Q: hi, what do you miss most in life?
Waking up without any aches and pains.
18.10.2025 02:43 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0@emcarlsen.bsky.social
GenX (52) trans woman trying to stay sane in the midst of madness. Landback. Abolish prisons. Defy your granfalloons. I post my wins. evanerys on discord DMs open to trans people. Everyone else - ask first. PFP: Eva portrait pic
Q: hi, what do you miss most in life?
Waking up without any aches and pains.
18.10.2025 02:43 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Q: what has been the easiest part of transition for you?
Caution - ymmv: Adapting to female social groups, including groups in which I was the only trans woman. This has felt natural and ordinary for me, and it has made everything else easier.
18.10.2025 02:40 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Q: who do you like?
Vague question. I like my friends. I like the people I'm dating.
18.10.2025 02:27 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0If I had explain American history in one sentence, I could do worse than "John Brown was hung for treason, but Robert E. Lee was not."
16.10.2025 23:29 β π 14886 π 5293 π¬ 113 π 99Q: who's the first person you think of in the morning?
Right now, it's my friend Samantha. It's generally either the friend in the most emotional need or, the person I'm most attracted to.
18.10.2025 00:25 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Q: who's missing you?
Probably my friend Robin. I haven't seen her in a couple months.
18.10.2025 00:19 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Eva with blue hair in a pink "trantifa" shirt and black skirt
Tell the truth: does this outfit make me look like a violent nihilistic extremist?
17.10.2025 21:43 β π 7 π 0 π¬ 3 π 0Whoa. That's huge.
17.10.2025 01:50 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Cue sad trombone noise
15.10.2025 00:47 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Tuxedo tabby sleeping
Zane and McQ should meet.
14.10.2025 04:44 β π 5 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Right? No wonder I'm being harassed.
14.10.2025 03:23 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Wow. I just finished the LGBTQ (sic) module of the diversity course, and holy f**k. It referred to "transwomen", "transmen" and included fetishitic transvestites in the transgender community. No mention of asexuality or pansexuality in the course. And that's just the headlines.
14.10.2025 02:06 β π 3 π 0 π¬ 2 π 0Omfg. I'm taking tge online diversity training course at work, and tgey actually said "it's important to not tell a black joke in front of African Americans" as though it's okay to ridicule minorities in their absence.
13.10.2025 23:08 β π 3 π 0 π¬ 1 π 1Went and saw I'm With Her tonight. Great show.
10.10.2025 06:18 β π 3 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0If my penis were its own sentient independent being aware of my surgical plans, then it might consider me a violent nihilistic extremist.
I can't fathom how any other being could reach such a conclusion about me.
Is there room for two of those in one shop?
09.10.2025 04:47 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0That's a little less slutty than I was hoping for.
09.10.2025 04:41 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0If you'll take me out on Halloween, I'll let you pick my costume.
09.10.2025 04:33 β π 4 π 1 π¬ 1 π 0I must be the exception that proves the rule. I've only had the car for 4 months though, not enough time for the garbage pile to accumulate.
09.10.2025 04:08 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Every "independent" you gain by throwing trans people under the bus will cost you 2 people on the left whose politics are about human rights.
Just educate centrists and ridicule fascists and you get both groups to vote Democrat.
New Cuck Times strikes again.
08.10.2025 04:50 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0This is the truth. As a trans woman who occasionally cruises for dick on Grindr, it can be wild.
08.10.2025 04:30 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0...misgendering directed at me (at this point) is deliberate and malicious. I've accepted I get read as female, even when up close & talking.
So even though I have to go in tomorrow (my day off) and file a harassment/hostile work environment complaint, there is a silver lining on the whole affair.
...has been telling me that I pass ever since we met. While I still see myself as clocky, the fact that 2 cis coworkers were equally as shocked to hear I've been getting misgendered leads me to confront the probability that my gender presentation has advanced at least far enough that any...
06.10.2025 06:20 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0...
She also routinely and carefully misgenders me; careful to only do it while we're alone with dementia patients. As I was conveying this story to 2 separate coworkers, both seemed shocked that anyone would misgender me. Likewise, a local trans friend (one of the 3 not on bsky) was shocked. She...
I said "Fuck you" to a lead at work on Friday night. She really deserved it; she was bullying me after I'd been assaulted by 2 separate residents & refusing to give me space to wind down my own cptsd related hypervigilant state. & she was lying to our boss about it. But this isn't about that.
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AIs are not persons, and ergo not entitled to human rights. They should be tightly controlled. I don't understand how any informed, sentient person can disagree with that stance.
05.10.2025 19:34 β π 3 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Getting ratioed this hard will only make your emotional problems worse. You should try therapy instead of posting all your dumb thoughts.
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