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Basically, people need different things, and we as bystanders are usually not equipped to be good at handling every individual issue presented. As an ally, don't set yourself up for failure by thinking you can do it all. Please take the time to learn about bystander intervention.

Also, deescalation is a skill, and there's a reason why a lot of people in political action/protesting take classes on it.

Find out what kind of bystander intervention *you* can do and practice it so that you can help out in a situation when you least expect it.
righttobe.org/guides/bysta...

This is also why I believe more in the power of organizations, set-out rules, and political action than single individuals, because organizations (ideally) have been vetted, and that's harder to do for individuals, which is how I've seen "Con Moms" at anime cons do more harm than good for strangers.

I'd vouch for several of the people in the Splatoon scene who have volunteered to be people's buddy if they need someone in light of politics in some states. And I would also absolutely get my Karen on for people.

But we should recognize that no one person can be every person's safe ally.

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As someone who's seen pronouncements from bad actors about how they're safe (re: people can go to them at events if they're in danger), I want to address that while several Riptide attendees I know have great intentions, this is not a great stopgap measure on the whole.

When you start a convention, pick a name, search for it to make sure it’s not used (nobody needs ANOTHER “ChibiCon”), and then stick with one name and spelling.

If you’re referring to the con as YattaCon, Yattacon, Yatta Con, Yatta-Con, AND Yatta Comic Con, nobody will know which is right.

As always, celebrate today, back to the work tomorrow. The best way you can help us right now is by reaching out to your favorite non 6/6 convention and asking them to update their policy and procedures! We'll update in future if & when we have capacity for more volunteers. Take care 'til next time!

It may feel like what we do is "pointless" in a world with so much suffering, but as a very astute colleague reminded us: right now, policy is THE tool we have in the convention community, so we're gonna use it.
Plus, 1K is a significant milestone for us. We're proud of the work we do!

We're happy to announce that with our latest update, we're up to 1,024 convention policies evaluated and 62 6/6 evaluations. For the first time, we are at 6% of conventions at 6/6!!

... unfortunately a 6/6 means "doing the bare minimum," so let's keep trying ✍️

cosplayer-ssn.org/rp/home.php

Screenshot of the Con-Polizone PDF featured on the description of the panel about convention policies with the Cosplayer Survivor Support Network (CSSN) highlighted in red

AHHHHHH

MOM HOLY FUCK PART 2??!??!?!!!!!!!

I was catching up on internet connection and Guidebook and researching tomorrow's panel and WE ARE MENTIONED IN THEIR PDF???!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT!!!! @cosplayer-ssn.bsky.social THIS IS SO COOL 😭🙏

Oh, goodness gracious 😂 That's a new internal hall of shame for us. Good luck to 'em, though!

@cosplayer-ssn.bsky.social You'll get a kick out of this...
Some small con (which shall remain nameless) just tried submitting their 2025 convention to us with a link to cosplayer-ssn.org/rp/home.php as their anti-harassment policy. 🤦‍♂️
That's not how this works! 🤣

FYI: You don’t need to staff a convention to send in updates. We take them from everyone!

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Thanks for reading and we hope this can help just a little if you don't know where to start with providing support for your friends and family during these times and in the future! Please prioritize safety above all. We believe you, and we NEED you.

O: OFFER

This is a continuation of the above; always offer multiple options the person can choose between. It can help them feel empowered and feel that they are in control. It doesn't matter if they don't choose your choices; let them guide you, but provide them the torch to light the way.

TT: THINK THROUGH

Guide the person to imagine next steps they can take in the next few minutes, hour, rest of the day. They will know best what sounds right. Give them options to choose between if they're having trouble coming up with something; "do you want to grab food or get your phone charger?"

U: UNLOAD

Let the person tell you everything they're feeling, unfiltered. Understand their feelings might not match what you think a survivor or person in crisis might be thinking or feeling. Be extremely nonjudgmental. Validate what they're saying.

R: REFLECT

When the person tells you their situation or concerns, reflect their words back to them rather than coming up with your own metaphors or conclusions. Mirror posture/body language if appropriate. Observe if they look glazed-over. Give them your full attention.

A: ASK

Ask the person what support they need in the moment. You can ask to clarify context if you don't know the situaton. Some people might not be able to verbalize or are not comfortable sharing details; don't press them. Today... probably safe to assume it's about the election results.

N: NAVIGATE

Help the person get to a physically safe place. Today that can mean their car, a closet with a door, a private bathroom, your living room couch. Wherever feels "safe" for them, they decide. At a con, a neutral space is wise, and for them it might not be within the con or hotel space.

A crunchy screenshot of the logo of the anime "Naruto." Reads copyright 2002 Masashi Kishimoto.

This is based on the SSVVPP method by NOVA, flavored for y'all nerds so you can remember! We're going to use a method we call "NARUTTO" .... because the most important thing about someone who survived trauma? "Believe it!" You're not a judge, so always start by telling someone you believe them.

Disclaimers first: we trained for many situations even though as a group we are aimed toward survivors of sexual violence.

Also, you can't help others unless or until you are able to take on their trauma. If you aren't ready, there's no shame in that, but don't try to overreach if you're unable.

If you live in the U.S., you may be feeling hopeless right now. But you also might be feeling like you want to do something to help, but don't know how. Let's do a brief thread on PEER CRISIS INTERVENTION from our certified victim advocates.

Screenshot of the event description page for "cosplay weekend chicago," the main thing is that I've circled in red the url for the event in the description, which is "animecon.org" an immediate tell-tale of a kopf con.

Hey Chicago cosplayers (and con-goers), I saw "cosplay weekend" pop up in my recommended events and then as soon as I saw the url, knew it was a Kopf con. Do not go to this event and do not go to other kopf events!! There's a good reason they're not allowed to table at other cons

Essential Pages for Every Convention Web Site | FanCons.com Articles: After looking at literally every convention web site, I've come across some good ideas and some bad ideas. I've put together a list of essential pages you'll want to include on your con's si...

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Essential Pages for Every Convention Web Site

After looking at literally every convention web site, @pdelahanty.bsky.social has put together a list of essential pages you'll want to include on your con's site as well as a few things you should avoid.

(Disclaimers continued) A 6/6 score indicates the BARE MINIMUM that a convention can do. It is not an endorsement for the convention nor do we provide endorsements. Your mileage with the policy may vary. If you had issues at a con or how its policy was applied, please reach out to the con directly.

.... And that about wraps it up! If you're a convention that updated to receive a 6/6, we sincerely thank you.

We'd love to see even more ways we can all support targets, survivors, and victims. Let's create an environment that discourages and weeds out harassment altogether!

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Note: Having a way to anonymously report and/or report outside of con hours is ideal. Cons should also be responsible for their online communities and offer a way to report individuals who are violating the policy in online space in a way that will align with consequences in real life.

(6 continued) It can also be hard to know whether the staff member you "find" to make the report to will be trauma-informed or in any way know appropriate crisis intervention. Removing barriers to targets' willingness and/or desire to report can result in more accurate and faster action.

6. Is there a way to create a report online/without having to "find staff" physically?
Reason: Accessibility is at the heart of all we do. We envision a worst-case scenario where someone is unable to communicate what happened face-to-face due to the stigma of reporting or due to disability, etc. -