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Spencer aka The Trans Dad

@thetransdad.bsky.social

Content creator aka The Trans Dad. Advocating for and advising Trans people for over 30 years on everything from legal rights to relationships. Politics geek, ex-lawyer, Personal Coach, Writer, Public Speaker ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ https://linktr.ee/SpencerBergstedt

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Erin Reed in Erin In The Morning Breaking News: SCOTUS is taking up sports ban cases. This means that the court will determine if equal protection applies to transgender status or to trans people on the basis of sex. This will be a h...

open.substack.com/chat/posts/4...

04.07.2025 17:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

โ€œGay ideologyโ€ usually refers to gay people being visible, expressing our identities, forming communities, fighting for our rights, etc. Now โ€œgender ideologyโ€ evokes similar in relation to trans folk. And when LGBT people become an โ€œideology,โ€ our humanity degrades and we become targets for erasure.

01.12.2024 22:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 263    ๐Ÿ” 78    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 4    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Heather Cox Richardson: Democracy Isnโ€™t Dead. Yet. | The Focus Group Podcast
YouTube video by The Bulwark Heather Cox Richardson: Democracy Isnโ€™t Dead. Yet. | The Focus Group Podcast

A great, optimistic episode with @hcrichardson.bsky.social!

youtube.com/watch?v=UHK7...

28.06.2025 14:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 272    ๐Ÿ” 83    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 22    ๐Ÿ“Œ 13
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The Call is Coming From Inside the House Today, we have yet another awful opinion piece in the NYT.

My latest piece on Substack. open.substack.com/pub/thetrans...

26.06.2025 19:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This is the list of Rape Culture apologists. It includes Cuomo stans and literally people sent to attack me and other survivors for years. Iโ€™ve tried to include as many high profile abusers as I can. It is bipartisan on bad people supporting abusers. Block block block.
bsky.app/profile/did:...

28.02.2025 18:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1571    ๐Ÿ” 426    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 60    ๐Ÿ“Œ 24
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Get more from TheTransDad on Patreon Writing 2 books, creating content, podcast, & more

Big huge thanks to all my supporters on Patreon. Your continued support helps me and my family survive.

www.patreon.com/TheTransDad?...

25.06.2025 05:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Spencer Bergstedt on Substack Last week, Congresswoman Sarah McBride gave an interview to Ezra Klein at the New York Times. If youโ€™ve been paying attention, you know that the NYT itโ€™s been the force of so much anti-trans narrativ...

My latest Substack piece re Rep. McBride and the failing strategy of incrementalism.

substack.com/@thetransdad...

21.06.2025 21:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The Court Got Your Anti-Abortion Bullsh*t In My Trans Care Two bad tastes that taste like shit.

Hey, look, I wrote a thing, and Wonkette published it!

It's a brief bit about how anti-abortion jurisprudence ended up determining the shape of the Skrmetti decision.

Have fun! This is fun, right? This is what we read for fun?

21.06.2025 20:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 28    ๐Ÿ” 7    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 3

McBride and her ilk think that taking an incremental approach will work. The reality is - that never works.

Trans people need to treat our lives with the same urgency that we approached the HIV/AIDS crisis. We didnโ€™t apologize for our demands because our siblings were DYING. Just like now.

21.06.2025 06:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Illinois has enshrined protections to meet this very moment.

In a time of increasing overreach and hateful rhetoric, it's more important than ever to reaffirm our commitment to the rights and dignity of the LGBTQ+ community.

You have a home here always.

18.06.2025 15:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 16814    ๐Ÿ” 3598    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 246    ๐Ÿ“Œ 269
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A trans woman, forced to compete against men, swims topless in protest Anne Isabella Coombes stood up to Swim England's gender policies in an innovative way.

A trans woman, forced to compete against men, swims topless in protest

www.out.com/gay-athl...

#transgender #trans #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA

18.06.2025 18:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 479    ๐Ÿ” 106    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 7    ๐Ÿ“Œ 30
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Munroe Bergdorf On Trump 2.0 And The War On Woke: โ€œYour Exhaustion Is Precisely The Pointโ€ โ€œTo me, witnessing Trumpโ€™s accelerated targeting of trans people feels like looking into the future and seeing what will happen to our politics here โ€“ if we donโ€™t start fighting back together.โ€

โ€œIn controlling trans peopleโ€™s freedom of identity, the establishment is sending a warning shot to all of those who dare to live a life outside of prescribed gender roles and expectations. Freedom for trans people, ultimately, means freedom for everyone.โ€

Freedoms for all of us require solidarity.

01.02.2025 16:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 378    ๐Ÿ” 140    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 4
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Conspiracy theorist Alex Jones accused of hiding money from Sandy Hook families U.S. bankruptcy Trustee Christopher Murray has filed three suits accusing Infowars host Alex Jones of hiding millions of dollars in cash and property.

U.S. bankruptcy Trustee Christopher Murray has filed three suits accusing Infowars host Alex Jones of hiding millions of dollars in cash and property. https://n.pr/3STi0x3

18.06.2025 10:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 8941    ๐Ÿ” 2638    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 439    ๐Ÿ“Œ 233

Former U.S. Amb. to Ukraineย Bridget Brink hasย jumped into the Democratic primary for Michigan's 7th Congressional District.

Brinkย left her post in protest of Trumpโ€™s policies in April and is now looking to unseat GOP Rep.ย Tom Barrett. "It's important to fight for democracy at home," sheย tells NYT.

18.06.2025 19:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1608    ๐Ÿ” 309    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 17    ๐Ÿ“Œ 13

If you are a young trans person and have seen todayโ€™s massively wrong SCOTUS decision, do not give up. If you can, get yourself to a safe state. If you canโ€™t, find ways to disrupt the systems where you live. And remember - we exist. We have always existed. We will always exist.

18.06.2025 19:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 10    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Prescribing such high doses of testosterone to girls induces โ€œhyperandrogenism,โ€ which can cause increased cardiovascular risk, โ€œirreversible changes to the vocal cords,โ€
โ€œclitoromegaly and atrophy of the lining of the uterus and
vagina,โ€ as well as โ€œovarian and breast cancer.โ€ Id., at 772โ€“
779. Giving high doses of estrogen to boys induces โ€œhyperestrogenemia,โ€ which can produce similarly severe side effects including, among other things, increased cardiovascular risk, breast cancer, and sexual dysfunction. Id., at 779โ€“
781. And, for girls and boys alike, โ€œit is generally accepted,
even by advocates of transgender hormone therapy, that
hormonal treatment impairs fertility, which may be irreversible.โ€ Id., at 520โ€“521; accord, W. Hembree et al., Endocrine Treatment of Gender-Dysphoric/Gender-Incongruent
Persons: An Endocrine Society Clinical Practice Guideline,
102 J. Clinical Endocrinology & Metabolism 3869, 3882
(2017) (ES Guidelines).

Prescribing such high doses of testosterone to girls induces โ€œhyperandrogenism,โ€ which can cause increased cardiovascular risk, โ€œirreversible changes to the vocal cords,โ€ โ€œclitoromegaly and atrophy of the lining of the uterus and vagina,โ€ as well as โ€œovarian and breast cancer.โ€ Id., at 772โ€“ 779. Giving high doses of estrogen to boys induces โ€œhyperestrogenemia,โ€ which can produce similarly severe side effects including, among other things, increased cardiovascular risk, breast cancer, and sexual dysfunction. Id., at 779โ€“ 781. And, for girls and boys alike, โ€œit is generally accepted, even by advocates of transgender hormone therapy, that hormonal treatment impairs fertility, which may be irreversible.โ€ Id., at 520โ€“521; accord, W. Hembree et al., Endocrine Treatment of Gender-Dysphoric/Gender-Incongruent Persons: An Endocrine Society Clinical Practice Guideline, 102 J. Clinical Endocrinology & Metabolism 3869, 3882 (2017) (ES Guidelines).

this, from Thomas, is another example of the transphobes citing *the effects we want* as negatives and excluding any and all context. "Irreversible changes to the vocal cords" is what I WANT out of T.

The Cardio risk is in line with cis men. Same with the cancer risk. It's all bullshit.

18.06.2025 19:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 133    ๐Ÿ” 29    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 7    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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All 50 States Participate in Anti-Trump 'No Kings' Protests โ€” See Photos The protests took place in New York, Atlanta, Dallas, and beyond.

www.teenvogue.com/gallery/the-...

14.06.2025 21:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 12    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Given that the shooter/murderer was impersonating a police officer, every person claiming to be ICE /HSI/FBI/Military/LEO must be REQUIRED to show valid ID at all times. Also, just assume that all of them are murderers or complicit.
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14.06.2025 16:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 8    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The targeted shootings of Democratic politicians in Minnesota is a stark reminder of why we protest. Does it remind you of anything? Putin killing Navalny or any of his political rivals? This is an attempt to silence the majority of people who oppose this regime.
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14.06.2025 16:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Iโ€™d like to be added.

14.06.2025 16:53 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Lots of excellent folks for you to follow. go.bsky.app/UAtsVTH

14.06.2025 16:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

"The assassin was masquerading as a cop"

If they don't know his identity, how are they sure he isn't a cop? Sincere question.

14.06.2025 16:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1352    ๐Ÿ” 199    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 51    ๐Ÿ“Œ 10
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NO KINGS (feat. Sarah Parker; John Fugelsang) Podcast Episode ยท The Daily Beans ยท 06/13/2025 ยท 1h 22m

NEW: Join us today for everything you need to know about safely protesting! Plus, troops are pissed about their deployment to Los Angeles. News, with swearing! Free where you get 'em: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/t...

13.06.2025 19:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 982    ๐Ÿ” 321    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 20    ๐Ÿ“Œ 6
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Democratic Rep. Sara Jacobs exposes Pete Hegsethโ€™s anti-trans hypocrisy during embarrassing House hearing She got him to commend the service of three women before revealing that they're transgender.

www.advocate.com/politics/heg...

13.06.2025 20:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Seems on-brand.

12.06.2025 03:19 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Welcome to the World Cup in Donald Trumpโ€™s America!

12.06.2025 01:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5964    ๐Ÿ” 1839    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 376    ๐Ÿ“Œ 150
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What they arenโ€™t showing on Fox News

12.06.2025 00:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 53246    ๐Ÿ” 13461    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 657    ๐Ÿ“Œ 539

The only Kings I care about are Drag Kings and Trans Man Kings.

Existence is resistance.

#existenceisresistance #dragkings #transkings

12.06.2025 03:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 7    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

If you missed last nightโ€™s Tony Awards, do yourself a favor and go find them streaming somewhere. It will uplift you, fill you full of queer joy, and let you celebrate queer excellence for a few hours. Plus, Cynthia Erivo is perfection.

09.06.2025 21:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Nothing to see here.

JFC

09.06.2025 21:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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