innocent (but most didn’t involve me), but I’ve definitely been in the middle of a lot of discourse and it’s fucking lame.

Being a compassionate and respectful person IS. NOT. THAT HARD.

Y’all i genuinely want everyone in my community to get along. Beef in such a smallish community is fucking petty. But peace is also important. If they don’t want to talk they don’t have to. But blasting on social media is *ahem* dumb.

•Go to the person(s) you clearly wronged and talk to them. Say fucking sorry, they probably did some wrong too.
Instead of saying “I want to change!” To the world, the first step is talking to the people that were affected by you being a dick
I say this while being in the middle of everyone’s beef

You wanna make a change with beef/ drama?
So many things can be done!
•Have a one on one conversation and ask questions rather than calling for a personal army on social media.
•Instead of spreading rumors and lies, go to the source and ask questions.
•Take the conflict resolution class.

imagine being a baby born on Rapture Day and not being able to make it into heaven because you weren’t alive yet to Hear The Good Word. i would want to speak to a manager tbh

A past convo with my mom:
Mom: the rapture is coming I hope you’re ready for it
Me: oh I am. I will be psyched to have 7 years without you guys and will go from there.

Bruh just take em already, lordt. I’ll keep being a heathen or whatever down here✌🏻

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Me wanting to safeguard my amazing partners from anyone who might try to take advantage of how loving and kind they are:

I’m nonbinary, babe.
If you’re into me: you’re queer.

I don’t make the rules.
Don’t try to fight it, bruh. Welcome to the LGBT babay 🤙🏻
🌈

Some dude on IG: “hey you probably don’t remember me but I used to have the biggest crush on you when we’re were kids when we lived in (old hometown)”

Me: *pterodactyl screech*
You right sucka I don’t remember you who is you

I thought Squatty Potty was a silly invention until just now while I’m dying in the bathroom and now I’m realizing that it is the superior being.

All hail the potty of squatty!

I don’t want to be an asshole, but my roomie’s BO is actually giving me migraines
Like….what do I do? It’s fucking wild.

The way that this country is becoming more and more of a fucking nightmare is fucking crazy.