Oontz Oontz

Helllll yeah

🙃

Sending good energy friend 💛

Everyone’s very sweet and supportive thank you for everyone who engaged with me and help me collect my thoughts a bit

I don’t think that’s fair to say across the board even if some situations DO play out like this one

Some prize indeed..

Thank you for the kind words friend :)

So true

I only wanted the opinions of people who would engage in good faith

Thank you for this!!

Having known poly people of varying ages and experience throughout my life
this is sort of what I thought/ took away from their experiences, like it’s about expanding upon bountiful love not like “here’s my other boyfriend so you don’t feel pressure to be adequate”

That’s the vibe and it’s frustrating to me that he thinks he’s being reasonable and fair

He does not hence why I’m talking about this here..

Also -almost- no one here knows me irl

Thankfully I know the answers to all of these questions and we’ve dug into all of it, we spent 4 hours talking about it last night

I mean I don’t wanna just take that much of your time and attention on a whim but any and all thoughts are welcome friend 😌

I agree it is fraught this these two conversations are happening in tandem

You may be on to something but Im trying to extend him the same grace he is hopefully extending me

Well he wants me to have a new job that makes enough money that I can move in with him and split bills, like he wants a traditional partnership in that sense

Well one argument is that it gives me more wiggle room to do things at my own pace while he feels less trapped waiting for me to make progress

I’ve been moving towards applying for grad school but it’s been hard getting the prof refs bc I graduated in 2020

Well he says he wants to be able to root for me and help me with career moves but I’ve had decision paralysis on which direction to head in

Also to be clear I still live with my family, so his bills are his own but also the lack of independence on my part is understandably not sexy

It does feel strange, on one hand they are adjacent conversations so maybe it’s worth getting them over with in one big blow out, but on the other hand it feels like a thinly veiled ultimatum

It does feel strange, on one hand they are adjacent conversations so maybe it’s worth getting them over with in one big blow out, but on the other hand it feels like a thinly veiled ultimatum

Well he rightfully wants me to be able to split bills where w my current income I can’t offer much

Some of the guys doing showtime on the train are so fucking not

Like I kinda wish you WOULD kick me in the face 😮‍💨

Elder lady asked a young guy in a suit if she could sit by the window of the train car next to him and he told her there was gum on the seat…

Like okay nice of you to point that out now offer her your seat you goon!!! This old lady shouldn’t have to stand 🙄

It’s a good body 🥵

I ordered these for the store and everyone was like “well you better sell them then”

Jokes on them bc it completely sold out within the first day

Hung w a cool guy and we fucked twice in-between chilling

We were chatting while I was getting ready to head out and he was like “you’re quick”

Me: “oh yeah my fault I could stand to take my time but also in my defense you’re really hot”

Him: “what no I mean like witty”

I wanna DIE LMFKAHDHDJE

You can’t tell me Cecilia aka Isis isn’t devouring

Like looook at the material

Haven’t played Dislyte in over 2 years but but checked back in to see who some of the new baddies were cus it this game has ONE thing it’s S tier character design

I wanted more ngl

They just reprinted old variant covers 😢