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@kraehenherz.bsky.social

An exhausted collection of special interests. Bisexual disaster. Mixed, still unapologetically Black. Your local non-binary trickster dryad. Might accidentally say clever things. Sometimes nsfw. Not your fetish. (they/them) writes in en/de

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Joy wearing a black tank top, glasses and a high ponytail looking skeptical.

Joy wearing a black tank top, glasses and a high ponytail looking skeptical.

POV: disappointed you aren’t helping with the baking.

07.12.2025 13:53 β€” πŸ‘ 23    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
That is so not true, but I see that you believe that!

07.12.2025 17:57 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Something that doesn’t exist in English I think. It’s a
Cookie dough with a nut spread on top and chocolate drizzled over it. It’s cut in triangular shapes.

It’s so good.

07.12.2025 17:56 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

True but we also say Gesundheit as in β€œI have no idea what you just said”

07.12.2025 17:54 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Good morning, Kayla! πŸ–€

07.12.2025 16:06 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Ok Brooke. You get a pass. Valid excuse 😁🫢🏾

07.12.2025 16:06 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Ebensooooo!

07.12.2025 14:13 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Gesundheit!

07.12.2025 14:09 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

That would be very helpful indeed!

07.12.2025 14:08 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Joy wearing a black tank top, glasses and a high ponytail looking skeptical.

Joy wearing a black tank top, glasses and a high ponytail looking skeptical.

POV: disappointed you aren’t helping with the baking.

07.12.2025 13:53 β€” πŸ‘ 23    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 0

I’m chuckling and agreeing

07.12.2025 13:34 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

That is not my intention that’s why I said ”people are queer”. You’re not a straight couple but I prefer applying this to people rather than relationship dynamics for said reasons.

07.12.2025 12:28 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

And I think the question isn’t always: who’s right, but: did we learn something and now are better equipped to face marginalization.

07.12.2025 12:00 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It’s fine to disagree with me. If your experience is different- good for you! I think we can agree that with a disturbing number of relationships there obviously are harmful dynamics catering to cis men. And I would love to not mask that and have people able to address that as easily as possible.

07.12.2025 11:57 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

And my whole point is that it potentially *does* harm.

07.12.2025 11:47 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Questioning a labels use isn’t preventing anyone from labeling their relationship however it pleases them. But as I said, if an effect of that is that it masks power imbalance and prevents people from addressing that I think it’s fair to look at that. And I’m a person affected by this.

07.12.2025 11:47 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Maybe I don’t know, sit with that. Cause for example, if someone said β€œwe should question the power dynamics that trans women experience in relationships with people who aren’t trans women”, it wouldn’t be my first thought to tell them to not assume my relationship dynamic.

07.12.2025 11:35 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I did not. I used the word β€˜often’ as to my experience that’s the case. And I said to question the power dynamics. That this makes you uncomfortable says a lot about you :)

07.12.2025 11:32 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

You are!!! I’m stunned every time your face appears on my timeline.

07.12.2025 08:39 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Chips (crisps) are a valid breakfast, right? Right!

07.12.2025 08:39 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Pretty Reina is pretty!

07.12.2025 08:35 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

7 days until your next period.
Cool cool so we enter the pmdd phase soon, right when I’m going to a wedding and visit the family. What could possibly go wrong, right?

07.12.2025 00:27 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ₯° slightly grumpy pretty guy with christmas lights :)

It’s the newest art installation. The people are stoked

06.12.2025 23:48 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I should be good if I can get about ~150 to pay my health insurance bill

anything helps ❀️

06.12.2025 22:26 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 7    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Me and who?
Either direction is fine 😏

06.12.2025 22:23 β€” πŸ‘ 14    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I hope so too. 😌

06.12.2025 21:09 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Jo…

06.12.2025 20:59 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Queer hottie that needs to be kissed and told hot little filthy things.

06.12.2025 20:47 β€” πŸ‘ 15    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

Smooth 😁🫢🏾

06.12.2025 19:42 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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