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US Home of Caffeinated Nerds Clusters Subject matter expert: Prevention & Disengagement/Rehabilitation violence-based extremism "No darkness lasts forever. And even there, there are stars."~Ursula K. Le Guin https://patreon.com/shannonfoleymartinez?utm

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Here's the GoFundMe of the woman he assaulted:

gofund.me/2bf7697e9

29.10.2025 17:15 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1
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When your hometown makes the national news...

Too bad no one gives a shit when sonnenrad stickers show up around town and you try to tell them "We have a Nazi issue we need to deal with y'all"

Hope this dickwad gets whatever community justice that will wipe that smirk off his face

29.10.2025 17:06 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm happy to write lists of someone wants/needs alt text for the images of my lists

27.10.2025 15:33 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Trying to use up your EBT before your card won't work on Nov 1?

Here's how I divided things up & planned in Northeast GA to stock the most expensive and most shelf stable ingredients. I'll buy beans, milk, and fresh fruit/veggies, bread as needed.

Don't forget to be realistic about storage spaceπŸ’“

27.10.2025 15:32 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

☺️

16.10.2025 15:21 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Hey Peter Magnuson 😁

15.10.2025 20:03 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Hi guys! πŸ€—

15.10.2025 19:26 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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I feel targetedπŸ‘€

11.10.2025 12:12 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

If this stuff would end up on the news it would absolutely motivate voters. Plenty of people who don't give a shit about politics would absolutely give af about this.

09.10.2025 18:52 β€” πŸ‘ 2367    πŸ” 911    πŸ’¬ 72    πŸ“Œ 17
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"I remember who profits when I lose hope"

09.10.2025 11:57 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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It's absolutely terror-fying this spooky season

08.10.2025 22:21 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Go Birds

08.10.2025 12:29 β€” πŸ‘ 19    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Two colorful birds deciding to go poop on Nazis. Text reads "Come on bestie, we're gonna go shit on Nazis"

Two colorful birds deciding to go poop on Nazis. Text reads "Come on bestie, we're gonna go shit on Nazis"

Come on, bestie!

04.10.2025 18:37 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Jordan Davis!!!!πŸ¦…πŸ”₯πŸ’šπŸ–€

21.09.2025 20:08 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

So where we at with civil war now that the (alleged) shooter was a rightwing-way-too-online dickbag?

We still on? Or we postponing til a later date?

12.09.2025 20:38 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

What an absolutely wild NFL week 1!!

09.09.2025 12:28 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

You should listen to Heavy Foot by Mon Rovia

05.09.2025 17:58 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Meh. I just am trying to be as fully present as I can, one day at a time.πŸ€·πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ

05.09.2025 17:18 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It feels so freeing. Like I don't care if anyone "understands" me or whatever. Those journals were all so full of pain and sadness and this never ending quest to be good enough.

I can be the villain in other people's stories about me. I don't care anymore. It's all okay.

05.09.2025 17:11 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

This week, I did something that feels so absolutely cathartic: I threw away all of my old journals.

I don't even journal anymore. I stopped being my own self-help project, and started feeling & expressing my feelings fully. I live in alignment. No more self-abandoment. I live in gratitude.

05.09.2025 17:01 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

WTF Jalen Carter!?!

05.09.2025 00:29 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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How do you respond?

04.09.2025 14:45 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

I have all together except $400

Even like $5 helps.

He's 33 months clean &sober. His teenage daughter just moved in with us and just started highschool. He is so deserving of help. He's worked so hard. He just got off probation after 20 years.

28.08.2025 23:30 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

I am so fucking exhausted

The irony is that this is the amount of his lost wages since he got snatched up after a traffic stop for not wearing a helmet on a dirt bike.

28.08.2025 19:52 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

cash.app/$hannonMarti...

28.08.2025 19:47 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

venmo.com/code?user_id...

28.08.2025 19:47 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Anyone have $3500 I can borrow to bond my dude out of jail?

I hate our justice system. No bonding company will touch this because it's a "failure to appear" for court he was never notified of, for charges from 2022 he didn't know he had

It's been almost two weeks to get this far. I am so exhausted

28.08.2025 19:47 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 4

🦦🦦🦦

14.08.2025 19:41 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I have the most people reaching out to me concerned for their loved ones that I've ever had in all the years & years I've been doing disengagement work. A huge uptick

And I don't even do any media or have a website or get any work in schools or anything anymore.

We're in serious trouble.

11.08.2025 18:58 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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The amount of people who are just a-ok with my abuser is nauseating and has really made me rethink my ideas about community and places where I genuinely belong.

There are no "two sides" to abuse. There's the cycle of abuse. By an abuser. That's it.

05.08.2025 17:00 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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