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Writer and podcaster on consensual non-monogamy and cuckold relationships. Find my stuff here: https://www.venuscuckoldress.com/cw

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No Kings Beaverto Β· No Kings **We have the power and are claiming it together. No Thrones. No Crowns. No Kings.** What began in 2025 as a single day of defiance has become a sustained national resistance to tyranny, spreading fr...

I'm attending No Kings's event, β€œNo Kings Beaverto” - sign up now to join me! www.mobilize.us/nokings/even...

21.02.2026 21:33 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

"emasculation" is only a perception in your mind. You could also see it as "evolved"

07.02.2026 17:38 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

And if you read the story, Gary, it really isn't about penis size, but the presence and freedom you could bring to her.

02.02.2026 17:46 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Compersion, Not Control: Rethinking Masculinity in Modern Marriage What loving a non-possessive man taught me about security, freedom, and real partnership

What if the most secure men aren’t threatened by their partner’s freedom?

I wrote about compersion, masculinity, and a marriage that works because ownership isn’t the foundation.
medium.com/@beyondmonog...

02.02.2026 17:03 β€” πŸ‘ 29    πŸ” 9    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

actually I don't....KDP is very confusing. I'll see if I can get to the bottom of it

02.02.2026 17:02 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Hey, lovely people: One more day and you can download my new book, co-authored with Dr David Ley, PhD, "A Woman's Guide to Hotwifing: From the Therapist's Office to Real Life," for FREE. Cucks and bulls: you also can benefit if you are new to the LS: a.co/d/30DlJd0

30.01.2026 18:18 β€” πŸ‘ 27    πŸ” 8    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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A Woman's Guide To Hotwifing: From the Therapist's Office to Real Life Amazon.com: A Woman's Guide To Hotwifing: From the Therapist's Office to Real Life eBook : Welch, Crystal , Ley PhD, Dr. David : Kindle Store

Who do you know (a woman) who is new to the lifestyle? Do her a huge favor and share the new book I wrote with Dr David Ley, PhD (author of "Insatiable Wives". It is the very book I wish I had had in the beginning. www.amazon.com/Womans-Guide...

29.01.2026 18:13 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1
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Shady (@shady5) I own a small bakery. Open at 5 AM. Close at 2 PM. Every morning this homeless man sat outside. Never asked for anything. Just sat there. One cold morning I brought him coffee and a pastry. β€œWhat’s...

In these dark times, it will help all of us to remember there is goodness and kindness in the world: substack.com/@shady5/note...

28.01.2026 17:31 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
We are the world ---- USA Africa ( singer's name,  lyric )
YouTube video by CrystalLeaf1 We are the world ---- USA Africa ( singer's name, lyric )

More true now than ever before and we can never forget:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=I04F...

27.01.2026 18:14 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

God bless and keep this man. May his murderers find no comfort or rest for the entirety of their days.

26.01.2026 16:00 β€” πŸ‘ 14    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

thank you subby!

21.01.2026 17:28 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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I thought you should know I am featuring your podcasts in my new Hotwife guide: co-written by Dr David Ley, PhD. Tell me where I can forward you a copy....not formatted for sale yet, but it will be an Epub for $4.99

21.01.2026 17:26 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

what caught your attention?

16.01.2026 20:28 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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a white cat is surrounded by red hearts ALT: a white cat is surrounded by red hearts
06.01.2026 23:46 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

so much fun!!

04.01.2026 16:09 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
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The Rise of Ethical Non-Monogamyβ€Šβ€”β€Šand the Backlash From a Monogamous Society For every couple embracing ENM, there’s a society ready to judge. Here’s the truth about the rise of ethical non-monogamyβ€Šβ€”β€Šand why the…

Real life experiences real life societal judgment: medium.com/@beyondmonog...

21.08.2025 17:10 β€” πŸ‘ 21    πŸ” 5    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Here is a topic that I've not seen discussed much in cuck circles but feel like it is worth a good discussion. What do YOU think? " Sacred Intimacy: Protecting Your Energy in the Lifestyle" medium.com/p/sacred-int...

19.08.2025 13:01 β€” πŸ‘ 16    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

SSSoooooooooooooooooo much fun to chop it up w VENUS

19.08.2025 12:56 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Just got a heartfelt note from a follower RE: most recent podcast and how he wants to collaborate w me on helping more black men be more understanding with women and lifestyle couples. Makes me happy to know the message connects!

25.07.2025 16:50 β€” πŸ‘ 27    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The wait is over!!

24.07.2025 18:36 β€” πŸ‘ 27    πŸ” 5    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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The Modern Man and The Death of Creativity Beyond Monogamy With Crystal Welch Β· Episode

FINALLY got this episode out. Have you found yourself wondering why SO MANY women are opting out....not just in the lifestyle but in dating in general. Join me along with Venus and Victor: a true enlightened bull from London that breaks this down. open.spotify.com/episode/0eg7...

24.07.2025 18:27 β€” πŸ‘ 15    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 2
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Had a fantastic session yesterday with Venus and Victor: a gentleman from London, Venus met when they were there. Topic: "Modern Men and the Death of Curiosity." One of the most potent group discussions I've had this year. Be sure to tune in!

#venuscuckoldress #enlightenedmen

10.07.2025 17:03 β€” πŸ‘ 14    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

and she would be a lucky woman! Hang in there: not easy to find a life partner, no matter what your design is!

24.06.2025 17:13 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Is Consensual Non-Monogamy The Future of Love? For generations, we’ve been told that a successful romantic life involves one person, one relationship, forever.

IS Consensual Non-Monogamy The Future of Love?
beyondmonogamy.medium.com/is-consensua...

24.06.2025 16:03 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1
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What Happens When A White Woman Chooses a Black Man Every time I mentionβ€Šβ€”β€Ševen casuallyβ€Šβ€”β€Šthat I love Black men, I brace myself, not for confusion or curiosity, but for the heat of white…

beyondmonogamy.medium.com/what-happens... This is exactly what happens when a woman DARES to declare publically her preference for black men

31.05.2025 17:00 β€” πŸ‘ 18    πŸ” 5    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0
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Race Play in the Lifestyle Beyond Monogamy Β· Episode

The topic few people want to discuss: Race Play in the Lifestyle: open.spotify.com/episode/5z28...

04.04.2025 17:20 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
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The Disenchantment of Online Dating: Why Women Are Opting Out Let’s be honest: if you’re a woman on a dating app, chances are you’ve had this thoughtβ€Šβ€”β€ŠIs this seriously what dating has become?

Here is what is happening: beyondmonogamy.medium.com/the-disencha...

04.04.2025 17:19 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

YES...we agree!😘

19.03.2025 19:03 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Guys!!!! If you don't already subscribe to Venus' podcast....you need to!! This segment is LIT: SO MUCH WISDOM revealed. Real Stuff.

19.03.2025 19:01 β€” πŸ‘ 18    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

that's who SHOULD have been Time's Person of the Year

29.12.2024 18:04 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0