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Kelly Stonelake (she/her)

@kellystonelake.bsky.social

Former Meta executive turned whistleblower and advocate for kids' online safety, common sense tech regulations, suicide prevention, healthcare equity, and safer workplaces for those on the margins. AuDHD, MCAS, POTS, EDS overturned.substack.com

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CNN reporting that the strikes on Iran tonight are joint US and Israeli strikes.

Which means Donald Trump should be impeached for a third time.

What he has done tonight is illegal under the US constitution and the UN charter.

28.02.2026 07:16 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 8158    ๐Ÿ” 2395    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 258    ๐Ÿ“Œ 123

Scholars corrected me if I'm wrong, but I believe Walzer defines preemptive war in which an attack is imminent as just, but there's no such thing as a "preventative" war. That's just an unjust, illegal act.

28.02.2026 07:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 96    ๐Ÿ” 18    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 6    ๐Ÿ“Œ 3
Meta and YouTube on trial accused of designing addictive features into software
YouTube video by CGTN America Meta and YouTube on trial accused of designing addictive features into software

โ€œThose who benefit from proximity to power inherit a duty to confront it when it causes harm.โ€

25.02.2026 06:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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U.S. women's hockey team declines Trump's invitation to the State of the Union President Donald Trump invited the men's and women's hockey teams after both won gold medals in overtime games against Canada.

โœŠ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ

23.02.2026 21:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Zuckerberg grilled in landmark social media trial over teen mental health Meta chief says it has improved identifying underage users but adds โ€˜I always wish we could have gotten there soonerโ€™

From article:

โ€œKelly Stonelake left Meta on medical leave, in February 2023, after she faced harassment and retaliation for raising [child safety] concerns, she says. Stonelake sued Meta last year over the issue, and also alleged a toxic pattern of silencing women.โ€ #meta #socialmedia #zuckerberg

20.02.2026 03:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The executive that helped build Metaโ€™s ad machine is trying to expose it โ€œThe priorities were on winning growth and engagement.โ€

โ€œThereโ€™s not a moral algorithm, thatโ€™s not a thing โ€ฆ Doesnโ€™t eat, doesnโ€™t sleep, doesnโ€™t care,โ€ Boland said.

20.02.2026 03:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Mark Zuckerbergโ€™s Courtroom Reckoning In a Los Angeles courtroom, Mark Zuckerberg tried to combat claims that Meta wants to keep teens chained to its apps, Frannie Block and Maya Sulkin report.

โ€œMy own firsthand experience,โ€ said Kelly Stonelake, a former Meta product marketing director turned whistleblower who left Meta in 2024 and is suing the company, โ€œis that there was a fever-pitch obsession with maximizing time spent.โ€

20.02.2026 03:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Zuckerberg grilled in landmark social media trial over teen mental health Meta chief says it has improved identifying underage users but adds โ€˜I always wish we could have gotten there soonerโ€™

www.theguardian.com/technology/2...

18.02.2026 20:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Mark Zuckerberg Takes the Stand in Los Angeles Social Media Addiction Trial He testified that, โ€œIf a company causes harm, it should reevaluate its values."

โ€œIf a company causes harm, it should reevaluate its valuesโ€ says Mark Zuckerberg today. No, if a company causes harm, they should be stopped. #meta #socialmedia

18.02.2026 22:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The issue isnโ€™t whether a sneaker ad appears next to a pro-suicide post. Itโ€™s whether the media subsidizes the infinite scroll that delivers it.

12.02.2026 22:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The advertising industry has spent years obsessing over brand safetyโ€”ensuring their ad doesnโ€™t appear next to objectionable content. What if the content doesnโ€™t matter because the system itself is harmful?

12.02.2026 22:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Teens lack self regulation because of biology. Big Tech wonโ€™t self regulate because of greed. Whose side are we on? #socialmedia #bigtech #divest

12.02.2026 20:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Instagram's Teen Accounts are Sugar Pills for Parents, not Safety for Kids โ€œWe want parents to feel good about their teens using social media," says Instagram, as they fail to actually keep kids safe.

As #Instagram CEO Adam Mosseri takes the stand in LA today, I hope he has to answer to providing โ€œsolutionsโ€ to kids and parents that are good for Metaโ€™s PR but donโ€™t actually keep kids safe. #socialmedia #bigtech

11.02.2026 21:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The Myth of Brand Safety in Addictive and Harmful Media The LA Social Media trial's evidence proves platforms know that harm to kids is the cost of business, so when will advertisers stop funding it?

The #advertising industry has spent years obsessing over #brandsafety โ€”ensuring their ad doesnโ€™t appear next to objectionable content. What if the content doesnโ€™t matter because the system itself is harmful? #bigtech #media #socialmedia #socialmediamarketing

11.02.2026 20:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Washington weighs new limits on social media algorithms, notifications after teen's overdose In Olympia, Aaron Ping turns grief into activism, supporting legislative efforts to safeguard minors from addictive social media features after son's tragic death.

Grateful to heroes like Aaron Ping who turn their grief into action to protect other kidsโ€”honored to be part of this local news segment with him and @atg.wa.gov who is sponsoring the proposed legislation to protect kids from addictive feeds and all-hours notifications. #socialmedia #bigtech

11.02.2026 05:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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#metaknows Subscribe to Overturned by Kelly Stonelake to follow my case and support my work.

open.substack.com/pub/overturn...

05.02.2026 03:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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One Year Since I Sued Meta: What Weโ€™ve Learned Meta said my claims were legally insufficient. But a year of reporting, testimony, and investigations have shown how child safety concernsโ€”and the women who raised themโ€”were systematically sidelined.

๐ŸŽ‰ONE YEAR AGO TODAY I sued Meta. My case has survived a move to Federal Court, a motion to dismiss, and is now in the discovery stage. ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿป youโ€™re invited to my lawsuitโ€™s birthday party:

03.02.2026 15:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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One Year Since I Sued Meta: What Weโ€™ve Learned Meta said my claims were legally insufficient. But a year of reporting, testimony, and investigations have shown how child safety concernsโ€”and the women who raised themโ€”were systematically sidelined.

ONE YEAR AGO TODAY, I filed a sexual harassment, discrimination, and retaliation lawsuit against Meta. Here's whatโ€™s been revealed by other whistleblowers and investigations about child safety in Horizon and Metaโ€™s systemic misogyny since I filed:
open.substack.com/pub/overturn...
#meta #metaverse

03.02.2026 15:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Meta would like you to think I'm making it all up, but this timeline of accounts and reports from disconnected people and organizations over the past year makes it clear that these assertions aren't coming out of thin air. #metaknows

Read more: open.substack.com/pub/overturn...

03.02.2026 15:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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We discuss leaving #meta, their cult of #coercivecontrol, #autistic burnout, #dbt, parent survivors of #bigtech #socialmedia harms, and so much more.

Listen to my full conversation with Alison Crosthwait on her Substack at alisoncrosthwait.substack.com/p/kelly-ston... or on Apple Podcasts.

02.02.2026 19:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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From Epstein to Zuckerberg: Exploited Kids is the Ultimate Price of Unchecked Patriarchy What if power were treated as a responsibility, not a prize?

My arguments are sounding less and less โ€œout thereโ€ arenโ€™t they? Billionaires and pedophiles operate under the same power mindset, and we are learning how true they often are one and the same.

01.02.2026 16:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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New Free Resource: Social Media x LGBTQ+ Youth I've compiled peer-reviewed research, government data, NGO surveys, investigative reporting, and opinion pieces focused specifically on LGBTQ+ youth and social media

Donโ€™t let Big Techโ€™s tens of millions in lobbying dollars and billions in bribes convince you that they care about LGBTQ+ youth. ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ

01.02.2026 07:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Social Media and LGBTQ+ Youth Compiled by Kelly Stonelake

These changes appear coordinated with the Trump administration's anti-trans executive orders and align with Project 2025's explicit instruction to delete "sexual orientation and gender identity" from official documents. GLAAD's 2025 Social Media Safety Index gave the top 6 apps failing scores.

01.02.2026 04:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Social Media and LGBTQ+ Youth Compiled by Kelly Stonelake

The same companies that have spent tens of millions to convince LGBTQ+ advocacy organizations that regulation is harmful have also unilaterally rolled policies meant to protect these kids. Since January 2025 every major social media platform have rolled back LGBTQ+ protections.

01.02.2026 04:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Social Media and LGBTQ+ Youth Compiled by Kelly Stonelake

Because of these misunderstandings, I've compiled peer-reviewed research, government data, NGO surveys, investigative reporting, and opinion pieces focused specifically on LGBTQ+ youth and social media. Sources were included if they document social mediaโ€™s impact on LGBTQ+ youth (+ and -).

01.02.2026 04:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Social Media and LGBTQ+ Youth Compiled by Kelly Stonelake

There are a lot of misunderstandings about the impact of potential social media legislation on vulnerable groups, especially LGBTQ+ youth. (Keep reading in comments)

01.02.2026 04:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Journalist goes live as FBI arrests her over Minnesota church protest Georgia Fort said that her children were in her home as FBI agents came to take her into custody

Journalist @georgiafortunato.bsky.social has also been taken into custody along with #donlemon

Here she is filming about her experience inside her home as federal agents wait outside.

This is an attack on journalism, and an attack on Black journalists specifically. This is not America.

30.01.2026 19:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Don Lemon arrested by federal authorities after protest at Minnesota church service Attorney General Pam Bondi said in a Friday post on X that Lemon was arrested alongside three others "in connection with the coordinated attack on Cities Church in St. Paul, Minnesota."

Journalist @donlemonofficial.bsky.social arrested during Minneapolis protest.

30.01.2026 15:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Social Mediaโ€™s โ€œTobacco Momentโ€? Landmark Trial on Youth Addiction Begins in LA Zuckerberg faces a jury for the first time as families accuse him of designing addictive products that harm kids

The documents are linked for download ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿป

30.01.2026 01:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Social Mediaโ€™s โ€œTobacco Momentโ€? Landmark Trial on Youth Addiction Begins in LA Zuckerberg faces a jury for the first time as families accuse him of designing addictive products that harm kids

Social Mediaโ€™s โ€œTobacco Momentโ€? Landmark Trial on Youth Addiction Begins in LA #bigtech #meta #socialmedia

30.01.2026 00:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0