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Sheila Bender, Writing It Real

@sheilawrites.bsky.social

Founder of WritingItReal.com (now an archive), poet, memoirist, developmental editor, and creative writing teacher/coach. Visit her for new articles at sheilabender.substack.com

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Elementary Confessions--a memoir-in-progress excerpt by Michelle Kehoe skillfully brings us to her early Catholic grade school days.
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Writing It Real Weekly Newsletter February 27, 2026

The Writing It Real newsletter is up!

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Excerpt from Could You Be Starting From Somewhere Else? Sketches From Buffalo And Beyond Subscriber submission to the Writing It Real ongoing memoir excerpt series

Another memoir excerpt from a Writing It Real suscriber.

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Excerpt from Angel Hero, Murder in Hawaii, Subscriber contribution to Writing it Real's memoir excerpts series

New memoir excerpt by Writing It Real subscriber Lizbeth is now up!

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Writing It Real Weekly Newsletter 2/13/26 Publishing Successes, Writer's Resource Links, Class Schedule, Memoir Excerpt Series

Feb 13 weekly newsletter from Writing It Real is up. Class schedule, writer successes, and resource links for writers.

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Writing It Real Weekly Newsletter Class schedule, links to resources for writers, publishing success, and more

The Writing It Real Weekly has links to two subscriber memoir excerpts, resources, and publishing successes. Learn about literary magazines you might submit work to. Also, a link to a video of Brenda Miller and me about how we teach writing. We describe our fall Lake Garda, Italy workshop.

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Live with Sheila Bender and Brenda Miller! A recording from Sheila Bender Writing It Real's live video

I went live on Substack with writer Brenda Miller. We talk about how we teach writing and about our fall workshop coming the end of September in Lake Garda!

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Excerpt from Moments of Dawn, A Poetic Memoir of Love & Family, Affliction & Affirmation A Contribution to the Writing It Real Subscriber Series "Memoir Excerpts"

The second in a series of memoir excerpts is up now on my substack:

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Writing It Real Weekly Newsletter January 22: Class and Workshop Schedule; Resource Links for Writers; Subscriber Publishing Successes, Substack Live News

My weekly Writing It Real Newsletter is up on Substack now.

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The Tender Work of Memoir:Hurdles, Feedback, Vulnerabilities A recording from Sheila Bender Writing It Real's live video

I did a Substack live today on "The Tender Work of Memoir: Hurdles, Feedback and Vulnerabilities" with Writer-ish's Darien Gee. Such a good conversation!

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Writing It Real Weekly Newsletter Class schedule, resources for writers, publishing successes

My weekly newsletter is posted!

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Toward A Year of Writing Poetry (Or Improving Your Prose Through Poetry) For January: Dreams and Repetitions

My article for January is up now on my Substack. It suggests using anaphora for writing poetry and lyric prose.

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Writing It Real Weekly Newsletter New Article, Classes, Resource Links, Subscriber and Follower Successes

My weekly newsletter from Writing It Real is up on Substack now. It describes the current "terms" classes I am teaching, offers resource links for writers, publishes subscribers' and followers' publishing successes, and cheers writers on.

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Holidays: The Ones We Love Rembering,Others We Would Rather Forget Here’s the link to a free download of a treasure trove of subscriber essays.

New post on Substack today. It has a link to a free download of an anthology by Writing It Real subscribers: sheilabender.substack.com/p/holidays-t...

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Writing It Real Newsletter December 24, 2025 Video Conversation and Reading with Poet Beth Jacobs, New Writing Series Opportunity, Resource Links and Successes

My weekly newsletter is out early. I hope to hear from you.

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When I Knew I Was A Writer Subscriber contribution to the Writing It Real series on the topic

A new "When I Knew I Was a Writer" essay by a Writing It Real substack subscriber is up.

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Writing It Real Newsletter December 11, 2025 Video Conversation and Reading with Poet Beth Jacobs, Resource Links and Successes

This week's Writing It Real newsletter is available. More resource links for writers and successes.

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In Conversation with poet Beth Jacobs
YouTube video by Sheila Bender In Conversation with poet Beth Jacobs

A new Writing It Real "In Conversation" video is up. I am talking with Evanston, IL, poet Beth Jacob about her new book Luminous Loves Grey and the place of poetry in her life.

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Writing: The Best Way to Metabolize My Life A Writing It Real subscriber essay in the series "When I Knew I Was a Writer"

My new post on Substack is an essay by Writing It Real subscriber Liz Hartz for the series, "How I Knew I Was a Writer."
Thank you, Liz, for the essay and also for the mention in your bio (I am blushing at the high praise).

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ONLINE CLASS: All I Want for Christmas is to Write! - Il Chiostro A Flashy Holiday Special with Sheila Bender

Sheila Bender Writing It Real
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I want to help you keep writing this holiday season when you might feel you don’t have time or bandwidth to concentrate on our writing.

Spend 2 hours on 12/27 via Zoom & leave knowing how much you can generate in minutes.

Il Chiostro has the class description.

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In the Lineage Subscriber contribution to the Writing It Real series "When I knew I Was a Writer"

There's another writer's essay on "When I Knew I Was a
Writer."

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November 20, 2025 Writing It Real Weekly Newsletter Resources, workshops, subscriber successes

Another weekly newsletter with a prompt, resource links, and subscriber successes.

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How And When I knew I Was a Writer Subscriber Contribution to the Writing It Real series of essays on the topic

Another fabulous essay by a Writing It Real subscriber on the topic of how I knew I was a writer.

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Weekly Writing It Real Newsletter November 13, 2025 News, Resources, and Publication Successes

Contemplating Christmas decorations going up in my town before we've gathered for Thanksgiving, I think about the now.

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The Things We Do Subscriber Contribution to the Writing It Real Series on When I Knew I Was A Writer

I have just posted this week's essay in the Writing It Real series "When I knew I was a writer."

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Bethany Reid, Lillo Way, and Lisa Ashley Read from Their Poetry Collections With a discussion of their poems and the place of poetry in their lives

On my Substack a reading with three fine poets and a good Q&A about their poetry and the place of poetry in today's world.

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Writing is the Most Selfish Thing I Do Contribution to the Writing It Real Series on How I Knew I Was a Writer

Another fun essay about considering oneself a writer.

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In the Writing Burrow | Margaret Atwood | Substack Whatever comes into my addled, shrinking brain. Click to read In the Writing Burrow, by Margaret Atwood, a Substack publication with hundreds of thousands of subscribers.

In the Writing Burrow
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October 30, 2025 Writing It RealWeekly Newsletter Dear Writers,

I've just posted my weekly writers' newsletter on Substack.

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TURNING THE VERBAL KALEIDOSCOPE Contribution to the Writing It Real Series on How I Knew I Was a Writer

I just posted a short essay by David D. Horowitz in my series of short essays by writers on when they knew they were writers.

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