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Dr. Brenda Bethman

@brendabethman.bsky.social

Feminist, knitter, foodie, cat lover, retired to Portugal πŸ‡΅πŸ‡Ή she/her/hers

214 Followers  |  186 Following  |  72 Posts  |  Joined: 29.07.2023  |  2.2189

Latest posts by brendabethman.bsky.social on Bluesky

I Am An AI Hater I am an AI hater. This is considered rude, but I do not care, because I am a hater.

I considered writing a long carefully constructed argument laying out the harms and limitations of AI, but instead I wrote about being a hater. Only humans can be haters.

27.08.2025 17:04 β€” πŸ‘ 3588    πŸ” 1341    πŸ’¬ 129    πŸ“Œ 359

Installing ceiling fans in just about every room was one of the first things we did when we moved into this house (the Portuguese generally don’t use them, I don’t understand why not) - and last summer at least we almost never had to run the splits.

10.08.2025 12:14 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Feel free to send me a DM. Happy to chat!

27.07.2025 21:47 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Retired and moved to Portugal a year ago - it was a TON of work to apply for the visa, sell the house, pack, prepare and move the cats, ship our stuff, etc., but totally worth it. Happy to answer any question that might be helpful to you (bearing in mind that UK and EU visas are quite different).

27.07.2025 11:55 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Bummer, but fingers crossed for next summer for sure.

28.06.2025 07:36 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Speaking of trips, are you still headed my way this summer?

26.06.2025 15:02 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

My droopy hydrangea would like you to move to Portugal πŸ˜‚

09.06.2025 13:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

This is the way!!

07.05.2025 20:00 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Look, I married someone who cooks so I wouldn’t have to learn. I’m really good at eating, though!

07.05.2025 19:58 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

I’ll let you know! I lived on the other side of the state, but there are similarities to KC, even if both cities would deny it.

01.04.2025 20:33 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Started listening to this this morning and it’s wonderful! Almost makes me miss Missouri. Almost 🀣

01.04.2025 14:03 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Pink, green, and white colorwork yoke with iPad playing The Last American Road Trip

Pink, green, and white colorwork yoke with iPad playing The Last American Road Trip

Knitting while listening to the new @sarahkendzior.bsky.social book feels appropriate

01.04.2025 08:00 β€” πŸ‘ 46    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 0
Rainbow in a grey sky

Rainbow in a grey sky

Looking down the hill into the foggy valley

Looking down the hill into the foggy valley

Clearing skies and mountain views

Clearing skies and mountain views

It’s been raining for a while, but yesterday’s rainbow and a bit of sun today reminded me why I love living on our mountain. #portugal

23.03.2025 22:06 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

As soon as the rain stops and the seafood shack opens up, we are going!

23.03.2025 21:58 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Nice! I was just thinking I need to drive to the coast soon.

23.03.2025 21:54 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Sophie, our spoiled princess dilute calico, does this, especially when the people are upstairs and she needs someone to come downstairs to feed her before she perishes. She also likes to stand at the bottom of the stairs and scream until someone notices.

18.03.2025 06:33 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

We moved 10 months ago after close to 2 years of planning and only JUST got our residency cards (which then triggers a whole other set of tasks). And don’t get me started on trying to learn Portuguese (so hard!). Definitely happy to be here, but ooof, it was not easy.

13.03.2025 21:44 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Not having read them yet, I can’t really say. My plan is to go in chronological order. Someone else might have another suggestion, though.

13.03.2025 07:52 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Today would be yet another good day for university presidents to loudly, collectively, & publicly start defending our institutions & industry. The silence is deafening & frankly, incomprehensible. What exactly are you waiting for? How many Columbias, Maines, & Johns Hopkins will it take?

12.03.2025 02:06 β€” πŸ‘ 2358    πŸ” 574    πŸ’¬ 47    πŸ“Œ 30

Yep. No SXSW in B/CS obviously, but man, I hated the weather outside of March.

11.03.2025 20:54 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I always said March is the best month in Texas. The only one, really.

11.03.2025 20:41 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I didn’t get the hype for small scarves until I moved to a place where the winter isn’t terribly cold. A lot of my big shawls are too much, but a little something around the neck is just perfect. Also, let people knit what they want! Who cares?

11.03.2025 17:32 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Oh, I know! I’ve followed Sarah and read her shorter pieces for years. Just couldn’t bring myself to read the books until now.

11.03.2025 17:12 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Pile of three books by Sarah Kendzior.

Pile of three books by Sarah Kendzior.

I had to leave the U.S. before I felt able to read these. But now I’m ready to dig in. @sarahkendzior.bsky.social

11.03.2025 16:00 β€” πŸ‘ 64    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 0

*Bust,* February was a bust, damn autocorrect.

05.03.2025 09:49 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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No, 150-Year-Olds Aren’t Collecting Social Security Benefits Elon Musk claims to have found rampant fraud in the Social Security Administration. There’s a much simpler explanation.

Despite what President Trump said tonight, social security is not, in fact, rife with fraud. @wired.com’s
@davidgilbert.bsky.social broke it down last month.

www.wired.com/story/elon-m...

05.03.2025 03:24 β€” πŸ‘ 913    πŸ” 303    πŸ’¬ 9    πŸ“Œ 7
Screenshot of Apple workout summaries

Screenshot of Apple workout summaries

Can’t do much all the bad shit happening, but I can try to get more exercise. Might help, might not, but can’t hurt, I suppose. February was a busy, March is looking better.

05.03.2025 09:47 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Ooooh, when? Where? You better come visit us! And yes, I’m very glad we made the move.

27.02.2025 15:08 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Come visit me! Portugal has high vaccination rates for everything.

27.02.2025 07:37 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

That’s great! I’ve never been to Mexico City, definitely on my list, though :)

27.02.2025 07:29 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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