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It's official: men are more supportive of trans women's issues than women.

metro.co.uk/2025/08/06/i...

06.08.2025 23:19 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Grim.

06.08.2025 23:10 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Women are frustrated and hurt in this process, too. "Exile" from social groups for not keeping the group dynamics (and the queen bee) intact, is the ultimate punishment, and we are seeing these dynamics in play, today, in real time.

06.08.2025 20:39 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Indeed, my feeling is that a great deal of anti-trans propaganda is motivated by a perceived breach of gender-contract. It is what women experience *from each other* played out on a massive social scale.

06.08.2025 20:20 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

You simply do not know whether the response is one of genuine compassion and understanding, or simply protecting the "herd" whilst resentment goes on underneath, unchecked.

For some, this may be a conscious process, for others it is not. But what women dislike the most, is to break this contract.

06.08.2025 20:16 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

This is basic, and has even been described by anti-trans women, who accurately describe how women do this, but stop short of saying that this very action is their modus operandi in every part of their lives. The "silent majority" is simply exposing this process.

06.08.2025 20:10 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Even saying such a thing exposes a fundamental misunderstanding of female socialisation, which rewards apparent non-conflict, and support for the "group", whilst those very same people harbour frustrations and resentment they have been socialised not to show.

06.08.2025 20:06 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

"Women are nice to me, there's something wrong with you" is myopic, and disregards that anti-trans ideology has grown and thrived within cis female social constructs, power, and methodology. I do not know of any men's groups that have achieved the same levels of genocidal persecution.

06.08.2025 20:03 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Are you saying that I don't live in the real world and am some kind of twitter hermit? Very strange thing to say. Anyway, you do you. Bye!

06.08.2025 19:42 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

"We, UK trans-led orgs & allies, withdraw recognition of the EHRC as a credible equalities regulator.

Her appointmentβ€”despite parliamentary oppositionβ€”confirms the EHRC is no longer independent, but a tool for anti-trans policy. Cont....
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06.08.2025 13:01 β€” πŸ‘ 106    πŸ” 29    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 2

Please can we inform men that women are telling them that they are prohibited from walking through the lingerie department, especially as an employee.

06.08.2025 15:03 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I've said it before and I'm saying it again: this is the era where men will be our biggest allies.

I know this is difficult, given the prevalence of violent gender policing by men, and our collective (often childhood) trauma relating to that, and I hear and intimately understand that.

06.08.2025 14:52 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm so tired of the ignorance of how some of you talk about transfem kids. They are girls. We were girls. We deserve better than being constantly lumped in with our biggest persecutors.

06.08.2025 07:50 β€” πŸ‘ 783    πŸ” 137    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Think of it as a good thing (if you're not 6ft 2), they can only identify people as trans if they are 6ft 2. The greater majority of press fearmongering is for people *only* 6ft 2.

In the meantime, for people who are 6ft 2, I'm so sorry, you're always welcome to be tall in my company πŸ’œ.

06.08.2025 14:46 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

We are in an era of unprecedented hostility manufactured by the media, the state, and women.

I promise you, time will undo this. In the mean time, we exist in ever smaller spaces.

Let them be spaces of light and love.

06.08.2025 14:40 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ’―. Until then, stay safe πŸ’œ

06.08.2025 14:33 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It's not TERF's. It is just women in general who see it as a social necessity to object to the existence of trans women. It has been socially normalised to behave like this, you could call it a form of "female socialisation" in the UK.

Eventually, it will undo itself. Until then, stay safe.

06.08.2025 14:33 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Nice response, the UK is so toxic.

05.08.2025 23:06 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Silence is complicity.

05.08.2025 18:40 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Transgender is not a medical condition, and male to female isn't a gender identity.

04.08.2025 06:35 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Ah yes, protecting women.

03.08.2025 23:50 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

In the article, it says "we must look toward trans folks to start shifting the way society sees gender roles". And I wholeheartedly agree: people with the protected characteristic of gender reassignment (however they choose to identify) can offer a unique and supportive environment for men.

03.08.2025 23:31 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

This assumes that men and boys are responsible; however, the trans genocide in the UK is most definitely the responsibility of cisgender women, and absolves white women in America of responsibility for Trump. It is all of our responsibilities.

03.08.2025 23:29 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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3 Aug 25 - New study shows vast "over-representation of trans boys" turns out to be vast _under-representation_ of trans girls bec. they: a) come out ~10 years later; b) start puberty later; & c) delay transitioning longer because of deep social animus towards AMAB femininity.
tinyurl.com/yrwvmxws

03.08.2025 13:17 β€” πŸ‘ 1852    πŸ” 540    πŸ’¬ 33    πŸ“Œ 107

We are already in the middle of one.

03.08.2025 23:11 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

He reminds me of that guy who takes me to those fancy restaurants he never takes his wife to.

03.08.2025 23:08 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The loss of confidence in the Nursing profession is tangiable: trans people do not feel safe given the conduct of its members and the inaction of the nursing regulator. This speaks of the depth of institutional capture and treatment of people with the protected characteristic of gender reassignment.

03.08.2025 15:43 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Sociopaths climbing over each other, desperate to be king of the genocide.

02.08.2025 19:03 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Please reach out for help, especially if these feelings persist, seem logical and rational, or overwhelming.

02.08.2025 18:53 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It would encourage them. Please do reach out to your GP, local mental health team, charity, advocate or supportive other if these thoughts and feelings persist. It's perfectly reasonable to need some support at some stage.

02.08.2025 18:49 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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