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A biweekly podcast where Conrad and Joe react to LGBTQ+ film from every country and every decade, complete with nuanced discussion of queer representation and issues.

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Early Access: Baby (2024) | The Queer Gaze Patreon Get more from The Queer Gaze Patreon on Patreon

Today on Patreon: The second to last entry in @conrad-esq.bsky.social and @joelipsett.bsky.social's 'Sex Work and Pornography' theme is Brazilian director Marcelo Caetano's BABY (2024)

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A young Black man laying on a bed on his left side, looking at his phone. He wears a red floral shirt, dark grey Lars and white sneakers

A young Black man laying on a bed on his left side, looking at his phone. He wears a red floral shirt, dark grey Lars and white sneakers

Tomorrow on Patreon: @joelipsett.bsky.social and @conrad-esq.bsky.social return for another discussion in our 'Sex Work and Pornography' theme with Brazilian film, BABY (2024)

04.03.2026 22:38 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Alan Cumming, Bowen Yang Help Launch Necessary Foundation to Support LGBTQ Filmmakers "There is, in this moment, enormous political pressure to delete queer people from American media, and that includes young filmmakers who are being shut out of the industry,” said executive director A...

Bring on the queer cinema!!!

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Conrad explains his problem with the intimate scenes in Mikko MΓ€kelΓ€'s sex work drama Sebastian (2024) in our latest Patreon bonus episode: www.patreon.com/cw/TheQueerG... #gayfilm #queermovies #sebastian

02.03.2026 16:13 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Sebastian: Bonus Content | The Queer Gaze Patreon Get more from The Queer Gaze Patreon on Patreon

Meanwhile on Patreon, we discuss what the sex scenes do - or don't - add to the narrative.

Plus: why we wish the film had leaned into Max's relationship with Nicholas; Conrad's issue with the Brussel portion of the movie; and what the hotel interaction says about sex work, class, and privilege.

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Sebastian (2024) Podcast Episode Β· The Queer Gaze Β· February 26 Β· 23m

Conrad and Joe check out SEBASTIAN, the sophomore effort of Mikko MΓ€kelΓ€, which concerns a writer, Max (Ruaridh Mollica), who uses his sex work as fodder for his "fiction" writing.

It's an intriguing concept, though the film occasionally loses focus on what it wants to explore.

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Sebastian (2024) seems worried about being a queer Harold and Maude. Our latest episode explores Mikko MΓ€kelΓ€'s sex work drama Sebastian (2024). Out now for Patrons! www.patreon.com/cw/TheQueerG... #queerfilm #gaymovies #filmtok

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Early Access: Sebastian (2024) | The Queer Gaze Patreon Get more from The Queer Gaze Patreon on Patreon

Today on Patreon: @conrad-esq.bsky.social and @joelipsett.bsky.social continue our theme on sex work and pornography with 2024 film, SEBASTIAN, about an escort struggling with internalized stigma.

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A shirtless college student sitting cross legged on a bed in front of his laptop, a lamp behind him casting off yellow light

A shirtless college student sitting cross legged on a bed in front of his laptop, a lamp behind him casting off yellow light

Tomorrow on Patreon: @joelipsett.bsky.social and @conrad-esq.bsky.social tackle the latest film from Mikko MΓ€kelΓ€, SEBASTIAN, about an aspiring writer who escorts on the side for inspiration.

Subscribe here to listen: www.patreon.com/cw/TheQueerG...

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The sex scenes in #MysteriousSkin are a fine example of visual storytelling through physical intimacy: good, bad and ugly. We discuss each one in our Patreon bonus episode: www.patreon.com/cw/TheQueerG...

#queerfilm #podcast #greggaraki #josephgoldenrabbit

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Mysterious Skin: Bonus Content | The Queer Gaze Patreon Get more from The Queer Gaze Patreon on Patreon

Ready for more? @conrad-esq.bsky.social and @joelipsett.bsky.social discuss the sex scenes in the film and how they reflect Neil's evolution.

Plus: Joe's fears about how audiences could interpret the AIDS scene; Brian's bedroom encounter with Avalyn, and what the parents don't know.

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Mysterious Skin (2005) Podcast Episode Β· The Queer Gaze Β· 2026-02-12 Β· 24m

The next entry in our 'Sex Work and Pornography' theme is Gregg Araki's devastating adaptation of MYSTERIOUS SKIN.

Starring a grown-up Joseph Gordon Levitt and a pre-Oscar winning director Brady Corbet, the film examines two very different responses to childhood sexual abuse (C/W).

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Mysterious Skin | 4K Remaster Trailer UHD | Strand Releasing
YouTube video by Strand Releasing Mysterious Skin | 4K Remaster Trailer UHD | Strand Releasing

Tomorrow on the pod: @conrad-esq.bsky.social and @joelipsett.bsky.social tackle Gregg Araki's 2005 masterpiece MYSTERIOUS SKIN.
C/W: Sexual assault, pedophilia

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We're looking at Gregg Araki's potent drama 'Mysterious Skin' in our latest episode. Content warning for abuse themes.

Out now on Patreon! www.patreon.com/thequeergaze #queermovies #greggaraki #mysteriousskin

09.02.2026 16:14 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Early Access: Mysterious Skin (2005) | The Queer Gaze Patreon Get more from The Queer Gaze Patreon on Patreon

Today on Patreon: The next entry in @conrad-esq.bsky.social and @joelipsett.bsky.social 's 'Sex Work and Pornography' theme is Gregg Araki's masterful 2005 adaptation of Scott Heim's devastating novel MYSTERIOUS SKIN.

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Tomorrow on Patreon: @conrad-esq.bsky.social and @joelipsett.bsky.social continue our β€˜Sex Work & pornography’ theme with a look at Gregg Araki’s MYSTERIOUS SKIN

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Do you sex scenes in #EasternBoys leave you cold like Joe?

Our steamy Patreon bonus is out now: www.patreon.com/cw/TheQueerG...

#gayfilm #lgbtmovie #queermovies

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Eastern Boys: Bonus Content | The Queer Gaze Patreon Get more from The Queer Gaze Patreon on Patreon

On Patreon, @conrad-esq.bsky.social and Joe dig into the evolution of Eastern Boys' sex scenes, its fantasy ending, the unnecessary chapters, and why hotel worker Chelsea is the film's MVP.

Plus: Russian subtitles, the film's message about sex work and immigration, and changes Hollywood would make.

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Eastern Boys (2013) Podcast Episode Β· The Queer Gaze Β· 2026-01-29 Β· 25m

It's a Conrad pick as our theme on 'Sex Work and Pornography' continues with Robin Campillo’s genre hybrid, EASTERN BOYS (2013).

The film tackles several uncomfortable subjects, including a significant age gap between client and sex worker, an incredibly tense home invasion-style "party"

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No, we will not be covering this show
(It’s not that kind of show πŸ†)

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Two men stare at each other’s lips

Two men stare at each other’s lips

Tomorrow: @conrad-esq.bsky.social and @joelipsett.bsky.social tackle the shifting genres and uncomfortable beats in #easternboys

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I mentioned a five star film last week and this is it.

Keep TELL ME EVERYTHING on your radar because it is *exquisite*

26.01.2026 16:43 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Tell Me Everything (2026) Podcast Episode Β· The Queer Gaze Β· Ep15 Bonus Β· 16m

Conrad and Joe check out Moshe Rosenthal's exquisite 80s throwback, which just played Sundance.

Featuring incredible performances across the board, this 5 star film about a tumultuous father/son relationship feels extremely Pedro Almodovar-coded. It's one to watch when it becomes available!

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Eastern Boys (2013) is an unsettling mix of romance and thriller, with an ever-present threat of violence. Our latest episode is out now on Patreon: www.patreon.com/cw/TheQueerG...

#easternboys #queerfilm #gayfilm #lgbtqia

26.01.2026 16:13 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Early Access: Eastern Boys (2013) | The Queer Gaze Patreon Get more from The Queer Gaze Patreon on Patreon

Today on Patreon: @conrad-esq.bsky.social and @joelipsett.bsky.social discuss EASTERN BOYS (2013) which has a tendency to zig when you think it will zag

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Keeping our eyes on these…

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A dark haired ten boy stares down an older man in a blue collared shirt as a shirtless man watches, biting his lip

A dark haired ten boy stares down an older man in a blue collared shirt as a shirtless man watches, biting his lip

Tomorrow on Patreon: @conrad-esq.bsky.social and @joelipsett.bsky.social's second foray into 'Sex Work and Pornography' is Robin Campillo's unconventional 2013 genre-mash EASTERN BOYS.

Subscribe here for early access: www.patreon.com/cw/TheQueerG...

21.01.2026 22:37 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1
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β€˜Red, White & Royal Wedding’: Stars Nicholas Galitzine & Taylor Zakhar PerezΒ Reveal Who Is Getting Hitched As β€˜RWRB’ Sequel Starts Filming 'Red, White & Royal Wedding': Stars Nicholas Galitzine and Taylor Zakhar PerezΒ reveal who is getting hitched as 'RWRB' starts production for Amazon.

'Red, White & Royal Wedding': Stars Nicholas Galitzine and Taylor Zakhar PerezΒ reveal who is getting hitched as 'RWRB' starts production for Amazon.

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Sean Paul Lockhart wasn't thrilled with the depiction of his life in #kingcobra

Our Patreon bonus episode is out now: www.patreon.com/cw/TheQueerG...

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