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@jkirkendall.bsky.social

Grew up in Beirut and Tehran. Knitter, potter, meditator. Severe hearing loss and making friends with silence. Trauma therapist. Grateful Buddhist. Living with #lupus.

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3 years ago I would have been posting about how much weight I could carry doing barbell squats. Today I'm happy to announce that I've graduated from the extra light exercise bands to the light exercise bands when I do my simple PT exercises

As long as it keeps me walking I'm happy!

#lupus

01.07.2025 17:02 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Access Intimacy: The Missing Link There are many ways to describe intimacy.Β  For example, there’s physical intimacy, emotional intimacy, intellectual, political, familial or sexual intimacy.Β  But, as a physically disabled woman, th…

Just read @miamingus.bsky.social's blog post on access intimacy. It explains why so many of us living with #lupus were devastated by @lupus.org's decision to scrub the LGBTQ community, and the Black and Brown community from their website.

leavingevidence.wordpress.com/2011/05/05/a...

26.06.2025 16:47 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It appears that @lupus.org has removed the episode on Lupus and the LGBTQ community. It was Season 6, episode 3. There is no longer an episode 3, just a "bonus episode." If I'm missing something, can someone let me know? Genuinely hope I'm mistaken. #lupus #chronicillness #lgbtq #pridemonth

09.06.2025 15:48 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

As the meds that I take for #lupus continue to help me feel better, I've come up against a paradox: I have more energy, but my body still demands that I move slowly.

Learning to separate "I have more energy" from "getting a lot done" has proved tricky, given years of training to be "productive."

11.04.2025 19:24 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Top 'Washington Post' columnist resigns, accusing publisher of killing piece Washington Post columnist Ruth Marcus resigned today, accusing the paper's publisher of killing her piece on owner Jeff Bezos' overhaul of its opinion pages.

Ruth Marcus resigns resigns from @washingtonpost.com.

Top 'Washington Post' columnist resigns, accusing publisher of killing piece

www.npr.org/2025/03/10/n...

10.03.2025 17:43 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Ima gonna join you.

04.03.2025 02:45 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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It’s a small action, but it is an action we can all take!

#WashingtonPost #BlackoutFriday

28.02.2025 20:06 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It’s also a psychological issue. I asked my audiologist about the psychological needs of late defended adults and she responded by saying β€œthere are no psychological needs. It’s just a matter of getting the right technology.”

Wrong.

27.02.2025 22:30 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I mean, as long as it doesn’t go against the free market or individual liberties! πŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈ

27.02.2025 22:25 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Federal employees here in Washington D.C. have coined a new word to describe the current mood:

Angerxiety.

#FederalWorkers
#DOGE

25.02.2025 19:05 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

We lived with a Sufi when we were working with Roshi Glassman at the Greyston Foundatiom in New York. He was old, cantankerous, and not a fun roommate. However, he would move the furniture aside and whirl, and honestly, you could feel the environment shift when he started. It was mesmerizing.

25.02.2025 18:52 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Your husband told me to follow you! 😊

21.02.2025 15:34 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It’s hot chocolate day here, too!

09.02.2025 19:28 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I love that story!

05.02.2025 13:59 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

My new hybrid is supposed to emit a noise if you step out of the car with the key fob and leave the (very silent) motor running. Except if you're deaf and can't hear it.

I left the car running for an hour.

In the driveway. πŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈ

#HearingLoss #Deaf #HardOfHearing

05.02.2025 13:38 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It's been a week of intense crisis management in my D.C. psychotherapy office. "Dumpster fire" comes to mind. Hat's off to my fellow DMV psychotherapists who are navigating times that very little has prepared us for!

#Psychotherapy #counseling #DMV #WashingtonDC

01.02.2025 16:14 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

So great to see this! I've had to borrow a lot of vocabulary from the ME/CFS world to explain my lupus symptoms to my doctors. The post exertion malaise is so real for me, but seems far more common in ME/CFS world than in the Lupus SLE world.

10.01.2025 14:38 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

My heart might be melting.

10.01.2025 13:59 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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It has snowed almost a whole Buddha.

@capitalweather.bsky.social #DMV #winterstorm #buddha

06.01.2025 21:35 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Sun coming up over the Shenandoah River on a very foggy day. The sun creates a warm glow as it rises. In the foreground, leafless branches, sharp against the soft foggy light

Sun coming up over the Shenandoah River on a very foggy day. The sun creates a warm glow as it rises. In the foreground, leafless branches, sharp against the soft foggy light

#SilentSunday

05.01.2025 22:59 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Fire made, soup bubbling on the stove. Let it snow! ❄️

05.01.2025 22:55 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

For example they taught me how to sign β€œBitch you need Jesus” in ASL! 😝

05.01.2025 02:56 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm feeling very Hermit of the Southern March today.

#narnia

04.01.2025 20:40 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Awesome! You all are the only good thing left at our once beloved Washington Post!

04.01.2025 20:31 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Bronchitis. Stupid nonexistent immune system. πŸ˜‘

#lupus

03.01.2025 21:09 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I bought the hard copy. Then I bought the kindle version so I can underline and make notes. Now I want the audio version! πŸ˜†

03.01.2025 19:48 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0