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Katie Munday - Autistic and Living the Dream

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ESRC funded PhD student - Exploring Trans and Gender Diverse Autistic Adults Experiences of Health and Social Care Inequity https://linktr.ee/autisticandlivingthedream They / he

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Thanks. These things just seem to take longer and longer these days, but we'll get there.

14.10.2025 15:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Just simply *dip* the children ๐Ÿคฃ

14.10.2025 15:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Hahaha she had the gravedigger say "alright mush" in the Portsmouth one (very Portsmouth phrase!). You wont see the same thing twice.

14.10.2025 13:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
A split screen of Boulder's Gate 3. There are lots of stats on the screen. The left hand side focuses on a a druid which has turned to a Owl Bear. The right hand side shows a half orc cleric wielding a great axe

A split screen of Boulder's Gate 3. There are lots of stats on the screen. The left hand side focuses on a a druid which has turned to a Owl Bear. The right hand side shows a half orc cleric wielding a great axe

The school sickness has finally made its way to us. It's Little Man's first year of school, and we have finally got a school sickness.

A 24-hour bug doesn't mean 24 hours in a #ChronicallyIll household.

Our evenings have been filled with wrestling, Boulders Gate, and feeling sorry for ourselves.

14.10.2025 13:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oh, all the dates are sold out, apart from Bexhill. They have wait lists though.

14.10.2025 12:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Fab! It was really something. I especially liked the scenes with Rosencrantz and Guildenstern. And the grave digger scene. I loved all of it.

14.10.2025 12:53 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

She was brilliant. She apparently doing a tour. So definitely should be your way soon?

13.10.2025 20:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Trans and Autistic: sorting my gender after diagnosis I have always been weird. At school I always played alone at breaktimes, I talked to myself as I explored the sports field and wild areas of the playground. In my pockets I collected interesting thโ€ฆ

Trans and Autistic: Sorting my gender after diagnosis

#InternationalComingOutDay #ComingOutDay #LGBTQIA #FromTheArchives

autisticltd.co.uk/2022/10/18/t...

11.10.2025 17:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1
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Promoting LGBTQIA+ Equity in Education: Insights from a Researcher LGBTQIA+ justice involves recognising and valuing individuals in the community, aiming for equity and allied liberation. The author advocates for visibility and accountability within academic settiโ€ฆ

LGBTQIA+ justice involves recognising and valuing individuals in the community, aimin. It involves visibility *and* accountability within academic settings that confronts transphobia and supports trans+ individuals.
#LGBTQIA #Academic #Researcher #Student autisticltd.co.uk/2025/10/11/p...

11.10.2025 12:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Suzy, a tall, blond haired woman on stage. She is wearing red lipstick, red nails, a plain black jacket, and plain black leather trousers. The stage is sceneless and propless. Black curtains hang at the upstage.

Suzy, a tall, blond haired woman on stage. She is wearing red lipstick, red nails, a plain black jacket, and plain black leather trousers. The stage is sceneless and propless. Black curtains hang at the upstage.

We saw Suzy Izzard in her one person Hamlet, and she was phenomenal!

#Hamlet #Shakespeare #SuzyIzzard

10.10.2025 20:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 14    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1
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What comes under the โ€œNeurodivergentโ€ umbrella? In short, probably more than most of us think! Kassiane Asasumasu, coined the term neurodivergent in the late 1990s / early 2000s, stating that the term included those โ€œWhose neurocognitive fโ€ฆ

Today is the anniversary of my website Autistic and Living the Dream. I share information and personal experiences of neurodivergence, LGBTQIA+ identities, cancer care, research, and so much more.

Here is my most read piece, just in case you missed it!

autisticltd.co.uk/2024/07/15/w...

10.10.2025 15:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 11    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Navigating the Confusing PhD Application Process Navigating the PhD application process is convoluted, heavily reliant on administrative skills, and often leads to mismatched supervisory teams. The experience highlights systemic barriers, includiโ€ฆ

Navigating the confusing PhD application process - The barriers to PhD application for neurodivergent folk

#FromTheArchives #Paperwork #MorePaperWork #Admin #Confusion #PhD #Neurodivergent #AutRes

autisticltd.co.uk/2022/12/31/t...

09.10.2025 07:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

You can't be sad listening to The Aquabats.

07.10.2025 12:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

If all the bots that kept emailing me about how shit my website is *actually* visited my website, my stats would be brilliant ๐Ÿ˜Ž

06.10.2025 17:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Me wearing a white Autistic and Living the Dream t shirt covered in animal stickers: a crocodile, elephant, walrus, zebra, monkey, polar bear, and a killer whale. All the classics.

Me wearing a white Autistic and Living the Dream t shirt covered in animal stickers: a crocodile, elephant, walrus, zebra, monkey, polar bear, and a killer whale. All the classics.

Tell me you have a four year old without telling me you have a four year old...

Picture shows me wearing a white Autistic and Living the Dream t shirt covered in animal stickers: a crocodile, elephant, walrus, zebra, monkey, polar bear, and a killer whale. All the classics.

05.10.2025 15:16 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 11    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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How a Walking Stick Changed My Life with Chronic Illness The author reflects on their journey with a walking stick, stemming from a past conversation about internalized ableism. Using the stick has improved mobility, reduced pain, and fostered support frโ€ฆ

A few months back, I had a conversation with a chronically ill friend that changed the way I go about my every day.

This is part of my ongoing story of using a walking stick :)

autisticltd.co.uk/2025/10/02/h...

02.10.2025 17:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Helping our younger selves The author shares the challenges of being a neurodivergent person who wants to support others like them. They express frustration at not being taken seriously in conversations about neurodivergent โ€ฆ

Helping our younger selves

#FromTheArchives #Young #Disabled #CYP #Neurodivergent

autisticltd.co.uk/2024/05/31/h...

30.09.2025 16:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

A projector with a white background. Different colour text on the slide reads: 

Healthy conversation skills

MAKING EVERY CONTACT COUNT

Healthy Conversation Skills training

Developing people for health and Healthcares


29/09/25 Facilitator: Rob Anderson-Weaver Public Health Portsmouth City Council

A projector with a white background. Different colour text on the slide reads: Healthy conversation skills MAKING EVERY CONTACT COUNT Healthy Conversation Skills training Developing people for health and Healthcares 29/09/25 Facilitator: Rob Anderson-Weaver Public Health Portsmouth City Council

#HealthyConversationSkills is about creating spaces in our everyday practice (and lives!) to talk about what makes us happier and healthier. This also appreciates that there are barriers to happier, healthier lives for too many people.

#SCDTP #ESRC

30.09.2025 14:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Thanks, you too!

28.09.2025 14:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I am keeping my weekends free of work, and that's been really beneficial. More time with my boys :)

If you can't rest, then you might as well get paid!

28.09.2025 14:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

You've been very busy! Great work but make sure to rest too

28.09.2025 14:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ah fab, let me know what you think!

28.09.2025 13:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Crip Kinship, a small blue book with a beautiful cover with colourful flowers and a black person in an orange dress walking with a stick

Crip Kinship, a small blue book with a beautiful cover with colourful flowers and a black person in an orange dress walking with a stick

I started Crip Kinship by Shayda Kafai today. It's been on my shelf for a while.

I'm twenty pages in already and seriously thought about taking it to soft play ๐Ÿ˜†

28.09.2025 08:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 8    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Picture shows me talking at University of Portsmouth on Autistic transgender people's access to health and social care.

Picture shows me talking at University of Portsmouth on Autistic transgender people's access to health and social care.

I have spoken at the Houses of Parliament on cancer service inequity for Disabled people. I am involved in community based research, including my PhD exploring health and social care inequity experienced by trans autistic people.

Feel free to contact me for more info at; autistic_ltd@outlook.com

27.09.2025 21:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I have experience running sessions on the following:

โ™พ๏ธAutistic experiences of mental health
โ™พ๏ธBeing Autistic and OCD
โ™พ๏ธAutistic experiences of substance use
โ™พ๏ธAutistic experiences of gender diversity
โ™พ๏ธAutistic sexuality
โ™พ๏ธHealthcare accessibility
โ™พ๏ธThe intersection of Autistic and LGBTQIA+ identities /2

27.09.2025 21:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Consultancy and training

I consult on autism and ADHD research, accessibility in further education and healthcare, and supporting LGBTQIA+ people and neurodivergent people.

I have published on accessibility in gender identity healthcare, substance use services, and cancer services. /1

27.09.2025 21:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 9    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The importance of Autistic-led training and research The struggle for Autistic trainers is common as non-Autistic individuals often take precedence. Organizations claim to support #AutismAwareness but refuse to pay Autistic individuals for their expeโ€ฆ

The importance of Autistic-led training and research

#AutResearch #Autistic #FromTheArchives

autisticltd.co.uk/2024/04/16/t...

27.09.2025 08:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 9    ๐Ÿ” 3    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I think your blog speaks to the issue of autistic-normativity as well as more general conformity. I really do understand.

26.09.2025 21:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Thanks for sharing. Why would you not have the opportunity to contribute? (Feel free to ignore this question)

26.09.2025 19:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

A neuodivergent, chronically ill trans+ person.

I also *hate* interviews with a passion and so many social norms that I dont understand and hate in equal measure.

Maybe I should do a postdoc...

26.09.2025 19:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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