no kids means no kids โบ๏ธ not 1 kid, not a foster kid or stepkid, not i only have my kids on the weekends, not but my kid is in college/out of the house, it means NO kids at all
09.07.2025 15:42 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0@mochabeans.bsky.social
36 / black / childfree
no kids means no kids โบ๏ธ not 1 kid, not a foster kid or stepkid, not i only have my kids on the weekends, not but my kid is in college/out of the house, it means NO kids at all
09.07.2025 15:42 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0praise be to god i won't be cursed with the children of a man like this ๐๐พ
07.07.2025 22:13 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0popping in to say: what a beautiful month/year/life to be #childfree ๐โโ๏ธ
26.06.2025 19:08 โ ๐ 4 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0So many of us wouldโve removed our uteri by now if the medical system was on our side and not the side of hypothetical children we donโt want.
25.06.2025 16:57 โ ๐ 73 ๐ 26 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 11again! antinatalist and promortalist are not the same thing, that dude was just a suicidal loser, we do not claim him โ๐พ
22.05.2025 21:52 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0no one will save us but us ๐คท๐พโโ๏ธ nothing wrong with taking a chance, i would rather regret not having kids than regret having them or being kept alive by wires to be an incubator
18.05.2025 23:40 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0idk how many more stories need to be told before the message is clear! the day after the election, i called my gyno for a bisalp consult, i was not waiting around for 'things to get better' or risking my state banning that procedure or birth control
18.05.2025 23:31 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0some of us have! tubes gone, hysterectomy is next on the agenda, i am not waiting to see 'what happens' ๐ ๐พโโ๏ธ
16.05.2025 19:38 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0they're doing THAT to pregnant women even in death and you're still choosing to have kids?? good luck!!!
16.05.2025 16:12 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0i can trust none of us are running up to kids and saying we are 'free' of them lol some of us aren't even ever around kids long enough for any more than a polite wave or a smile
13.05.2025 19:19 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0freeing yourself from religion is one of the best things you can do for yourself as a person of color
13.05.2025 18:27 โ ๐ 109 ๐ 17 ๐ฌ 6 ๐ 1that would be....every day! lol
12.05.2025 22:29 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0www.youtube.com/shorts/AJ0e_... my fave
12.05.2025 17:36 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0if you are not filling today (or any day) with things that bring you joy and peace, i simply do not have time for you. life is entirely too short for you to be this miserable. โ๐พ
11.05.2025 22:01 โ ๐ 3 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0On days like these, kids like you should be burning in my chocolate factory
11.05.2025 02:20 โ ๐ 391 ๐ 129 ๐ฌ 3 ๐ 3saying โoh right, thatโs why i donโt want kids of my ownโ as i slide in earplugs
10.05.2025 13:11 โ ๐ 33 ๐ 4 ๐ฌ 5 ๐ 0i was pleasantly surprised lol also he doesn't want kids either so yeah easy decision ๐๐
09.05.2025 23:16 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0that's how i was before i met my bf on a damn video game lol i didn't even try for years because it sounded like WORK and also i was tired of getting the usual you sure you don't want kids? lol yes i am sure, dummy
09.05.2025 23:09 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0i can't imagine trying to navigate dating nowadays if i was still in my 20s, i probably would've went to a convent to avoid the trouble ๐
09.05.2025 23:03 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0i agree!!! because tbh if you are comfortable having sex with the person, you should be comfortable talking about whether or not you want kids, let's not pretend like that's 'rushing' anything lol
09.05.2025 20:15 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0โ ๏ธ if you are not explicitly talking to your significant other about how you want or do not want kids, you are doing them and yourself a huge disservice โ ๏ธ
09.05.2025 19:49 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 1 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0every day i feel blessed ๐๐พ
09.05.2025 19:36 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Iโm sorry, but if youโre a man, why are you not dressed like these guys
01.04.2025 20:37 โ ๐ 37 ๐ 5 ๐ฌ 7 ๐ 0haven't read these books in quite some time but this makes me so happy that anita has remained without children, all my other book series in my lifetime have failed me lol
08.05.2025 22:00 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0if i see them throw something out their window while driving i lay on my horn honestly fuck those people โบ๏ธ
07.05.2025 17:27 โ ๐ 3 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0i refuse to let bluesky doom artists tell me what i should be paying attention to or care about lmao the met gala has no bearing on your life or wellbeing so either keep paying your bills and keep it pushing or perish, you choose!
07.05.2025 02:17 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0good luck with recovery! once you heal up, you'll feel so much better with that thing GONE lol, trust me!!! ๐
06.05.2025 18:30 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0doing nothing is taking a side imo but what do i know!
06.05.2025 18:26 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0i still cannot believe that people decided NOT voting for anyone at all was better than a vote for kamala lmao good job, y'all sure showed them
06.05.2025 17:00 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0she simply does not MISS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
06.05.2025 02:04 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0