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Stefanie Kirby

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Writer. Mom. Xeric gardener. OPENING (Glass Poetry, 2025). REMAINDER (Bull City Press, 2025). FRUITFUL (Driftwood Press, 2024). Poems in Best of the Net, West Branch, phoebe, Cincinnati Review, etc. More poems at https://linktr.ee/stefaniekirbypoetry

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Yes!!! It's really tough out there. Sigh.

25.11.2025 04:56 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
NPR listing for SHE'S UNDER HERE of 2025 "Books We Love."
 
Keywords: biography & memoir, book club ideas, family matters, nonfiction, rather short, seriously great writing 

In 1974, Karen Palmer, then 17, fell in love with Gil, a 36-year-old in the midst of a divorce; she writes that he seemed like the answer to β€œHow do I escape my unhappy home?” Yet over 14 years of marriage, Gil tormented Palmer with his alcohol and drug binges, illegal schemes, and violence, jealousy and control that only escalated when she filed for divorce. In a bid for safety, Palmer remarried and fled with her daughters to Colorado, where they all assumed new identities. Told with cinematic, heart-thumping detail, She’s Under Here offers haunting meditations on how fear lingers long after we reach safe shores and on what disappearing cost Palmer’s family.

β€” Kristen Martin, book critic and author of The Sun Won't Come Out Tomorrow: The Dark History of American Orphanhood

NPR listing for SHE'S UNDER HERE of 2025 "Books We Love." Keywords: biography & memoir, book club ideas, family matters, nonfiction, rather short, seriously great writing In 1974, Karen Palmer, then 17, fell in love with Gil, a 36-year-old in the midst of a divorce; she writes that he seemed like the answer to β€œHow do I escape my unhappy home?” Yet over 14 years of marriage, Gil tormented Palmer with his alcohol and drug binges, illegal schemes, and violence, jealousy and control that only escalated when she filed for divorce. In a bid for safety, Palmer remarried and fled with her daughters to Colorado, where they all assumed new identities. Told with cinematic, heart-thumping detail, She’s Under Here offers haunting meditations on how fear lingers long after we reach safe shores and on what disappearing cost Palmer’s family. β€” Kristen Martin, book critic and author of The Sun Won't Come Out Tomorrow: The Dark History of American Orphanhood

Honored that SHE'S UNDER HERE is on @npr.org's list of 2025 "Books We Love."

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😭

24.11.2025 20:50 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
prose Sonnet
The shirt in the poem was real, the house was not, and the last line
was stolen from a philosopher who was in love with a 13-year-old boy.
The attic window from which the reader views all of this alleged failing
in love was pentagonal, red and yellow stained glass. Over the years,
many neighborhood kids have tried to knock out the window with
rocks and baseballs, but it can only be smashed from the inside out.

prose Sonnet The shirt in the poem was real, the house was not, and the last line was stolen from a philosopher who was in love with a 13-year-old boy. The attic window from which the reader views all of this alleged failing in love was pentagonal, red and yellow stained glass. Over the years, many neighborhood kids have tried to knock out the window with rocks and baseballs, but it can only be smashed from the inside out.

Mark Yakich from The Making Of Collateral Beauty

#smallpoemsunday
@tomsnarsky.bsky.social

23.11.2025 15:11 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Bread


I was doing my best, then
the day ganged up on me

Bread I was doing my best, then the day ganged up on me

happy #smallpoemsunday! πŸ’œ

feel free to participate by posting small poems you wrote, +/or small poems you love by somebody else :)

here’s one by Jesse Murray~

23.11.2025 14:47 β€” πŸ‘ 162    πŸ” 28    πŸ’¬ 8    πŸ“Œ 9
ode to the flute
A man sings 
by opening his 
mouth a man 
sings by opening his lungs by turning himself into air a flute can
be made of a man nothing is explained a flute lays on its side and prays a wind might enter it and make of it
at least
a small final song

ode to the flute A man sings by opening his mouth a man sings by opening his lungs by turning himself into air a flute can be made of a man nothing is explained a flute lays on its side and prays a wind might enter it and make of it at least a small final song

Ross Gay

catalog of unabashed gratitude

#smallpoemsunday
@tomsnarsky.bsky.social

23.11.2025 18:30 β€” πŸ‘ 57    πŸ” 14    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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And every night
a possible key
to something beyond

23.11.2025 05:06 β€” πŸ‘ 44    πŸ” 7    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 2
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Beyond grateful to have a half dozen new poems (from the forthcoming CLOUDWATCHER) appear in the brand new issue of @ampoetryreview.bsky.social! Here's one of them...

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🚨 I have a new chapbook out in the world! 🚨

The Man is a sequence of 24 micro poems, all beginning with β€˜The Man’. I also provided the doodles for the cover. I have 50 copies & they’re all pay-what-you-want (+ $4 for shipping) so DM me if you want a copy! πŸ“šβ€οΈ

20.11.2025 12:37 β€” πŸ‘ 45    πŸ” 17    πŸ’¬ 6    πŸ“Œ 1
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Two new poems published today in Midway Journal! #poetry #writing #poets #poems

17.10.2025 14:05 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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We were captured by this dizzy flash piece by @willmusgrove.bsky.social

Take a spin here: asteralesjournal.com/1-4-musgrove...

19.11.2025 22:27 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 5    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
WIDOW / WIDOWER'S WINTER

Outside, the snow is falling into its past...
I do want this night to end.
In the fireplace,
a section of ash caves in.

The fall day you were buried, 
birds went over,
south,
thick enough to carry someone.

They took my gapes of breath.
-Their fuel?
We are together in some birds, who fail.

I didn't want to look down, to glimpse your grave, its heroic little mound
like the peck of dirt we hope to eat in our life.

WIDOW / WIDOWER'S WINTER Outside, the snow is falling into its past... I do want this night to end. In the fireplace, a section of ash caves in. The fall day you were buried, birds went over, south, thick enough to carry someone. They took my gapes of breath. -Their fuel? We are together in some birds, who fail. I didn't want to look down, to glimpse your grave, its heroic little mound like the peck of dirt we hope to eat in our life.

I do want this night to end.

Bill Knott

19.11.2025 02:42 β€” πŸ‘ 51    πŸ” 9    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 2
Christa fairbrother holding up the latest issue of Crannog Magazine.  She's wearing a tan sleeveless collared sweater in front of an oak tree with a philodendron climbing it.

Christa fairbrother holding up the latest issue of Crannog Magazine. She's wearing a tan sleeveless collared sweater in front of an oak tree with a philodendron climbing it.

The poem A Bearcat is Not a Bear or a Cat but a Threatened Species

The poem A Bearcat is Not a Bear or a Cat but a Threatened Species

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Thanks to Crannog Magazine for publishing this poem πŸ˜€

24.10.2025 13:08 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Just lovely!! Looking forward to this! πŸ’™πŸ’™πŸ’™

19.11.2025 02:20 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
The poetry collection, More Flowers, resting against a vase of red carnations. β™₯οΈπŸŒΈπŸ’

The poetry collection, More Flowers, resting against a vase of red carnations. β™₯οΈπŸŒΈπŸ’

Proof copy is here, and she’s lovely, so let this be a little reminder that MORE FLOWERS is out with @triohousepress.org in less than 3 months! You can pre-order at the link in the replies or wherever books are sold!

Here’s to more poetry and more flowers!
🌺🌸🌼

16.11.2025 18:53 β€” πŸ‘ 63    πŸ” 25    πŸ’¬ 9    πŸ“Œ 1
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color on Tuesday

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18.11.2025 15:52 β€” πŸ‘ 27    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
VULNERABLE MAN

At night, when we're not looking, 
small blue flowers 
close their mouths 
in the grass.

VULNERABLE MAN At night, when we're not looking, small blue flowers close their mouths in the grass.

Chessy Normile πŸ’™

18.11.2025 03:47 β€” πŸ‘ 52    πŸ” 12    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 1
WHAT CAN'T BE TAKEN

Trauma was not being 
able to get the hands 
of the clock off me.

Healing was learning
no one has ever laid a fingerprint 
on the part of me that's infinite.

WHAT CAN'T BE TAKEN Trauma was not being able to get the hands of the clock off me. Healing was learning no one has ever laid a fingerprint on the part of me that's infinite.

andrea gibson #smallpoemsunday

16.11.2025 18:02 β€” πŸ‘ 40    πŸ” 12    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1
MORAL NARCISSISM

fossil, cloud...

it’s okay to like your little life.

I have proof.

MORAL NARCISSISM fossil, cloud... it’s okay to like your little life. I have proof.

happy #smallpoemsunday! πŸ’œ

feel free to participate by posting small poems you wrote, +/or small poems you love by somebody else :)

here’s one by the brilliant @bartonsmock.bsky.social~

16.11.2025 14:35 β€” πŸ‘ 80    πŸ” 21    πŸ’¬ 9    πŸ“Œ 11
SCATTERED

: in my mother's ashes

: some sort of daughter

: with an unreliable sense of direction

SCATTERED : in my mother's ashes : some sort of daughter : with an unreliable sense of direction

Eve Luckring πŸ’™

from SIGNAL TO NOISE (Ornithopter Press)

@thetenderbetween.bsky.social
@ornithopterpress.bsky.social

16.11.2025 00:56 β€” πŸ‘ 31    πŸ” 12    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1
three copies of white door on patterned upholstery fabric. cover image shows detail of Alternative Reality by Alan Sirulnikoff, photographer:
logs floating on dark water and a white door among them.

three copies of white door on patterned upholstery fabric. cover image shows detail of Alternative Reality by Alan Sirulnikoff, photographer: logs floating on dark water and a white door among them.

front and backside of bookmark on same surface. Front shows detail of book cover, centering the door among logs. title isn't shown. Backside has a poem from the book printed on it plus attributions:

Horizons

Traditions I keep
take hold in this soil slowlyβ€”
home grows fainter still
                           until
distant slopes briefly
make me forget where I am,
re-etch longing.

front and backside of bookmark on same surface. Front shows detail of book cover, centering the door among logs. title isn't shown. Backside has a poem from the book printed on it plus attributions: Horizons Traditions I keep take hold in this soil slowlyβ€” home grows fainter still until distant slopes briefly make me forget where I am, re-etch longing.

yours truly (white woman, shoulder-length dark-blondish hair, glasses, dark green sweater, scarf with green and gray leafmotif) smiling into camera holding the book in front of her, white bookshelves along white walls in the background.

yours truly (white woman, shoulder-length dark-blondish hair, glasses, dark green sweater, scarf with green and gray leafmotif) smiling into camera holding the book in front of her, white bookshelves along white walls in the background.

My debut collection WHITE DOOR is out!!! πŸ’ƒβœ¨πŸ’ƒ
Thank you Carbonation Press & @gregbem.bsky.social!
Link to order and more info in 🧡
DM for signed copies/to review πŸ™πŸ’™
Watch this space for events/news 😊

15.11.2025 20:43 β€” πŸ‘ 25    πŸ” 13    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 2
Sunset


Do you forget the roar
of tiny lungs unsettling
your sleep? How I was once, a sparrow
lost in the yard? Or was it safer
for you to let him
open new seams, your scars still
so raw? I used to wake
and run all of the faucets,
as if we lived inside the falls. The house, lit
like a constellation. Was I ever yours
after that? There is such violence
in the sunset. You wanted me
to beg, but I held my breath as I wanted
to be held. I should have said I wanted sky
to claim the stars. That I understood
to be a good girl I had to lie
low like the aging hardwood floor. But, 
when I return,
it's to stand in the soft light
on the sun-porch. To admit the sunsets
are drawn by my hand.

Sunset Do you forget the roar of tiny lungs unsettling your sleep? How I was once, a sparrow lost in the yard? Or was it safer for you to let him open new seams, your scars still so raw? I used to wake and run all of the faucets, as if we lived inside the falls. The house, lit like a constellation. Was I ever yours after that? There is such violence in the sunset. You wanted me to beg, but I held my breath as I wanted to be held. I should have said I wanted sky to claim the stars. That I understood to be a good girl I had to lie low like the aging hardwood floor. But, when I return, it's to stand in the soft light on the sun-porch. To admit the sunsets are drawn by my hand.

Chelsea Dingman β™₯️

β€œThere is such violence / in the sunset.”

@chelsdingman.bsky.social

15.11.2025 04:16 β€” πŸ‘ 45    πŸ” 11    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
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Peggy Hinaekian, Birds On A Wire, c. 2000s

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πŸ₯³πŸŽ‚

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⚑️HAD call for a cause ⚑️

14.11.2025 15:44 β€” πŸ‘ 14    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
REMEMBER


the ruins
the dry grass
the sun at three o’clock
fatigue
& the house of the tragic poet

REMEMBER the ruins the dry grass the sun at three o’clock fatigue & the house of the tragic poet

Emmanuel Hocquard, tr. Norma Cole

13.11.2025 19:53 β€” πŸ‘ 41    πŸ” 12    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
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Claudia Rankine.

14.11.2025 04:08 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Preview
Izzy Casey β€” Bennington Review

This poem β€œIn the History of the Glass Hospital Universe” might be my favorite of the year. From Izzy Casey in the recent issue Bennington Review.

12.11.2025 00:12 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 5    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1
November 12, 2025
Insomnia
Diana Cao

Refuse the day.
In the night,

a jewel balloon will hang

doubled in the snow,
an echo like anger

curled in the mind,
like a peeled thing

without eyes, troubled,
finite, and proud.

Like the living.
Now light rushes in

from the window,

flooding the day
before you.

November 12, 2025 Insomnia Diana Cao Refuse the day. In the night, a jewel balloon will hang doubled in the snow, an echo like anger curled in the mind, like a peeled thing without eyes, troubled, finite, and proud. Like the living. Now light rushes in from the window, flooding the day before you.

our series of tinies, from Tom Snarsky's #smallpoemsunday call are getting close to wrapping up... but not before this wonderful beauty from Diana Cao!

https://www.havehashad.com/9zyon

12.11.2025 17:24 β€” πŸ‘ 16    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Still Life

The backyard foxes are lean 
this winter, and the birds bright.
Most days I can't bring myself 
to do anything but watch the vixen 
root for something. A run of good 
days means I'll spend hours rearranging 
the pantry, as if preparing to paint 
a Dutch still life. All that's missing 
is a milkmaid. Or a dead bird. My dress, wrinkled and sleeveless, is nothing 
like the sky. The foxes grow 
thinner, and I wonder
whether I should feed them, though 
I don't really know what they eat.
Nights stretch and I sleep 
little, but it's the days, the sun 
at four o'clock, that are the most 
difficult-when the movement 
of clouds appears full
of peril. People once drilled holes 
into other people's skulls, just to let 
that darkness out.

Still Life The backyard foxes are lean this winter, and the birds bright. Most days I can't bring myself to do anything but watch the vixen root for something. A run of good days means I'll spend hours rearranging the pantry, as if preparing to paint a Dutch still life. All that's missing is a milkmaid. Or a dead bird. My dress, wrinkled and sleeveless, is nothing like the sky. The foxes grow thinner, and I wonder whether I should feed them, though I don't really know what they eat. Nights stretch and I sleep little, but it's the days, the sun at four o'clock, that are the most difficult-when the movement of clouds appears full of peril. People once drilled holes into other people's skulls, just to let that darkness out.

M. Cynthia Cheung β™₯️

from COMMON DISASTER (Acre Books)

I absolutely love this poem!

@acrebooks.bsky.social

09.11.2025 05:46 β€” πŸ‘ 59    πŸ” 16    πŸ’¬ 7    πŸ“Œ 2

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