new post out, throwing my hat into the ring of dating discourse
aella.substack.com/p/the-diffic...
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new post out, throwing my hat into the ring of dating discourse
aella.substack.com/p/the-diffic...
i think my breasts are too large for me to be autistic
12.04.2025 03:15 ā š 56 š 1 š¬ 5 š 0e.g. the bdsm vs vanilla divide is big and bimodal and very very strong, particularly among women.
I also suspect there's a similar thing around mate guarding spectrum in males - is it hot or not hot when a woman fucks anything that moves?
im increasingly coming to believe that there's different spectrums in sexual desire that are just as defining, deep, and unmalleable as being gay or straight
08.03.2025 01:36 ā š 64 š 1 š¬ 4 š 1why for the love of god is there no simple, easy service to just crosspost anything i post on twitter to bksy
23.02.2025 23:03 ā š 90 š 2 š¬ 13 š 1ty!
www.weird-mirror.com has a lot of my open ones if u haven't taken them already
new blog post - on the methods onlyfans uses to gain so many customers, and the techniques it uses to keep them (link below)
26.01.2025 03:17 ā š 63 š 5 š¬ 5 š 0they do pretty well in the surveys i build!
16.01.2025 01:22 ā š 1 š 0 š¬ 1 š 0this is why i don't include consent forms. If I actually need someone to consent to something real then I'll just include a single line - "Is it ok if I do x with the data?" yes/no
16.01.2025 01:21 ā š 32 š 1 š¬ 3 š 0male (not cis) means anybody who's amab, but doesn't identify as a man. This generally includes transwomen and amab enbies
30.11.2024 02:05 ā š 4 š 0 š¬ 1 š 0I am the source. it's from the Big Kink Survey, which i write about a lot on my blog.
28.11.2024 05:47 ā š 5 š 0 š¬ 1 š 0interestingly, a woman's economic views predicts how many people she's had sex with more than her social views do
28.11.2024 02:27 ā š 89 š 2 š¬ 13 š 4How many people have rape fetishes? This is the % of people who were into rape (and other types of dominance/submission) in my survey.
640,000 people, demographics are young and western
ok i surveyed a bunch of drug users to find out what drug is the best. here's the results for the best ratings
aella.substack.com/p/the-best-p...
where tf can i get pure lidocaine hcl solution on 48 hours notice
23.11.2024 01:16 ā š 36 š 0 š¬ 7 š 1but there's no polls??? what am i supposed to do
21.11.2024 22:06 ā š 128 š 1 š¬ 16 š 0am i cancelled here
20.11.2024 22:09 ā š 133 š 1 š¬ 42 š 3Looks like you can block people on bluesky now, so I'm checking it out.
How's the scene? What's it lookin like?