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Life is complex. You double back on choices you swore were final and love people longer than you should. It Girl Complex is about the beauty in that state of being. πŸ’–βœ¨ Share advice on #ItGirlsHelp πŸ†˜ Send anonymous submissions to: Itgirlcomplex@gmail.com

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IT GIRLS!!! πŸ—£οΈπŸ—£οΈ

19.05.2025 22:24 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

IT GIRLS!!! πŸ—£οΈπŸ—£οΈ

19.05.2025 22:24 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

At the end of it all, you still win. So move boldly! Everything you desire is already aligning. Favor is on your side. ✨πŸ”₯πŸ’«

18.05.2025 13:48 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 5    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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a man in a white shirt and black vest is dancing in front of a white brick wall . ALT: a man in a white shirt and black vest is dancing in front of a white brick wall .
18.05.2025 21:05 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

At the end of it all, you still win. So move boldly! Everything you desire is already aligning. Favor is on your side. ✨πŸ”₯πŸ’«

18.05.2025 13:48 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 5    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

This chapter of my life is about truth, not performance.✨ I’m choosing authenticity, especially when it’s uncomfortable.πŸͺž 🌸

13.05.2025 13:58 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

This chapter of my life is about truth, not performance.✨ I’m choosing authenticity, especially when it’s uncomfortable.πŸͺž 🌸

13.05.2025 13:58 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

yes youre fake, why you sending ss anyways?? apologize to her and then end the friendship🀷🏾

12.05.2025 18:34 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I think if you in the chat defending her, then i don’t think she would block you. Whether you said it or someone else, you can’t call yourself her friend if you didn’t defend her. I do think you should tell the rest about what you did and her reaction though.

12.05.2025 14:33 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
12.05.2025 18:30 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ†˜ #ItGirlsHelp πŸ†˜

I accidentally sent my friend a screenshot of a group chat where we were talking about her. She blocked me instantly. I didn’t say the worst stuff, but now the group’s a mess. Should I reach out & apologize or let the friendship die quietly? Am I fake for even being in the chat?

12.05.2025 13:57 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 2

πŸ†˜ #ItGirlsHelp πŸ†˜

I accidentally sent my friend a screenshot of a group chat where we were talking about her. She blocked me instantly. I didn’t say the worst stuff, but now the group’s a mess. Should I reach out & apologize or let the friendship die quietly? Am I fake for even being in the chat?

12.05.2025 13:57 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 2

How To: Practicing Self-Care Like an It Girl πŸ’…πŸ½πŸ§–πŸ½β€β™€οΈπŸŒΈ (a thread)

25.03.2025 18:46 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 2

I am not for everyone, and that’s my power. The right rooms, the right eyes, & the right opportunity will recognize me at the right time. πŸ’βœ¨πŸŒ·

03.05.2025 15:25 β€” πŸ‘ 19    πŸ” 11    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I am not for everyone, and that’s my power. The right rooms, the right eyes, & the right opportunity will recognize me at the right time. πŸ’βœ¨πŸŒ·

03.05.2025 15:25 β€” πŸ‘ 19    πŸ” 11    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Stop repeating yourself.
They heard you the first time.
They will not change.

21.04.2025 21:22 β€” πŸ‘ 30    πŸ” 8    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Stop repeating yourself.
They heard you the first time.
They will not change.

21.04.2025 21:22 β€” πŸ‘ 30    πŸ” 8    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

There’s a version of you that’s already living the life you dream about… she’s not waiting for permission, she’s not doubting her worth, and she’s definitely not playing small πŸ’…βœ¨

She’s just waiting on you to show up.

Start now. Start messy. Start scared. Just don’t stay stuck πŸ’–

20.04.2025 12:31 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

There’s a version of you that’s already living the life you dream about… she’s not waiting for permission, she’s not doubting her worth, and she’s definitely not playing small πŸ’…βœ¨

She’s just waiting on you to show up.

Start now. Start messy. Start scared. Just don’t stay stuck πŸ’–

20.04.2025 12:31 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I give myself grace to grow. Consistency doesn’t mean being perfect. It means showing up for myself, again and again. My journey isn’t always linear, but I keep going. Every small step counts, and I’m proud of how far I’ve come.🌷πŸͺžβœ¨

17.04.2025 16:40 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I give myself grace to grow. Consistency doesn’t mean being perfect. It means showing up for myself, again and again. My journey isn’t always linear, but I keep going. Every small step counts, and I’m proud of how far I’ve come.🌷πŸͺžβœ¨

17.04.2025 16:40 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ₯ΉπŸ₯ΉπŸ₯Ή

11.04.2025 16:27 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

"You are a breath of fresh air, light in a dark room, the calm in the middle of the storm, a ball of contagious laughter, an undeniably safe space. I'm better for knowing you"

10.04.2025 14:18 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

my voice therapist saying β€œKelsey…you made it” after i told her about my background in theatre and opera school and what i do for a living now 😭😭😭

10.04.2025 18:15 β€” πŸ‘ 25    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

my friend said this to me yesterday

10.04.2025 16:36 β€” πŸ‘ 18    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

β€œI have no doubt I’ll be working for you for one day” from an executive I was interviewing with at the time.

10.04.2025 13:55 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

That my bubbly personality is refreshing and I light up a room when I enter

10.04.2025 13:51 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

IT GIRLS, LET’S BRAG A LITTLE! βœ¨πŸ’…πŸ½

What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received? The one that made you feel so good about yourself.

Drop it in the comments! πŸ’¬
Brag on yourself! You deserve it. πŸ‘‘

10.04.2025 13:44 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 6

IT GIRLS, LET’S BRAG A LITTLE! βœ¨πŸ’…πŸ½

What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received? The one that made you feel so good about yourself.

Drop it in the comments! πŸ’¬
Brag on yourself! You deserve it. πŸ‘‘

10.04.2025 13:44 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 6