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@okramom.bsky.social

uncool mom ⚑️punjabi / canadian / londoner⚑️ socialist ⚑️ decolonisefest ⚑️ she/her

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REAL HOPE. REAL CHANGE.
CHILD POVERTY IS A POLITICAL CHOICE
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REAL HOPE. REAL CHANGE. CHILD POVERTY IS A POLITICAL CHOICE Green Party Promoted by Chris Williams on behalf of The Green Party, both at PO Box 78066, London SE16 9GQ

Almost 100% of children in 73 neighbourhoods in England are living in income-deprived families.

Labour could choose to lift hundreds of thousands of children out of poverty immediately by scrapping the two-child benefit cap.

Child poverty is a political choice.

31.10.2025 14:02 β€” πŸ‘ 210    πŸ” 105    πŸ’¬ 6    πŸ“Œ 3

There’s something really disturbing to me about the way the media, and indeed her own mother, continue to talk about Brianna Ghey - a constant focus on publicising her mental health, as if she’d committed suicide, and never focusing on the transphobia that actually led to her horrific murder.

04.05.2025 12:59 β€” πŸ‘ 960    πŸ” 257    πŸ’¬ 7    πŸ“Œ 19

did they stab her to death with a phone Esther?

27.10.2025 11:23 β€” πŸ‘ 97    πŸ” 17    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 1

??? we aren't talking about child abuse/the law, we're talking about kinship structures and how relatives are seen/named in the many different cultures in the US. you said technically it's his cousin, but technically it's not in *his* culture. there's no law in the US around who you can call auntie

28.10.2025 20:33 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

the only time i've "used" it is when google pops up something on a search but a lot of the time it's bs and totally inaccurate

28.10.2025 20:26 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Israel launches strikes on Gaza, claiming Hamas violated truce Israel accused Hamas of firing on Israeli troops and returning remains that belonged to a hostage whose body the military had already partially recovered.

"Israel has continuously carried out low-intensity strikes since Oct. 11, the first full day after ceasefire came into effect β€” killing more than 90 people, according to Gaza Health Ministry." "Low intensity" apparently means killing "only" 90 people. www.washingtonpost.com/world/2025/1...

28.10.2025 19:31 β€” πŸ‘ 66    πŸ” 43    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

but his culture is still indian, so it's not "technically wrong"

28.10.2025 20:18 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

i think this is most cultures, including most white cultures. whoever is writing these headlines is completely out of touch with how things work in most communities

28.10.2025 20:17 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

wait til these people find out how many punjabis don't even know the real names of a lot of their aunts/uncles. so many are 100% of the time referred to by nicknames that sound nothing like their given names

28.10.2025 20:15 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

the thing is, in indian culture that person *is* technically an aunt and not a cousin because that's how our kinship structures work. so to us, calling parents' cousins "cousin" isn't technically correct. they're our aunts/uncles and their kids are our cousins

28.10.2025 20:10 β€” πŸ‘ 14    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

me too! that post just made me go back and listen and watch some of the old videos...such a gem!

28.10.2025 20:03 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Just Like We Never Said Goodbye (SOPHIE cover, 80s edition) | Deerful
YouTube video by Deerful Just Like We Never Said Goodbye (SOPHIE cover, 80s edition) | Deerful

youtu.be/V-ipC5QszRA

28.10.2025 17:14 β€” πŸ‘ 14    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

Yeah it’s definitely not limited to non western cultures, it’s mostly just self-isolating snobs who don’t have meaningful relationships that don’t get it

28.10.2025 16:14 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I honestly think it’s a narrow section of individualist conservative white American society that don’t do this. I have so many aunts and cousins and idk how or if I’m related to a lot of them but I still see them as family

28.10.2025 16:02 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

This is literally how kinship structures work in a lot of cultures. Just because it doesn’t correspond with specific white American ones doesn’t make it a lie ffs

28.10.2025 15:48 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

how does she still have a column. truly embarrassing

26.10.2025 10:13 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

son has officially declared that his fave sport is cricket. looks like i finally need to try and understand it now πŸ’€

24.10.2025 20:05 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Pretty sure all Jewish people aren’t violent football hooligans, Ed

19.10.2025 12:11 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

They have completely and utterly bludgeoned any idea of public truth - we will probably live with the negative consequences of this for the rest of our days

17.10.2025 11:09 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Saying *WEST MIDLANDS POLICE* are an islamist organisation is fucking circus clown bullshit. But now, Starmer is feeding the narrative that they're acting outside of the government and Starmer himself can't control them.

He's achieved this within half of a 24hr news cycle.

17.10.2025 10:13 β€” πŸ‘ 80    πŸ” 16    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 0
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14.10.2025 16:07 β€” πŸ‘ 109    πŸ” 16    πŸ’¬ 12    πŸ“Œ 3
How Genocide Happened

How Genocide Happened

Front page of Scottish newspaper The National today.

13.10.2025 12:32 β€” πŸ‘ 9158    πŸ” 3601    πŸ’¬ 45    πŸ“Œ 87

this is so cute! <3

12.10.2025 21:50 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

this sweet man πŸ’” i saw this video so many times at the start of the genocide. his love and gentleness towards this tiny baby ❀️

12.10.2025 21:48 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Bad person seeing a good person: what the fuck, why is she faking? Is it just to piss me off?

10.10.2025 21:45 β€” πŸ‘ 282    πŸ” 28    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Longer Days with Venus in the Afternoon, by Charm Wrestle 6 track album

Two EPs, thats 12 songs, of Charm Wrestle here for you. Free of charge if you like that kind of thing.

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22.07.2025 12:56 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 2

i listen to you and you are really good!

10.10.2025 20:01 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Once again racism and racism apologia is ripping apart a community I’m part of and it’s literally the same playbook they use every damn time.

This is my kid’s school and it’s unsettling knowing who the racist parents are and how many 😬

10.10.2025 10:16 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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what do you even say. what do you even say.

09.10.2025 17:00 β€” πŸ‘ 418    πŸ” 109    πŸ’¬ 11    πŸ“Œ 28

Lmao feel this. We ended up putting new floors in over top and no regrets (though I’m sure some people will want to kill us but we tried to live with them for over a decade…)

09.10.2025 11:34 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

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