I have a husband and a boyfriend. My husband is totally fine with this. I sleep with them both every night.
It's a heating pad that I put on my lower back at night to help the arthritis ache. It's the only kind of boyfriend I have energy for.
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I have a husband and a boyfriend. My husband is totally fine with this. I sleep with them both every night.
It's a heating pad that I put on my lower back at night to help the arthritis ache. It's the only kind of boyfriend I have energy for.
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However, most creators would agree that if you are taking someone's pattern, rewording it and making that one change, it would still be best practice to credit the original creator that inspired your version and potentially link to their pattern. 3/3
23.02.2026 03:01 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0Recipes, patterns, and similar step by step instructions have no copyright. What is copyrighted is *the way in which they are written* rather than the pattern or recipe itself. So technically, as long as you reword how it's written, you are good from the legal standpoint. 2/
23.02.2026 03:01 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0When I was taking classes in college when training to follow my dream art career, before injury ended it, one of the classes was on copyright. And I have since had the following confirmed by a friend who works in copyright law: 1/
23.02.2026 03:01 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0I expected this. The stress of Monday reveals is starting to hit for real. Feeling it in a physical way. It is causing a flare of the chronic gastritis. Not surprising. The biggest triggers for these flares are stress and coffee. Wish I could quit stress like I did daily mochas.
19.02.2026 02:50 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0Found out yesterday that my work wifey is in the hospital with heart failure and kidney failure, that a friend was diagnosed with metastatic endometrial cancer, and a longtime close friend died over the weekend. It was a lot to find out in one day and I may not be doing so well myself right now.
17.02.2026 13:13 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0I landed in the sparsely populated interstellar region about halfway between the Star Trek Fan Community and the Queer Leftist Creative Professionals stellar cluster. I... really can't argue with that. lol
10.02.2026 00:06 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0Looks like I'm in sparsely populated space between the Star Trek Fan Community galaxy and the Queer Leftist Creative Professionals stellar cluster.
09.02.2026 23:51 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0Black text on white background. Post by human aaron (@humanaaron): Behind every great man is the drawer I need to get into why are you even in the kitchen right now
Multiple times a week...
02.02.2026 12:54 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0I, too, saw the post and then became a Scalzi fan, before I'd ever actually read any of his books since I'd spent some years in a heavy high fantasy kick at that time. This blog post led to reading the books, and that led me back to reading sci-fi in general.
02.02.2026 02:08 — 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0Wish I could be there! But there's no way I'd be able to get there since it's too close to end of my shift.
28.01.2026 12:47 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0Oh gosh! Best of luck in the struggle!
28.01.2026 12:41 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0Lived in a little rural farming community. Closest theater was in the nearest city. Used to drive 45-50 minutes each direction to see movies in the theater. Still prefer seeing movies in a theater if I can, but work interferes a lot now.
16.01.2026 23:29 — 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0Having obviously helped very effectively from all the whimpering noises I was making, he then trotted off to his bed by the wall vent to bask in the hot air, look pleased with himself, and purr. He is sure he is The Most Helpful Cat Ever.
05.01.2026 02:36 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0Moo decided he needed to help put away the groceries. He did not announce his presence the way he usually does, so I turned to put something away, and promptly almost tripped over him and pulled a muscle in my back trying to not actually fall or step on him.
05.01.2026 02:36 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0Very windy last night and this morning. "The wind doth blow this night, my love/And a few small drops of rain" suddenly popped in my head from nowhere, and now I must re-read Dilvish the Damned by Roger Zelazny. Hadn't thought about that book in ages.
29.12.2025 12:02 — 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0A small bird with a red head and breast peering in a window through the screen and glass. A few leaves blurred by nearness to the camera lens dangle from the top left of the photo.
A cute little birb that landed on the hotel window ledge and sang me a little song last April when I had to live in a hotel for 2 months while work was being done on the house.
28.12.2025 15:19 — 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 1The biopsy results were back today, and it's good. The mass that was found on imaging is not a malignancy. It's fat necrosis. No breast cancer. Whew!
25.12.2025 02:39 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0I've been following D&D night stories since back on Livejournal. I live for these posts, they are chaotic joyful.
24.12.2025 02:23 — 👍 30 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0Biopsy today. So I'll know in a few days if it's cancer or not.
22.12.2025 12:54 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0Bare trees and a pole for power lines above a dark roof with patches of snow, silhouetted against an early morning sunrise with red-orange highlights just above the roof shading to a smokey blue shade at the top of the photo.
Good morning!
20.12.2025 12:57 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0This will change nothing on my own personal viewing habits. I haven't watched the Oscars since 1990-something, and the change in broadcaster/broadcast style isn't likely to change that.
18.12.2025 00:37 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0Movie you’ve watched more than six times with a gif. Hard mode: no Stars (Wars nor Trek), LOTR, or Marvel, Disney Animated or Pixar.
08.12.2025 12:47 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0"Into the Night" by Benny Mardones. So much cringe.
05.12.2025 12:30 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0There's just something about your boss suddenly sending a message across the entire pod bellowing "OH NO There are boobs on my screen ABORT"
03.12.2025 22:29 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0There are days at work where it's difficult to not start cackling like Witch Hazel from a Bug Bunny cartoon. Today was definitely one of those days.
03.12.2025 22:29 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
California condor
Woodchuck
Greater roadrunner
Snowy egret
Eastern copperhead
As you can see, I was left unsupervised while working on a grocery list with Lady Gaga playing in the background. This is what happens. The Dragon-Husband now has regrets as he has to put up with me singing this at him randomly.
26.11.2025 02:03 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
I want your soy sauce, your finely diced ham
I want the real stuff, baby, I don't want Spam
I want your grub
Grub, grub, grub
I want your grub