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lamb of god ๐Ÿ‘ผ nb (he/him) queer ๐ŸŒธ romantic (and filthy) queer content supplier ๐Ÿ› furry ๐Ÿฉ I make vids with my fiancรฉe

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Soft :)

09.08.2025 05:19 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 9    ๐Ÿ” 4    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Messgender (@messgender) / X Messgender (@messgender) / X

Unfortunatelyyyy Iโ€™m back on X because I want to start making proper content again ๐Ÿคช pls follow me there too! Im starting from scratch! x.com/messgender

16.07.2025 02:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Messgender (@messgender) / X Messgender (@messgender) / X

Unfortunatelyyyy Iโ€™m back on X because I want to start making proper content again ๐Ÿคช pls follow me there too! Im starting from scratch! x.com/messgender

16.07.2025 02:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Dahh I'm $40 short on what I need for this doctor's appointment today ;-;

Anyone help a girl get back on hormones?

23.05.2025 13:20 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 4    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 3

True love is when you tell your partner your hips are hurting so they turn you on your side to fuck you

12.03.2025 23:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The other night while I was face down getting fucked I was thinking about how it's a good thing I'm fat because it must be really exciting to get to see all this ass backing up on it

02.03.2025 04:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 11    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Wish I took nudes yesterday bc I looked so good

09.12.2024 03:38 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 15    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Need to meet more horny hotties who like big titty tboys

28.11.2024 04:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 34    ๐Ÿ” 7    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Roxanne Laying on the carpet in a slutty maid uniform. She's lifting up her skirt to reveal Amber's cum all over her cock and tummy, mixed with her own <3

Roxanne Laying on the carpet in a slutty maid uniform. She's lifting up her skirt to reveal Amber's cum all over her cock and tummy, mixed with her own <3

Mommy gave me treats for being a good girl ๐Ÿ’ฆ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ’ฆ

27.11.2024 20:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 194    ๐Ÿ” 29    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Roxanne showing off her ass for the audience with her hard cock between her legs. She's wearing black leg warmers and a black cammy and nothing else.

Roxanne showing off her ass for the audience with her hard cock between her legs. She's wearing black leg warmers and a black cammy and nothing else.

what would you do with all this ๐Ÿ‘

21.11.2024 23:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 271    ๐Ÿ” 49    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 12    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Need to meet more horny hotties who like big titty tboys

28.11.2024 04:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 34    ๐Ÿ” 7    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I had to delete my best content because my friend is moving on from porn but now I'm like hmmm...I gotta actually get up and make new content huh ๐Ÿ˜ญ

28.11.2024 04:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
While I understand on an intellectual level that disability doesnโ€™t equate to ugliness, thereโ€™s a deep emotional part of me that feels that I am now damaged in a way that has left me completely undesirable, sexually. Because I want to confront that feeling, Iโ€™m going to write down everything I think about myself that is hurtful, no matter how untrue. My hope is that by doing this I will be able to dismantle my own arguments and have a little more love for myself, even when it feels hard.

Cruel things I feel about myself.
Response to myself.

The more disabled I become, the more inferior I am to any potential loverโ€™s able-bodied sex partners.
Response: I would never feel this way about a disabled friend or partner. Some of the best sex I've ever had has been with heavily disabled lovers. I love kink because of the options it gives me and the adaptability it encourages - there's so much more to sex than getting railed by a muscle guy or whatever

Because of my disability, I can no longer top. In fact, the only thing I can do is passively lay on my back.
Response: I know that even if I was a brain in a jar I could still top. Topping is a state of mind and choice, not a physical ability that can be lost. I can instruct a partner to hurt themselves, I can psychologically domme them.

While I understand on an intellectual level that disability doesnโ€™t equate to ugliness, thereโ€™s a deep emotional part of me that feels that I am now damaged in a way that has left me completely undesirable, sexually. Because I want to confront that feeling, Iโ€™m going to write down everything I think about myself that is hurtful, no matter how untrue. My hope is that by doing this I will be able to dismantle my own arguments and have a little more love for myself, even when it feels hard. Cruel things I feel about myself. Response to myself. The more disabled I become, the more inferior I am to any potential loverโ€™s able-bodied sex partners. Response: I would never feel this way about a disabled friend or partner. Some of the best sex I've ever had has been with heavily disabled lovers. I love kink because of the options it gives me and the adaptability it encourages - there's so much more to sex than getting railed by a muscle guy or whatever Because of my disability, I can no longer top. In fact, the only thing I can do is passively lay on my back. Response: I know that even if I was a brain in a jar I could still top. Topping is a state of mind and choice, not a physical ability that can be lost. I can instruct a partner to hurt themselves, I can psychologically domme them.

Asking for sex now that Iโ€™m disabled is only selfish, and I have nothing to offer my partner.
Response: Patently false, coming from a girl who loves giving head without getting anything in return, and fucking a partner to orgasm without cumming myself.

I am only able to take, and not give, pleasure.
Response: I can give pleasure by accepting service and I can give pleasure by granting access to my unique and beautiful body.

The only sex I can hope for is sex that is given to me out of pity. I am no longer a sexual equal to anyone able bodied.
Response: There is nothing repulsive about disability and I don't want to have sex with anyone who sees me this way. In fact I'm very familiar with the concept of devotees who would hold my body in higher regard than an able body, and also love work by authors like Samuel Delaney whose love of the abject specifically prioritizes and fetishizes bodies similar to my own.

Sexually, I am inconvenient and clumsy. I am not capable of anything other than awkward and, at best, functional requests for accommodation. I can no longer be spontaneous or inventive.
Response: Spontaneity is not a physical ability. I'm creative and a notable pervert. I know that I can find ways to have sex no matter what my body is doing, often even more interestingly than if my body was completely able.

Asking for sex now that Iโ€™m disabled is only selfish, and I have nothing to offer my partner. Response: Patently false, coming from a girl who loves giving head without getting anything in return, and fucking a partner to orgasm without cumming myself. I am only able to take, and not give, pleasure. Response: I can give pleasure by accepting service and I can give pleasure by granting access to my unique and beautiful body. The only sex I can hope for is sex that is given to me out of pity. I am no longer a sexual equal to anyone able bodied. Response: There is nothing repulsive about disability and I don't want to have sex with anyone who sees me this way. In fact I'm very familiar with the concept of devotees who would hold my body in higher regard than an able body, and also love work by authors like Samuel Delaney whose love of the abject specifically prioritizes and fetishizes bodies similar to my own. Sexually, I am inconvenient and clumsy. I am not capable of anything other than awkward and, at best, functional requests for accommodation. I can no longer be spontaneous or inventive. Response: Spontaneity is not a physical ability. I'm creative and a notable pervert. I know that I can find ways to have sex no matter what my body is doing, often even more interestingly than if my body was completely able.

Even though I am pretty, my prettiness is a source of pity and sadness to anyone who I want to have sex with. As in, โ€œwhat a shame, she could have been attractive.โ€
Response: People love me because of my transness, disability, resilience, creativity. I don't want to fuck anyone who would see me this way in the first place.

The more disabled I become, the worse I smell and the less capable I am of cleaning myself effectively.
Response: This is a thought in the voice of my father and is demonstrably untrue. Plus even if it was true, Samuel Delaney would think it's sexy.

My pain tolerance has become worse because of my chronic pain, and Iโ€™m not even worth hurting anymore, because Iโ€™m not able to take nearly what I used to.
Response: Pain isn't about high scores and I know and love this. If lower pain tolerance is a result of chronic pain, it makes me more responsive to my tops and even more fun to hurt. I love it when a bottom has low pain tolerance. It's not about making me tap out. It's about finding the edge and keeping me there.

The idea of cruising or socializing with new people is laughable. I have nothing to offer other than inconveniences and subpar experiences. If I were to give a blowjob to someone, I would need to set my cane down next to me and it would be a pathetic sight.
Response: I'm an interesting genius who is beautiful and I don't want to fuck anyone who would see me as lesser or gross for not being able and cis. I'm not limiting my options, I have the same options as I (the image cuts off, text continued on next image)

Even though I am pretty, my prettiness is a source of pity and sadness to anyone who I want to have sex with. As in, โ€œwhat a shame, she could have been attractive.โ€ Response: People love me because of my transness, disability, resilience, creativity. I don't want to fuck anyone who would see me this way in the first place. The more disabled I become, the worse I smell and the less capable I am of cleaning myself effectively. Response: This is a thought in the voice of my father and is demonstrably untrue. Plus even if it was true, Samuel Delaney would think it's sexy. My pain tolerance has become worse because of my chronic pain, and Iโ€™m not even worth hurting anymore, because Iโ€™m not able to take nearly what I used to. Response: Pain isn't about high scores and I know and love this. If lower pain tolerance is a result of chronic pain, it makes me more responsive to my tops and even more fun to hurt. I love it when a bottom has low pain tolerance. It's not about making me tap out. It's about finding the edge and keeping me there. The idea of cruising or socializing with new people is laughable. I have nothing to offer other than inconveniences and subpar experiences. If I were to give a blowjob to someone, I would need to set my cane down next to me and it would be a pathetic sight. Response: I'm an interesting genius who is beautiful and I don't want to fuck anyone who would see me as lesser or gross for not being able and cis. I'm not limiting my options, I have the same options as I (the image cuts off, text continued on next image)

(continuation of previous response) always had because I care about shared values in my partners and I wouldn't have stood for this before.

Even seeing my disabled body makes people feel uncomfortable and like they need to accommodate or help me, which isnโ€™t sexy at all.
Response: This is projection because I feel uncomfortable. Nobody I want to fuck would see me this way. If anything I'm interested in people who can pervert and fetishize their discomfort, like I do.

When I push myself and have sex the way I want to, it results in me getting hurt in a way that discourages me or my partner from wanting to try again. What's the point if I'm just going to get hurt?
Response: Kink and sex are about making informed decisions re: risk. It's not different from risking an STI or an extreme bondage/pain scene going wrong. The more I'm honest with myself and my partners about my desire and understanding of whatever risks I'm taking, the better sex I allow myself to have.

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My fantasies have become more violent, centering around the destruction of my body. I keep having an intrusive daydream about getting fucked with a glass bottle, its serrated cap still on, tearing and perforating the inside of my ass until I am bleeding and beyond repair. 
Response: This is hot, keep it up

(continuation of previous response) always had because I care about shared values in my partners and I wouldn't have stood for this before. Even seeing my disabled body makes people feel uncomfortable and like they need to accommodate or help me, which isnโ€™t sexy at all. Response: This is projection because I feel uncomfortable. Nobody I want to fuck would see me this way. If anything I'm interested in people who can pervert and fetishize their discomfort, like I do. When I push myself and have sex the way I want to, it results in me getting hurt in a way that discourages me or my partner from wanting to try again. What's the point if I'm just going to get hurt? Response: Kink and sex are about making informed decisions re: risk. It's not different from risking an STI or an extreme bondage/pain scene going wrong. The more I'm honest with myself and my partners about my desire and understanding of whatever risks I'm taking, the better sex I allow myself to have. (There's a dividing line indicating a section break) My fantasies have become more violent, centering around the destruction of my body. I keep having an intrusive daydream about getting fucked with a glass bottle, its serrated cap still on, tearing and perforating the inside of my ass until I am bleeding and beyond repair. Response: This is hot, keep it up

I've been doing a lot of writing about how my escalating disability is affecting my self-image and sex life. This was originally posted on my patreon.

28.11.2024 01:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 659    ๐Ÿ” 154    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 53    ๐Ÿ“Œ 17
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Repost if you love nature ๐ŸŒณโค๏ธ or girldick

21.08.2023 02:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 34    ๐Ÿ” 8    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Can I replace my toy with your face? ๐Ÿฅบ

19.11.2024 18:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 48    ๐Ÿ” 5    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 4    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1
Grainy, natural light photo of Carta's leg, wearing a chunky black leather Carolina boot, and pressing it into Kit's exposed pussy. He's naked with his legs spread on the hardwood floor. He's beautiful and tattooed and looks so vulnerable.

Grainy, natural light photo of Carta's leg, wearing a chunky black leather Carolina boot, and pressing it into Kit's exposed pussy. He's naked with his legs spread on the hardwood floor. He's beautiful and tattooed and looks so vulnerable.

Closeup photo of Kit's pussy and t-dick connected to the toe of Carta's black leather boot by stands of wetness. It's so hot, fuck

Closeup photo of Kit's pussy and t-dick connected to the toe of Carta's black leather boot by stands of wetness. It's so hot, fuck

Putting my boot in my boy, Kit ๐Ÿฅพ
Photos by Wondra ๐Ÿ“ธ

08.11.2024 15:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 967    ๐Ÿ” 163    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 11    ๐Ÿ“Œ 4
Roxanne posing with her dick out :p

Roxanne posing with her dick out :p

erm.. is this thing on?

18.11.2024 01:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 69    ๐Ÿ” 8    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Luna in a red one piece holding red heart shaped sunglasses to her mouth

Luna in a red one piece holding red heart shaped sunglasses to her mouth

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happy birthday to my incredible and amazing and talented girlfriend, @lunasapphire.bsky.social !!! ๐ŸŽ‚๐ŸŽ‚๐ŸŽ๐Ÿฅณ๐ŸŽ‰

you are my special girl, my everything ๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž

13.11.2024 19:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 53    ๐Ÿ” 6    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The way I immediately knew what movie this was ๐Ÿ˜ฉ๐Ÿ‘Œ so good

18.11.2024 03:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

beyond burgers being โ€œplant-basedโ€ implies that traditional burgers are โ€œmeat-cringeโ€

31.08.2023 14:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1067    ๐Ÿ” 294    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 13    ๐Ÿ“Œ 8

rizz (potential concussion)

01.09.2023 07:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Repost if you love nature ๐ŸŒณโค๏ธ or girldick

21.08.2023 02:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 34    ๐Ÿ” 8    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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I was the fattest person at the sex party ๐Ÿ˜…

19.08.2023 06:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 16    ๐Ÿ” 5    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

bluesky not having a media tab on profiles is the horny guys personal 9/11

03.07.2023 01:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2662    ๐Ÿ” 331    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 82    ๐Ÿ“Œ 39

Omg ily ๐Ÿ’•

28.07.2023 20:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Still getting the hang of this, yโ€™all like tits here? ๐Ÿ’

28.07.2023 20:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 18    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

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