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Aubrey Gordon

@yrfatfriend.bsky.social

Cohost of Maintenance Phase. Author of two books. In a documentary called Your Fat Friend. She/her/hers. Photo by the wonderful Josh Coen.

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Every channel, every ad break! My kingdom for an 800-588-2300 Empire!!!

05.03.2026 00:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 32    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

If I have to hear Rebel Wilson tell me one more time about microdosing GLP-1s on noom I stg!!!!!

05.03.2026 00:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 21    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

In my own life, I also observe fewer people willing to stand up for fat people, and more people willing to defend or explain away anti-fatness.

Like, solidarity with people who are fatter than oneself really feels like it has evaporated in a way that's both heartbreaking and frightening.

05.03.2026 00:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 303    ๐Ÿ” 22    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 5    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Another exhausting aspect: pervasive superthinness has everybody so activated that folks have really regressed in the ways they defend themselves.

There's much more "I'm not THAT fat" and "my bloodwork is perfect!" with no consideration for people who are fatter, chronically ill, etc.

05.03.2026 00:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 230    ๐Ÿ” 9    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Like can I get a night off?????

04.03.2026 23:56 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 27    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I hear you. It was still very bad when it was primarily targeting/aimed at fat people.

04.03.2026 23:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 21    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Like, I just would love one day without this shit inserting itself into my life in the most judgmental, derailing ways.

I don't care what decisions others make about their looks. But I would like a day off, where I'm not forcibly reminded that so many people are sprinting away from looking like me.

04.03.2026 23:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 443    ๐Ÿ” 21    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 6    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

I recently saw a new doctor who, before saying anything else, asked if I'd considered a GLP-1. "It might help take care of this," she said, and reached over and patted my belly.

It was behavior I hadn't experienced in years--the last huge wave being during the popularization of weight loss surgery.

04.03.2026 23:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 355    ๐Ÿ” 22    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 56    ๐Ÿ“Œ 9

It's in the tabloids, with hand-wringing about the sudden thinness of some celebrities. It's in the news, with a refreshed and emboldened judgment aimed at people who aren't shrinking. It's in podcasts & thinkpieces, where we use other people's bodies as props to make our own points about shrinking.

04.03.2026 23:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 263    ๐Ÿ” 8    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It's everywhere on TV: cooking shows are hosted by chefs that get thinner by the day. Awards shows that have ALWAYS centered thinness now showcase emaciation. Reality TV stars make plotlines of massive weight loss, or attribute their sudden 100+ pound weight loss to lifestyle changes.

04.03.2026 23:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 305    ๐Ÿ” 13    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

One of the more depressing aspects of the GLP-1 stuff right now is how utterly inescapable it is. Whatever you're doing, wherever you are, there are people shrinking at alarming rates, and endless discussion of said shrinking. There's seemingly no place to just *rest.*

04.03.2026 23:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 704    ๐Ÿ” 97    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 26    ๐Ÿ“Œ 21

Cis people never show the slightest love to effeminate men or butch women, except when someone wants to transition, and then suddenly they just love them.

03.03.2026 20:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 913    ๐Ÿ” 161    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 7    ๐Ÿ“Œ 16
A hardcover book with a blue cover and white text titled โ€œBottom Lineโ€™s Speed Healing: More Than 2,000 Quick Cures and Fast Fixes to Ease Everything From Arthritis to Wrinkles.โ€ The author is Bill Gottlieb. The cover art is a photo of an analog stopwatch. Above the stopwatch is a silhouette of a person with arms outstretched, turning their palms and face to the sky.

A hardcover book with a blue cover and white text titled โ€œBottom Lineโ€™s Speed Healing: More Than 2,000 Quick Cures and Fast Fixes to Ease Everything From Arthritis to Wrinkles.โ€ The author is Bill Gottlieb. The cover art is a photo of an analog stopwatch. Above the stopwatch is a silhouette of a person with arms outstretched, turning their palms and face to the sky.

May the little free library smile upon you as it has smiled upon me

02.03.2026 19:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 376    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 17    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Hello! I am a trans journalist looking to speak with trans kids and parents of trans kids across the US who have been impacted by the clinic closures---please get in touch or share!

02.03.2026 18:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 775    ๐Ÿ” 543    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 7    ๐Ÿ“Œ 9

Sam Smith absolutely terrorizing this man by just being 6'2" and in the vicinity

01.03.2026 17:20 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 172    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 4    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Honestly it feels like we've been in varying shades of "emotionally dysregulated and dealing with that by posting" for the better part of the last decade

01.03.2026 05:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 395    ๐Ÿ” 36    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 2

Good thing to remember online right now is that everyone here is very emotionally dysregulated and dealing with that by posting

28.02.2026 23:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4536    ๐Ÿ” 843    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 74    ๐Ÿ“Œ 72

Possibly! I recorded my most recent episode yesterday, and am sorting through a little list of possible next episodes. Salt is one of them!

28.02.2026 15:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 38    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Absolutely horrifying.

28.02.2026 15:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 148    ๐Ÿ” 12    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

This is part of what sparked my interest! I know a number of older folks who, in the absence of any related health issues, have for YEARS been salt-free/low sodium/afraid of salt. And that attitude seems to have dropped off pretty abruptly in people who are middle aged & younger.

28.02.2026 06:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 50    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Pals! What are the health claims you hear most frequently when it comes to salt intake?

28.02.2026 06:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 137    ๐Ÿ” 15    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 118    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

I suspect these are Walter Huss headlines, but it is very funny to me to imagine that the ORP chair in question is Kevin Mannix

28.02.2026 00:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 10    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Strictly bourgeois beans!!

27.02.2026 23:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The hidatsas are DELICIOUS. I'm currently going hard on tarbais/cassoulet, buckeye, and chiapas black beans.

27.02.2026 23:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The wait list is long, but my god, it's so fun and good. For me, it was 100% worth the wait.

27.02.2026 23:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 14    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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27.02.2026 23:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 15    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
A photo of a brown cardboard box with red text. One flap of the box reads โ€œbeans are a roof over your stomachโ€”John Steinbeck.โ€ The other reads โ€œThe first rule of bean club is you never shut up about bean club.โ€

A photo of a brown cardboard box with red text. One flap of the box reads โ€œbeans are a roof over your stomachโ€”John Steinbeck.โ€ The other reads โ€œThe first rule of bean club is you never shut up about bean club.โ€

๐Ÿซก

27.02.2026 23:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 426    ๐Ÿ” 7    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 15    ๐Ÿ“Œ 2

Just got my bean club delivery yesterday! ๐ŸŽ‰

27.02.2026 23:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Screenshot reads "SPECIAL SECTION: Proceeding of the 2009 Cereals & Europe Meeting: Whole Grain Global Summit"

Screenshot reads "SPECIAL SECTION: Proceeding of the 2009 Cereals & Europe Meeting: Whole Grain Global Summit"

Spending my Friday night like any other life-of-the-party type

27.02.2026 23:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 211    ๐Ÿ” 3    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 8    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

(1) Casey Means is a dreadful nominee and should not be confirmed.
(2) I don't have any desire to defend for-profit advertising of any kind.
(3) "Obesity is a national crisis" as a message both relies on and perpetuates bias against fat people.

27.02.2026 00:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1364    ๐Ÿ” 276    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 11    ๐Ÿ“Œ 2