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Aubrey Gordon

@yrfatfriend.bsky.social

Cohost of Maintenance Phase. Author of two books. In a documentary called Your Fat Friend. She/her/hers. Photo by the wonderful Josh Coen. yrfatfriend@gmail.com

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maybe I'm focusing on the wrong thing here but this is the wildest shit I've ever heard a white South African say and I study racism for a living

08.03.2026 23:49 — 👍 9478    🔁 1667    💬 209    📌 34

Responsive, attentive health care shouldn't be the exception for fat people. It should be the rule.

Having good experiences with HCPs feels like a glimpse into what a world with more thoughtful care for fat patients could look like. & it makes me want to triple down to bring that world about.

09.03.2026 22:45 — 👍 292    🔁 20    💬 0    📌 0

Like many fat people, I've had a lot of truly awful visits to the doctor's office. So when a responsive care provider comes along, it's a massive relief, and a pretty emotional experience.

Grateful, too, to those within health care working to change trainings, update systems & reduce stigma.

09.03.2026 22:37 — 👍 296    🔁 5    💬 1    📌 0

A very small good news update: I switched to a new primary care provider who I saw for the first time today and who is fantastic and exactly my speed. Extremely grateful for access to care and for a great new PCP.

09.03.2026 22:31 — 👍 708    🔁 9    💬 13    📌 0

I have drank the salted caramel mocha latte that was in the Sur La Table milk pitcher and which you were probably saving for breakfast Forgive me it was so delicious so sweet and so warm

bsky.app/profile/nytp...

09.03.2026 19:46 — 👍 174    🔁 11    💬 1    📌 0

You either die a barista or live long enough to become the grumpy customer

09.03.2026 18:58 — 👍 13    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0
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Come on man

09.03.2026 18:16 — 👍 995    🔁 65    💬 27    📌 12

We're bringing back every part of the Y2K zeitgeist, including the grumpy old man "I don't want a mocha-choco-latte, just GIMME A CUP OF COFFEE" energy

Absolutely incredible choice for an op ed in these United States in 2026

09.03.2026 18:41 — 👍 242    🔁 23    💬 24    📌 0

Ask not for whom the looks maxx, they maxx for he

08.03.2026 18:50 — 👍 273    🔁 23    💬 2    📌 1

Morning update: BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

08.03.2026 16:53 — 👍 29    🔁 2    💬 2    📌 0

BOOOOOOOOOOO

08.03.2026 06:49 — 👍 21    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0
A blue book cover with a red banner and a glass milk bottle. The book is "Milk! A 10,000 Year Food Fracas" by Mark Kurlansky, "New York Times bestselling author of 'Cod' and 'Salt'"

A blue book cover with a red banner and a glass milk bottle. The book is "Milk! A 10,000 Year Food Fracas" by Mark Kurlansky, "New York Times bestselling author of 'Cod' and 'Salt'"

From the author of

08.03.2026 00:59 — 👍 8    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Update: I am now one week into full time salt research and I am out here getting SODIUM JOKERFIED

Absolutely cannot wait to yell into a microphone about this one

07.03.2026 21:02 — 👍 573    🔁 10    💬 38    📌 2

Oh Andy, I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. What a terrible and heartbreakingly familiar turn of events.

07.03.2026 17:35 — 👍 12    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I am BAFFLED by the lack of new streams of funding in moments like this??

My experiences are 8-10 yrs old, but it was certainly disheartening during the first Trump admin that funders were just kind of doing a different version of their usual work, rather than marshalling resources at a new scale.

07.03.2026 17:32 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 2    📌 0

Ugh I'm sorry 💕

07.03.2026 17:25 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I'm honestly glad to hear that they're thinking about elections but also nervous about what they'll come up with in that space! And also woof, I'm sorry to hear that it sounds like that's a redirect of funds instead of an added area of focus. What a rollercoaster it must be right now.

07.03.2026 17:20 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Follow up: do you notice a difference between how labor is responding vs philanthropy?

07.03.2026 17:02 — 👍 43    🔁 1    💬 1    📌 0

US folks who work in political/civic engagement movement spaces: how are funders responding to this political moment?

Are they doing the "redirect all of our funds to X embattled place" thing? Or the "we're shutting down for 6 months to rewrite our mission" thing?

07.03.2026 17:02 — 👍 76    🔁 11    💬 6    📌 0
Markwayne Mullin Reportedly Fingered Nostrils of Colleagues and Their Spouses During Visit to Israel

Markwayne Mullin Reportedly Fingered Nostrils of Colleagues and Their Spouses During Visit to Israel

what fresh hell

17.11.2023 23:02 — 👍 2613    🔁 567    💬 193    📌 521

Every channel, every ad break! My kingdom for an 800-588-2300 Empire!!!

05.03.2026 00:17 — 👍 53    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

If I have to hear Rebel Wilson tell me one more time about microdosing GLP-1s on noom I stg!!!!!

05.03.2026 00:14 — 👍 39    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

In my own life, I also observe fewer people willing to stand up for fat people, and more people willing to defend or explain away anti-fatness.

Like, solidarity with people who are fatter than oneself really feels like it has evaporated in a way that's both heartbreaking and frightening.

05.03.2026 00:07 — 👍 502    🔁 33    💬 9    📌 3

Another exhausting aspect: pervasive superthinness has everybody so activated that folks have really regressed in the ways they defend themselves.

There's much more "I'm not THAT fat" and "my bloodwork is perfect!" with no consideration for people who are fatter, chronically ill, etc.

05.03.2026 00:07 — 👍 397    🔁 14    💬 1    📌 0

Like can I get a night off?????

04.03.2026 23:56 — 👍 44    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I hear you. It was still very bad when it was primarily targeting/aimed at fat people.

04.03.2026 23:43 — 👍 31    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Like, I just would love one day without this shit inserting itself into my life in the most judgmental, derailing ways.

I don't care what decisions others make about their looks. But I would like a day off, where I'm not forcibly reminded that so many people are sprinting away from looking like me.

04.03.2026 23:36 — 👍 662    🔁 29    💬 6    📌 1

I recently saw a new doctor who, before saying anything else, asked if I'd considered a GLP-1. "It might help take care of this," she said, and reached over and patted my belly.

It was behavior I hadn't experienced in years--the last huge wave being during the popularization of weight loss surgery.

04.03.2026 23:32 — 👍 603    🔁 33    💬 79    📌 21

It's in the tabloids, with hand-wringing about the sudden thinness of some celebrities. It's in the news, with a refreshed and emboldened judgment aimed at people who aren't shrinking. It's in podcasts & thinkpieces, where we use other people's bodies as props to make our own points about shrinking.

04.03.2026 23:28 — 👍 378    🔁 11    💬 3    📌 0

It's everywhere on TV: cooking shows are hosted by chefs that get thinner by the day. Awards shows that have ALWAYS centered thinness now showcase emaciation. Reality TV stars make plotlines of massive weight loss, or attribute their sudden 100+ pound weight loss to lifestyle changes.

04.03.2026 23:28 — 👍 432    🔁 15    💬 1    📌 1