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Ryan

@arjay1083.bsky.social

Love ๐ŸŽถ music, โšฝ๏ธfootball - Arsenal ๐Ÿ”ดโšช๏ธ ๐Ÿ”ดโšซ๏ธLewes FC, ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡น๐Ÿ‡ช๐Ÿ‡ธ๐Ÿ‡ฉ๐Ÿ‡ช language learning and ๐Ÿฅช food.

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Further to our etymologist friend Peterโ€™s point about the origins of the term โ€˜footballโ€™, I believe it is also true that association football is unique among the seven recognised codes of โ€˜footballโ€™ in that it is illegal for players (goalkeeper excluded) to use their hands at all.

17.02.2026 11:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

ยฃ80 plus for a ticket in the nosebleeds to be served that dross and I would feel entitled to voice my annoyance. Save the game against Spurs and the second half against Villa, Arsenal have been a chore to watch this season in the PL. Results notwithstanding itโ€™s just horrible, horrible football.

26.01.2026 20:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Am I the only one who reads the apology as nothing of the sort and actually a doubling down?

14.11.2025 06:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Cambridgeshireโ€™s most vulnerable deserve respect, not contempt Councillor Andy Osborn faces investigation after calling children in care โ€œevil,โ€ sparking outrage among Care Experienced people

Keir Starmer today called it โ€œutterly appallingโ€ that a Reform UK councillor described children in care as โ€œdownright evilโ€.

This report by a Care Experienced writer reveals how that remark still reverberates in Cambridgeshire.

@eastangliabylines.co.uk

12.11.2025 20:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 252    ๐Ÿ” 101    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 7    ๐Ÿ“Œ 2
Clear out toys now!

Clear out toys now!

Love being reminded to do this every year. It's a win/win all round

11.11.2025 11:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1592    ๐Ÿ” 1035    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 18    ๐Ÿ“Œ 23

๐Ÿฅš The mainstream narrative of #adoption feels like someone has made a three-hour biopic but only given the subject five minutesโ€™ worth of screen time.

26.06.2025 09:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Why are some food outlets so averse to displaying a fixed menu above their counter? If all I am greeted with is an endless scroll of promos and part menus that disappear too quickly, I will simply walk away and not come back.

21.05.2025 12:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Good faith question: would you be willing to share your rationale for putting over 25s in with the rest of the so-called โ€˜triadโ€™?

18.12.2024 20:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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๐Ÿฅš Iโ€™m thinking out loud on this one, but I want to articulate something along the lines of:

โ€˜When you adopt, your โ€˜storyโ€™ ceases to be only yours to tell. You are now the โ€˜stewardsโ€™ of another familyโ€™s โ€˜storyโ€™- a responsibility to be borne with the requisite level of care and discretion.โ€™

18.11.2024 16:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

if you are an adoptive parent you do not so much *have* a perspective to set against that of #adoptees as *lack* necessary perspective.

It may make you uncomfortable to listen to adoptees. But instead of writing us off as โ€œangryโ€ outliers, a bit of respectful listening might help you as a parent.

17.11.2024 17:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 14    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

Gave my #loopearplugs their public debut today and they definitely made crowded stations and trains more bearable.

16.11.2024 22:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Has anyone out there put together a UK-based #adoptee starter pack? #adoption #adopteesky

16.11.2024 21:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Thank you! And a hereโ€™s little something that is probably more familiar to those from my side of the Atlantic:

16.11.2024 21:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I suppose I ought to post something, just to show willing and fill the blank space on my home screen.

16.11.2024 21:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I said a fair bit back on โ€˜the other placeโ€™ before it all got lost in the endless stream of awfulness.

16.11.2024 21:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

*gingerley raises hand*

16.11.2024 21:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0