So fair haha when I first started t, my vocal cords were constantly strained/sore and I just thought I was like low-level sick for ages with a kind-of sore throat and then I realised it was from doing my customer service/parent voice while they were changing hahaha
28.02.2026 20:44 β
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Well Iβm definitely going to be adopting it now!
28.02.2026 08:49 β
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No I never hear my own voice! Itβs a bit of an insecurity tbh bc I have not un-trained myself to stop pitching my voice up constantly at work yet π
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28.02.2026 06:00 β
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Just had a suspiciously easy time deciding with my 3 year old which of their toys to keep when we move & which to throw away π€¨
have I simply reminded them of all of the toys theyβd forgotten about & will they have a meltdown when they ask for something they agreed to throw away?
28.02.2026 05:43 β
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I never send voice notes but I did one yesterday bc it felt awkward to keep responding to someone elseβs voice notes with text messages, and so Iβm just wondering when was anyone gonna tell me that Iβve got t-boy voice now?
28.02.2026 02:23 β
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28.02.2026 02:22 β
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This is so beautiful ππ ππππ
28.02.2026 01:30 β
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Okay, but donβt tell your father!
27.02.2026 10:43 β
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Iβm back for my every-other-weekend visitation π
27.02.2026 09:00 β
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Sup queers π
27.02.2026 08:29 β
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I need a break from the psychic damage that this website has been inflicting on me lmao so Iβm gonna Log Off for a while
Iβll probably still be on the gram, where the algorithm is surprisingly more hopeful, so if youβd like to keep in touch & weβre not already mutuals on there, Iβm @ biggaykay ππ
17.02.2026 21:52 β
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Almost got into an accident on the way to daycare pickup bc someone decided to pull out in front of me while I was going 60 km/h so AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA the crash out is imminent
17.02.2026 08:40 β
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We can dream π€ͺ I donβt even care about the money at this stage lol if only it didnβt affect future applications
17.02.2026 08:39 β
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Lmaoooo yes me too
17.02.2026 06:40 β
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Deadset!!
17.02.2026 06:39 β
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ADAB
17.02.2026 02:06 β
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If Iβm being generous, itβs just time for the periodic inspection to happen and the timing is unfortunate/possibly didnβt even realise the lease is ending when notice was sent. Not sure that I believe that to be the case, but anything is possible!! π€ͺπ€ͺ
17.02.2026 03:00 β
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I think itβs sooooo fun that our real estate wants to do an inspection 3 weeks before our lease ends; just what you need in the midst of packing your life up! Make sure youβre doing it neatly enough!!!!
17.02.2026 01:54 β
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Ben is also the name of their best friendβs dad so I suspect they think all dads are named Ben lmao
17.02.2026 00:26 β
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16.02.2026 19:45 β
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Hell yeah π Jβs initial suggestions were Ben (my partnerβs name), poo poo, and Spider Man π
16.02.2026 19:44 β
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No I think Iβll see if J has any haha
16.02.2026 10:12 β
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Fuck it, gonna come up with a new parental name for me with my kid. Never wanted the one I ended up with in the first place. Iβm so tired. Perhaps I donβt need to be.
16.02.2026 09:45 β
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Thank you my love π
16.02.2026 09:36 β
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Itβs definitely the vibe im tryna give off but forever unsure if itβs landing haha
16.02.2026 09:36 β
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I don't know who needs to hear this but:
Jesus died for your right to take HRT, and baby he is so proud of you.
31.03.2024 06:23 β
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Youβre probably right! I think I have to just ease myself into it haha π€ͺ
16.02.2026 06:53 β
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itβs still not uncommon for me to be misgendered so Iβve been using the womenβs room; but the stares & comments in there are also becoming more regular so idfk lol π€ͺ
/I/ donβt think I look like a woman, but Iβm not objective & the number of people calling me she seems to prove me wrong
16.02.2026 06:14 β
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Went to the library to put a hold on a gay book, but I forgot my library card πππ life is so unfair sometimes
16.02.2026 02:47 β
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God I wish unisex was an option more often! Iβve been using the accessible bathroom a bit this past week but that feels bad for a whole other reason π
I just wanna pee!!!!!!
16.02.2026 02:36 β
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