Cara Sutra

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Had a very tough week health-wise and I need to rest. Hopefully back on things next week.

I hope you're all doing ok 💞

Sex and Disability: Intimacy, Desire, and Pleasure When Bodies Have Limits A real-world guide to sex and disability, from invisible illness to chronic pain, desire, energy, intimacy and adapting pleasure to changing bodies.

Sex and Disability: Intimacy, Desire, and Pleasure When Bodies Have Limits

Rethinking Vaginal Orgasms: What’s Actually Normal? Many people don’t orgasm from penetration alone. Here’s what’s actually normal, how pleasure works, and why your body isn’t broken.

Recently updated:

My piece on vaginal orgasms 👉

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Recently updated:

My guide to the best G-spot sex toys 👉

Dark blue square graphic with a lighter blue hexagon in the centre with the number 3 in the centre and sparks like a firework coming out from behind. Underneath the central hexagon are the words "3 years"

Quitting alcohol was one of the best things I ever did. Three years today 🥳

#sober #soberversary #3years #CarouselOfChaos #alcohol #quitting #health #teetotal #alcoholfree

Flat lay of February 2026 Witch Casket subscription box contents arranged on a dark woodland patterned background, including spell candles, pentagram pendant, incense, ritual candle holder, protection charm kit, scroll, cauldron container, and printed magical craft materials.

Loving my Witch Casket UK February 2026 box: Classic Craft Curiosities 🖤

So many gorgeous and useful pretties ✨

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I'm really enjoying it!

Love from North Lincs! 😄💞

I needed a bit of a break, I get stressed easily! I like the nice, pleasant ones! 😄 Thank you, I'll check them out 👍

Book of the Dead Barnaby must crack the clues to find the killer of a writer who sparked a nationwide treasure hunt.

Now watching Midsomer Murders (Series 24, episode 2; Book of the Dead)

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#WhatImWatching #MidsomerMurders #Trakt #TV

Ko'Zeine During a school holiday, cadets return home and must choose between family expectations and dreams.

Now watching Starfleet Academy (Season 1, Episode 7)

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#WhatImWatching #Trakt #TV #StarfleetAcademy

Episode 3 Dara Ó Briain hosts topical chat and hilarious games with guests Rhys James, Hugh Dennis, Katherine Ryan, Sara Pascoe, Glenn Moore and Sarah Keyworth.

Just watched episode 3 of Mock the Week (2026)

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#WhatImWatching #Trakt #TV

It's been a fun half term with the youngest at home, but very tiring ofc. Hospital visit midweek didn't help with that!

Therapy tomorrow morning, a family day out planned on Sunday. I'll have to rest 'aggressively' whenever I can.

Hope you all have a fun weekend 😊

😄

It's ok, sorted my safeword (tepid)
😂

Loving the new series of Mock the Week. So happy it's back 😄

Watching it via YouTube and have to compliment whoever did the subtitles as well (they don't seem automated as they're actually correct and timed properly)

#MockTheWeek #subtitles #deaf #captions #comedy #BritishHumour #satire

Photo of my two new boxes of teabags, Yorkshire Tea Cherry Bakewell Brew and Yorkshire Tea Biscuit Brew.

Getting my freak on

#BritishKink

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Why Cunnilingus Doesn’t Work for Me: I Can’t Orgasm from Oral Sex Why cunnilingus doesn’t work for me, what it’s like not to orgasm from oral sex, and what that taught me about pleasure, pressure, and sexual expectations.

I updated another post recently which may also resonate, about not being able to orgasm from oral sex

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Rethinking Vaginal Orgasms: What’s Actually Normal? Many people don’t orgasm from penetration alone. Here’s what’s actually normal, how pleasure works, and why your body isn’t broken.

Is it normal to not orgasm from vaginal stimulation or penetration?

Yes.

Not just normal, but statistically typical.

This week I updated a 2019 blog post on vaginal orgasms to include clearer info and more recent research.

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#SexEducation #SexMyths #Aff

Thank you - yes it went ok, and yes parking was the main issue!
I had a chest x-ray to rule out any potential worse causes of my persistent cough than what I'm hoping it is - post-viral drip. Had it since COVID in 2021 🙄 I'll get the results in about 10 days, hopefully.

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Happy birthday! 🎁🥳

Waiting mode this morning as I have a hospital appointment around lunchtime. 🫤

*Where to find all my stuff*

Just a reminder that you can find all my handy links - blog, other social accounts, exclusive discount codes, media kit and more - on my Start Page:

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Valentine’s gifts from my husband displayed on a white table by a window, including a large LEGO street building set, a gothic skull flower building kit, a small black cast iron cauldron with lid, a stained-glass style sunlight-catcher which is a red rose flanked by bat-style wings design, a “Love You to Death” glossy card box, scented wax melt slab in black with a skull design, pink box of shower steamers, dual silver necklace where one is a sword, the other a heart, the sword one goes vertically through the heart one, small decorative vials and beads, a blue sensory stim silicone picky pad, and a red Valentine’s card with two black birds forming a heart.

My Valentine's Day gifts and card from my husband yesterday ❤️🖤

Two Valentine’s Day cards displayed on a wooden surface in warm candlelight. One card shows hanging red and pink hearts with the message “with love to my husband on Valentine’s Day,” while the other features two black lovebirds forming a heart shape against a red background.

Had a busy but lovely Valentine's Day yesterday.

Therapy, cards & gifts, then our middle son & his bf came over for a visit. My husband made a gorgeous meal in the evening. Exhausting day but full of love.

I hope you're all having a peaceful, happy weekend.