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@kayx.bsky.social

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So fair haha when I first started t, my vocal cords were constantly strained/sore and I just thought I was like low-level sick for ages with a kind-of sore throat and then I realised it was from doing my customer service/parent voice while they were changing hahaha

28.02.2026 20:44 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Well I’m definitely going to be adopting it now!

28.02.2026 08:49 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

No I never hear my own voice! It’s a bit of an insecurity tbh bc I have not un-trained myself to stop pitching my voice up constantly at work yet πŸ˜…πŸ˜…

28.02.2026 06:00 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Just had a suspiciously easy time deciding with my 3 year old which of their toys to keep when we move & which to throw away 🀨
have I simply reminded them of all of the toys they’d forgotten about & will they have a meltdown when they ask for something they agreed to throw away?

28.02.2026 05:43 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I never send voice notes but I did one yesterday bc it felt awkward to keep responding to someone else’s voice notes with text messages, and so I’m just wondering when was anyone gonna tell me that I’ve got t-boy voice now?

28.02.2026 02:23 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

😘😘😘

28.02.2026 02:22 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

This is so beautiful 😭😭 πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–

28.02.2026 01:30 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Okay, but don’t tell your father!

27.02.2026 10:43 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I’m back for my every-other-weekend visitation 😌

27.02.2026 09:00 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Sup queers πŸ’–

27.02.2026 08:29 β€” πŸ‘ 16    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

I need a break from the psychic damage that this website has been inflicting on me lmao so I’m gonna Log Off for a while
I’ll probably still be on the gram, where the algorithm is surprisingly more hopeful, so if you’d like to keep in touch & we’re not already mutuals on there, I’m @ biggaykay πŸ’–πŸŒˆ

17.02.2026 21:52 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Almost got into an accident on the way to daycare pickup bc someone decided to pull out in front of me while I was going 60 km/h so AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA the crash out is imminent

17.02.2026 08:40 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

We can dream πŸ€ͺ I don’t even care about the money at this stage lol if only it didn’t affect future applications

17.02.2026 08:39 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Lmaoooo yes me too

17.02.2026 06:40 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Deadset!!

17.02.2026 06:39 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

ADAB

17.02.2026 02:06 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

If I’m being generous, it’s just time for the periodic inspection to happen and the timing is unfortunate/possibly didn’t even realise the lease is ending when notice was sent. Not sure that I believe that to be the case, but anything is possible!! πŸ€ͺπŸ€ͺ

17.02.2026 03:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I think it’s sooooo fun that our real estate wants to do an inspection 3 weeks before our lease ends; just what you need in the midst of packing your life up! Make sure you’re doing it neatly enough!!!!

17.02.2026 01:54 β€” πŸ‘ 14    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Ben is also the name of their best friend’s dad so I suspect they think all dads are named Ben lmao

17.02.2026 00:26 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ₯°πŸ₯°

16.02.2026 19:45 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Hell yeah 😎 J’s initial suggestions were Ben (my partner’s name), poo poo, and Spider Man πŸ˜…

16.02.2026 19:44 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

No I think I’ll see if J has any haha

16.02.2026 10:12 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Fuck it, gonna come up with a new parental name for me with my kid. Never wanted the one I ended up with in the first place. I’m so tired. Perhaps I don’t need to be.

16.02.2026 09:45 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you my love πŸ’–

16.02.2026 09:36 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It’s definitely the vibe im tryna give off but forever unsure if it’s landing haha

16.02.2026 09:36 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I don't know who needs to hear this but:
Jesus died for your right to take HRT, and baby he is so proud of you.

31.03.2024 06:23 β€” πŸ‘ 169    πŸ” 44    πŸ’¬ 7    πŸ“Œ 0

You’re probably right! I think I have to just ease myself into it haha πŸ€ͺ

16.02.2026 06:53 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

it’s still not uncommon for me to be misgendered so I’ve been using the women’s room; but the stares & comments in there are also becoming more regular so idfk lol πŸ€ͺ
/I/ don’t think I look like a woman, but I’m not objective & the number of people calling me she seems to prove me wrong

16.02.2026 06:14 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

Went to the library to put a hold on a gay book, but I forgot my library card 😭😭😭 life is so unfair sometimes

16.02.2026 02:47 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

God I wish unisex was an option more often! I’ve been using the accessible bathroom a bit this past week but that feels bad for a whole other reason πŸ˜… I just wanna pee!!!!!!

16.02.2026 02:36 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0