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@mochabeans.bsky.social

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no kids means no kids โ˜บ๏ธ not 1 kid, not a foster kid or stepkid, not i only have my kids on the weekends, not but my kid is in college/out of the house, it means NO kids at all

09.07.2025 15:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

praise be to god i won't be cursed with the children of a man like this ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพ

07.07.2025 22:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

popping in to say: what a beautiful month/year/life to be #childfree ๐Ÿ™‚โ€โ†•๏ธ

26.06.2025 19:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

So many of us wouldโ€™ve removed our uteri by now if the medical system was on our side and not the side of hypothetical children we donโ€™t want.

25.06.2025 16:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 73    ๐Ÿ” 26    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 11

again! antinatalist and promortalist are not the same thing, that dude was just a suicidal loser, we do not claim him โœ‹๐Ÿพ

22.05.2025 21:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

no one will save us but us ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿพโ€โ™€๏ธ nothing wrong with taking a chance, i would rather regret not having kids than regret having them or being kept alive by wires to be an incubator

18.05.2025 23:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

idk how many more stories need to be told before the message is clear! the day after the election, i called my gyno for a bisalp consult, i was not waiting around for 'things to get better' or risking my state banning that procedure or birth control

18.05.2025 23:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

some of us have! tubes gone, hysterectomy is next on the agenda, i am not waiting to see 'what happens' ๐Ÿ™…๐Ÿพโ€โ™€๏ธ

16.05.2025 19:38 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

they're doing THAT to pregnant women even in death and you're still choosing to have kids?? good luck!!!

16.05.2025 16:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

i can trust none of us are running up to kids and saying we are 'free' of them lol some of us aren't even ever around kids long enough for any more than a polite wave or a smile

13.05.2025 19:19 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

freeing yourself from religion is one of the best things you can do for yourself as a person of color

13.05.2025 18:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 109    ๐Ÿ” 17    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 6    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

that would be....every day! lol

12.05.2025 22:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Ted Cruz eats batteries.
YouTube video by Carter Vail Ted Cruz eats batteries.

www.youtube.com/shorts/AJ0e_... my fave

12.05.2025 17:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

if you are not filling today (or any day) with things that bring you joy and peace, i simply do not have time for you. life is entirely too short for you to be this miserable. โœ‹๐Ÿพ

11.05.2025 22:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

On days like these, kids like you should be burning in my chocolate factory

11.05.2025 02:20 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 391    ๐Ÿ” 129    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 3

saying โ€œoh right, thatโ€™s why i donโ€™t want kids of my ownโ€ as i slide in earplugs

10.05.2025 13:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 33    ๐Ÿ” 4    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 5    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

i was pleasantly surprised lol also he doesn't want kids either so yeah easy decision ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ’•

09.05.2025 23:16 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

that's how i was before i met my bf on a damn video game lol i didn't even try for years because it sounded like WORK and also i was tired of getting the usual you sure you don't want kids? lol yes i am sure, dummy

09.05.2025 23:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

i can't imagine trying to navigate dating nowadays if i was still in my 20s, i probably would've went to a convent to avoid the trouble ๐Ÿ˜‚

09.05.2025 23:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

i agree!!! because tbh if you are comfortable having sex with the person, you should be comfortable talking about whether or not you want kids, let's not pretend like that's 'rushing' anything lol

09.05.2025 20:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

โš ๏ธ if you are not explicitly talking to your significant other about how you want or do not want kids, you are doing them and yourself a huge disservice โš ๏ธ

09.05.2025 19:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

every day i feel blessed ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ

09.05.2025 19:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Iโ€™m sorry, but if youโ€™re a man, why are you not dressed like these guys

01.04.2025 20:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 37    ๐Ÿ” 5    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 7    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

haven't read these books in quite some time but this makes me so happy that anita has remained without children, all my other book series in my lifetime have failed me lol

08.05.2025 22:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

if i see them throw something out their window while driving i lay on my horn honestly fuck those people โ˜บ๏ธ

07.05.2025 17:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

i refuse to let bluesky doom artists tell me what i should be paying attention to or care about lmao the met gala has no bearing on your life or wellbeing so either keep paying your bills and keep it pushing or perish, you choose!

07.05.2025 02:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

good luck with recovery! once you heal up, you'll feel so much better with that thing GONE lol, trust me!!! ๐Ÿ’š

06.05.2025 18:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

doing nothing is taking a side imo but what do i know!

06.05.2025 18:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

i still cannot believe that people decided NOT voting for anyone at all was better than a vote for kamala lmao good job, y'all sure showed them

06.05.2025 17:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

she simply does not MISS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

06.05.2025 02:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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