Drjoekort

My new book, “Side Guys: Non-Penetrative Sex Comes Out of the Closet,” is available through Amazon.

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In this Smart Sex, Smart Love episode, I talk with Dr. Ronald Hellman, former associate professor of Psychiatry at Mount Sinai Medical Center, about his groundbreaking research on homosexism.

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Let’s build stronger ties together. 🌈💼

I’m excited to sponsor the next Ties Like Me! meetup—Detroit’s premier LGBTQ+ networking group where individuality and community co-exist.

More about my work: www.joekort.com
Event Details: tieslikeme.org

Men want to feel just as desired as women, but women don’t compliment men much. Why is that?

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November is Transgender Awareness Month, a time to honor and uplift transgender and gender-diverse individuals.

This month, I encourage everyone to listen, learn, and affirm. Visibility and understanding are essential steps toward equality and emotional safety for all.

Today is National Sex Toy Day.

If you’re new to sex toys, it can take some time to figure out what feels right for you, and that’s completely okay. Start small and simple. There are so many options out there that it can feel overwhelming at first, so take your time and explore at your own pace.

The Center for Relationship Health is growing, and we’re looking for passionate, licensed therapists to join our team.

Learn more and apply at crsh.com/careers.

Trauma doesn’t have to define your story. 💙 Join McMurty for a free webinar exploring Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) — an evidence-based therapy that helps the brain heal from trauma without needing to relive every painful detail.

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My husband has prostate cancer. We are a neurodiverse couple – he is more logical, and I am more emotional. We are getting multiple opinions from doctors about treatment plans and options.

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Happy Halloween! Are you dressing up for the occasion? What is your costume?

My mom has been dealing with cancer for quite some time, and her spirits remain high and positive. I talked with her on TikTok, asking her to share some reflections. I was surprised at her response.

www.tiktok.com/@drjoekort/video/7538135837951773983?is_copy_url=1&is_from_webapp=v1

Trauma doesn’t have to define your story. 💙 Join McMurty for a free webinar exploring Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) — an evidence-based therapy that helps the brain heal from trauma without needing to relive every painful detail.

crsh.com/2025/10/16/e...

“You are responsible for your own pleasure.” 💡
In this clip, Dr. Adrienne Rowland reminds us that pleasure isn’t our partner’s job — it’s our own. By communicating what feels good, exploring boundaries, and discussing needs openly, couples can build deeper trust.

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My mom has been dealing with cancer for quite some time, and her spirits remain high and positive. I talked with her on TikTok, asking her to share some reflections. I was surprised at her response.

www.tiktok.com/@drjoekort/video/7538135837951773983?is_copy_url=1&is_from_webapp=v1

Zachary Zane, an author and sex and relationship expert, published an article in Lube Life about sides.

www.lubelife.com/blogs/news/everything-to-know-about-sides-the-people-who-don-t-prefer-to-have-penetrative-sex

Why do most people assume everyone is straight and Christian? Charlie Kirk, a prominent conservative activist and co-founder of Turning Point USA, was shot and killed during a event at Utah Valley University.

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I’m excited to invite you to join me for a virtual webinar on Tuesday, October 28, 2025, from 10am–1pm. In this training, I’ll share concrete strategies to help trauma survivors reclaim their sexual health and move toward more fulfilling intimacy.

www.nasw-michigan.org/events/Event...

I’ve seen it many times: older men in locker rooms who walk around naked and completely comfortable. I’ve seen men with bodies to brag about covering up. I always wonder why some men are body proud while others aren't.

Addiction can grab you so hard and desperately that you are willing to do anything to get your high – even straight men will hook up with gay men to get a fix.

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Trauma doesn’t have to define your story. 💙 Join McMurty for a free webinar exploring Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) — an evidence-based therapy that helps the brain heal from trauma without needing to relive every painful detail.

crsh.com/2025/10/16/e...

I often recommend that single gay men date heterosexual men who have been married. I find they make the best relationship partners. I’ve been receiving a lot of objections to my suggestion.

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Asexual Awareness Week, now known as Ace Week, is dedicated to raising awareness of asexuality and expanding asexuality education.

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“Sex isn’t a biological drive like hunger or thirst — it’s an incentive motivation system.”
In this clip, Dr. Adrienne Rowland explains how sexual desire pulls us toward pleasure rather than pushes us to relieve discomfort .

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It’s Love Your Body Day! Did you know that 84 percent of gay men say they feel under intense pressure to have a good body?

crsh.com/2021/08/03/gay-men-have-body-image-issues/

Today is Sweetest Day! For many, it is a day of romantic deeds and expressions, while others consider it a “concocted promotion,” created by the candy industry solely to increase sales of sweets and gifts. What does it mean to you?

For Julian Shaw, fetish content creation is about much more than money.

🎧 Listen to the full Smart Sex, Smart Love podcast episode with Julian Shaw to explore how owning your sexuality and letting go of shame can lead to connection and healing.

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Trauma doesn’t have to define your story. 💙 Join McMurty for a free webinar exploring Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) — an evidence-based therapy that helps the brain heal from trauma without needing to relive every painful detail.

lives. What are they hiding, and why? Their wives say if they knew these secrets, it could improve the relationship because they would gain a deeper understanding of their partner, who he really is, and what is important to him. What do you think?

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“We are responsible for our own pleasure. Normalize it. Negotiate your desires. The result will be freeing.” – Dr. Rowland

🎧 Listen to Dr. Adrienne Rowland on Why Sex Is Not a Drive — available now on Smart Sex, Smart Love.

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I’m excited to invite you to join me for a virtual webinar on Tuesday, October 28, 2025, from 10am–1pm. In this training, I’ll share concrete strategies to help trauma survivors reclaim their sexual health and move toward more fulfilling intimacy.

www.nasw-michigan.org/events/Event...