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emma, she/her. detrans NB lesbian, transfeminist. writing about detransition for trans liberation, bodily autonomy, and informed consent. co-host of @crackedivorypod.bsky.social links: dolphindiaries.carrd.co fiction: @mzakharuk.bsky.social

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"Feminism is binarist and enbyphobic. Why are you talking about women? That's bioessentialist." -- Jack Califa

07.12.2025 17:35 — 👍 158    🔁 14    💬 2    📌 1

"Feminism is the most white, bourgeois, elitist, solipsistic, consequentialist, surrealist, Impressionist thing a woman can do. Real racialized prole women don't have thoughts or opinions other than the ones their racialized prole husbands allowed them to have." -- Karla Mao

07.12.2025 17:34 — 👍 151    🔁 11    💬 1    📌 1

REAL FEMINIST QUOTES

"Feminism is when you judge other women. The more harshly you judge a woman, the more feminist it is." -- Simone Butler

07.12.2025 17:30 — 👍 310    🔁 38    💬 8    📌 6
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- top surgery in 10 days
- got rear ended a week after solving the whole car situation and am back at square one
- old car needs to be scrapped
- move-out date got moved to way sooner than planned (this is fine)
- countless interviews & still not hired onto a job

ko-fi.com/d7th

06.12.2025 10:36 — 👍 171    🔁 167    💬 1    📌 0

it's nonsensical

05.12.2025 20:28 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

“Evolutionary biology” *shudders*

04.12.2025 16:42 — 👍 20    🔁 3    💬 4    📌 0

The fear of someone's life being made moderately easier by accident has prevented us from making a lot of peoples lives livable on purpose.

04.12.2025 06:41 — 👍 448    🔁 130    💬 7    📌 2
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🏆 Thank you, Greta, for delivering our @rightlivelihood.org acceptance speech, and for your solidarity and courage.

We accept this award in honour of the courageous ppl of Myanmar, who've stood against the junta with unyielding strength, dignity and immense sacrifice.

Watch on FB 👉🏽 buff.ly/l4Ov7qX

03.12.2025 16:01 — 👍 131    🔁 34    💬 0    📌 0
"Enough ink has been spilled in the quarreling over feminism, now practically over, and perhaps we should say no more about it." -- Simone de Beauvoir, wrongly

"Enough ink has been spilled in the quarreling over feminism, now practically over, and perhaps we should say no more about it." -- Simone de Beauvoir, wrongly

Everyone remembers "one is not born, but rather becomes a woman," but the actual opening of "The Second Sex" -- published in 1949, turned out to be the first book of feminism's second wave -- makes me laugh every time.

04.12.2025 15:42 — 👍 130    🔁 24    💬 1    📌 0

I'm gonna be real, saying anything even vaguely positive about systems in place to prevent access to transition or welfare is shooting yourself in the foot and patting yourself on the back about it

04.12.2025 14:33 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

If they *really* needed it, they'd like it. And who decides what there is to like? What counts as absolutely necessary gender-affirming care measures and what's asking too much? Well it isn't you, that's for sure

04.12.2025 13:39 — 👍 32    🔁 2    💬 0    📌 0

There's not so much a slippery slope as a direct line from saying that ppl who go on to detransition never "needed it" and are frauds, to saying that trans ppl that aren't 100% sure and happy with the care provided to them are maybe kinda sorta frauds themselves, don't you think?

04.12.2025 13:39 — 👍 33    🔁 2    💬 1    📌 0
"Welfare fraud" is similar to the de-transition rate grift. Any time it's ever investigated it turns out only a small handful of people are actually defrauding the system and most people who get it actually need it.

"Welfare fraud" is similar to the de-transition rate grift. Any time it's ever investigated it turns out only a small handful of people are actually defrauding the system and most people who get it actually need it.

I don't wanna spotlight this poster in particular (hence the crop), but this is like everything wrong with the way ppl talk about detransitioners. Yes, sure, detransitioning is tantamount defrauding Big Gender, why not. Yeah they didn't "*really* need it." UNLIKE ME!!

04.12.2025 13:39 — 👍 100    🔁 14    💬 3    📌 0

Before anyone comments, I do understand the article is making a rhetorical point, trying to score a gotcha about a women's organization welcoming men.

The rhetorical point is trash and going "heh, bet you forgot about trans men" is asinine in the light of the UKSC decision, frankly.

03.12.2025 22:38 — 👍 204    🔁 16    💬 3    📌 0

What the actual fuck. How is this your story?!?

03.12.2025 22:31 — 👍 89    🔁 10    💬 2    📌 0

Well isn't this fucking timely.

Shrier's book is a manifesto for the parents' rights movement and the preeminent example of how the abuse of trans children forms the bedrock of modern anti-trans politics, presenting transition as a "bad outcome" to avoid at any cost.

Defend trans kids.

03.12.2025 16:20 — 👍 165    🔁 47    💬 4    📌 0

come listen to me lose my mind and inflict the same on my prisoners-i-mean co-host and guest :)

03.12.2025 16:19 — 👍 21    🔁 3    💬 0    📌 0

"Hey, could you please not spout fundamentalist invective, demean your peers and cite personal beliefs in lieu of sources, this is supposed to be about psychology"

"I AM BEING SILENCED!!!"

It's not a free speech violation to be flunked for not doing the assignment

02.12.2025 10:03 — 👍 254    🔁 47    💬 7    📌 0

Please help Fae!

01.12.2025 09:34 — 👍 7    🔁 4    💬 0    📌 0

Doctors, famous for having no problems giving trans people treatment

28.11.2025 16:05 — 👍 495    🔁 72    💬 10    📌 2
CALLING FOR INTERNATIONAL
SUPPORT!

Severe Flooding in Southern Thailand

Catastrophic floods have swept across 10
southern provinces, affecting over 700,000
households, more than 1.9 million people. Many
communities are facing serious damage,
injuries, and loss of life.

To raise emergency funds, we are selling digital
stickers from our campaign and our allies'
campaigns.
300 THB roughly 9 USD

We will provide donation updates
on Twitter (X) @MilkTeaTHA

All proceeds will go directly to
organizations and groups providing
rescue operations, victim support,
and assistance for evacuees.

คนไทยและผู้มีบัญชี ธนาคารไทยสามารถบรีจาค
ถึงองค์กรต่าง ได้โดยตรง

Thai citizens and anyone with a Thai bank account can donate directly to the organizations.

CALLING FOR INTERNATIONAL SUPPORT! Severe Flooding in Southern Thailand Catastrophic floods have swept across 10 southern provinces, affecting over 700,000 households, more than 1.9 million people. Many communities are facing serious damage, injuries, and loss of life. To raise emergency funds, we are selling digital stickers from our campaign and our allies' campaigns. 300 THB roughly 9 USD We will provide donation updates on Twitter (X) @MilkTeaTHA All proceeds will go directly to organizations and groups providing rescue operations, victim support, and assistance for evacuees. คนไทยและผู้มีบัญชี ธนาคารไทยสามารถบรีจาค ถึงองค์กรต่าง ได้โดยตรง Thai citizens and anyone with a Thai bank account can donate directly to the organizations.

#MilkTeaAlliance Thailand, Solidarity Collective TH & Thai 4 Palestine are running a digital sticker sale to raise funds to support the victims of the flooding in Southern Thailand.

Available here:
friendii.art/milkteatha

26.11.2025 12:08 — 👍 56    🔁 53    💬 2    📌 0

Just 65€ away from the goal! I’m really grateful to everyone! 🧡 Every bit helps to pay this month’s rent. 🙏

27.11.2025 18:12 — 👍 16    🔁 17    💬 0    📌 0

Guys, as a ex call center employee, this is fucking DESPERATION BEHAVIOR.

Pizza and ice cream once may be an entire year's planned discretionary budget for a team, they do NOT value them enough to provide common comfort. If their doing this? Their not just scared, their TERRIFIED.

27.11.2025 02:42 — 👍 3040    🔁 1877    💬 18    📌 10

I wish policy makers could given even half as much thought and compassion to the subject of trans youth and their support.

This is very much worth a read

28.11.2025 08:53 — 👍 21    🔁 4    💬 0    📌 0

Really, really good interview on the issues with restricting transition care, creating adversarial relationships between patients and providers and advocating for trans-hostile standards that harm trans people and detransitioners alike.

28.11.2025 06:35 — 👍 109    🔁 25    💬 0    📌 0

Had a great conversation with Aly and @androgynyfiend.bsky.social about trans healthcare, please check it out!

28.11.2025 09:25 — 👍 19    🔁 2    💬 0    📌 0

Thank you for having me!

28.11.2025 09:24 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

When the media and government move to demonise a minority it’s always noticeable how that minority gets denied the concept of including children or minors, as she was 17 at the time.

25.11.2025 11:26 — 👍 879    🔁 251    💬 9    📌 2

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